What's your favorite thing about being caged?

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Re: What's your favorite thing about being caged?

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I think what I like most is the feeling of being "hugged" 24/7 down there, it keeps my sex drive in overdrive. I have no problem denying myself orgasms through will power alone, so it's not that. But having the raging sex drive and no easy access to my hard dick maintains a cycle of intense frustration. Add some regular fondling and teasing about being locked away and I just feel like superman all the time.
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First it was the kink of denial
Two years later, it is the constant low grade sexual stimulation. She use more and more the harness and the VixSkin (rather than my genuine dildo). So less and less BigO for me but I never know when it is going to be the BigO-day. Close to an addiction
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I love that it stops me from masturbating. I love that quality of sex I have with my wife of 30 years has skyrocketed for both of us. I masturbate a ton. I know that I get an endorphin hit from it. It is one of the reasons I do masterbate. After that hit my mood crashes and I get crabby and or depressed. I want to be having sex with someone else not my hand and def not watching porn. Im 50 years old and I dont think I have gone 3 days without an orgasm EVER in my life from the time I was about 14. Jacking off has negatively impacted with my mood for years. I love giving up that control to my wife who wants to control it and have me save all that energy for her. I love how I feel torwards her. There is no more sexual resentment. (Cant explain it. You would think it is worse.. it isnt. Im 1000x nicer she knows it and loves that) I like seeing my key on a necklace around her neck.

When I bought that first cage secretly as a joke 2 years ago. I didnt think things would escalate to where I am now. (Wife Legit loving it, custom cage and 24/7 locked)
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DrPinotNoir wrote: Sat Feb 12, 2022 11:50 am custom cage and 24/7 locked)
So the Jail Bird (with security screw) arrived and is in place?

I look forward to your future reports.
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My absolute favorite part about being caged is when my girlfriend locks me up and then tells me she is going to peg my tight ass and try to make me cum in the cage. She told me it's her goal to get me to cum in the cage just from getting fucked in the ass lol. I've gotten very close but it hasn't happened just yet. Really can't wait til it happens so she can see me cum like a little bitch lol
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Midmobear wrote: Thu Feb 10, 2022 12:12 pm
Definitely understand all of that! The precum drip throughout the day is my favorite too.
Dripping is definitely moving up my list of favorites now that I've been locked up full time just a little bit. I've had two big drips in three days. This wasn't what I expected, since I'm 67, haven't had a prostate massage, or gotten that aroused over anything. I guess that just a certain amount of gentle expansion and relaxation eventually leads to this sort of "self expression."

But I think that a better term might be drooling, not dripping, given the way that it comes out in strands, and is a cumpleat surprise when it happens.
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Laceyfemme wrote: Mon Feb 14, 2022 12:55 pm
Midmobear wrote: Thu Feb 10, 2022 12:12 pm
Definitely understand all of that! The precum drip throughout the day is my favorite too.
Dripping is definitely moving up my list of favorites now that I've been locked up full time just a little bit. I've had two big drips in three days. This wasn't what I expected, since I'm 67, haven't had a prostate massage, or gotten that aroused over anything. I guess that just a certain amount of gentle expansion and relaxation eventually leads to this sort of "self expression."

But I think that a better term might be drooling, not dripping, given the way that it comes out in strands, and is a cumpleat surprise when it happens.
True all around! I always have small leaks throughout the first day that move into long drooling strands by day two. Haven't gone longer than that yet, I'm curious what a week would be like.
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I love having my balls stretch and fondled but my reason for the cage is im constantly horney as on testosterone jabs.My wife is a once a week perso but could be twice a day so its for her comfort I guess.
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Seriously new, still in the baby steps phase. But for me the appeal is giving the control to my wife/KH. We're still trying to see how it fits into our life, short/long term is yet to be determined...
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The cage keeps me honest and there is no stroking going on without her permission. Yes, I could escape somehow but the cage is enough of a deterrent that I don't want to challenge it. I have enough experience to know that when the cage is off, I'm going to lapse into masturbation. I just do.

Staying orgasm-free makes every opportunity to talk to her better. Every simple touch by her more special. The air smells sweeter. Whatever analogy works for you. I want physical pleasure and she is the object of that desire. I thought this was a silly kink when I first read about it and the accounts of people go months (or years) without orgasm seemed made up.

I get it now. When I outside of the cage now it just feels odd and awkward until I'm locked back up. It is normal now.
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