"Hello world" thread

[LockedNick]

Hi everyone.

I’m 35, my wife is 46 and we’re both from the Scotland. We’ve been married for 18 months and were together a couple of years before that.

The main reason I’m here is that I have a desire to introduce male chastity. I honestly feel that I can discuss pretty much anything with my wife but I still struggle to introduce this topic. I don’t want to freak her out and I seriously doubt my wife even knows such a thing exists.

She’s relatively vanilla but does enjoy mild tease and denial with me. In a previous casual relationship I was locked and introduced it through watching porn together and discussing chastity. My wife does not watch or enjoy porn at all so that approach is out.

So now I’m here I’m curious to see how others have respectfully introduced chastity to their vanilla wives.

[TwistedMister]

Welcome, gentlemen...as far as 'introducing' it, have a look through the forums. I'm pretty sure there are more than a few posts on it. After you've had a look around, maybe used the search feature a bit, if you have more questions then ask away.

[LockedNick]

Thanks for the tips @TwistedMister.

I’ve already seen a couple of posts and am relieved to see they’re not the ‘surprise your wife by presenting yourself locked up in a device, wearing a collar and lead’ variety. I’ve got research to do to find one that chimes.

[coloradonewbies]

Thanks Twisted. I was thinking to introduce the idea the night before she left on a trip. Then be caged for a few days while gone so she would have some time to consider it.....but the trip got canceled. So now I am thinking of other ways.

[coloradonewbies]

@Mikejames My wife was also very vanilla a little less than 2 years ago. I brought up chastity by giving her a book on the subject. It took her 4 days to read it and she has kept me locked almost 24/7 since then.

@kittensboytoy. What was the book you shared, if I may ask?

[locked4her55]

Welcome to our new members.

coloradonewbies & LockedNick, I found this book, Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders by Lucy Fairbourne on Amazon and gave it to my wife after she discovered I had already purchased a device and was wearing it. This for us would have been a smoother transition if I have purchased the book before the device.

Anyway she told me the book really helped her understand what I was trying to accomplish.

Be open, honest and realize that locking a CD on for any period will change and alter your world. For your Keyholder, it's just another day.

Wearing a CD might be hard (or not ) to keep things "normal" and not overwhelming.

Good luck.

[coloradonewbies]

Thank you, locked4her. I would love to ask some other questions sometime when I am fully verified.

[Zoeyzowzow]

Hi I’m a dommie and I love chastity I would love to play with woman but I mostly play with men I love how obedient they get and how loving they are

[Trae_M]

Hello All-

Happily married for 30 years, I'm 54 my wife 50. I was just introduced to chastity by my wife last month on her birthday. She purchased a steel cage for her birthday present to herself and I was told to wear it. I was also told start reading up.

[Shogunronin]

Hello everyone

I am 34 from the UK. I always thought about chastity for a few years but only recently decided to step into the ring and get started. I bought my first device a few days ago. I am a real person and enjoyed the 'rabbit hunt'. I hope to make good friends here. Some of my interests include; playing the guitar, weight lifting, reading philosophy and psychology books.

When some people see my username they think how can a 'shogun' be a 'ronin' since they're part of two different clans. I can easily clear this up though; since 'Ronin' is my name. I enjoy living in a suspension of contradiction.