Becoming His Thumpee wrote: ↑Sat Sep 19, 2020 8:48 pm
...My hesitancy is i have trouble picturing a sex life without an orgasm...I am aftraid it would be massive frustration. He says it woukd be the opposite in time...he has an enormous labido and constantly wants sex..so I am not sure I'd have time to get frustrated...
How do you think that would work out for you? Don't you think you would want to get your rocks off once in a while? Having no previous experience with device enforced chastity, do you think you really want to go from 0 to permanently locked all in one go? Personally, I have no idea how it would be, but could you handle getting your ass plowed all the time while your dick remains caged and gets no attention at all?
Seems to me that you might want to approach this idea just a little more slowly, with a little negotiation. It shouldn't be all about one and nothing for the other. If your needs aren't getting met too, then I don't see how it would work out very well in the long run.
04/07/19 "And then I 'punished' you by making you lick my pussy after I let my other 'boy' fuck me." --Mrs. Twisted
I’ve been self-locked for most of the last 2 yrs. My 2nd anniversary was on Sept 18. I started because I couldn’t stop masturbating and watching porn. It was out of control. I was staying up late, getting up in the middle of the night or early in the morning to do it, and doing it at work. As a result I wasn’t being responsible to myself or family, nor doing the things I needed to do. Just couldn't take it anymore. So in a draconian move I went to a local adult store, bought a cage, and sat in the parking lot locking myself up. The ultimate behavior modification approach.
These last 2yrs have been a learning experience. While it’s definitely helped me control my behavior, I’ve also learned I enjoy being locked. It’s a part of me now. I’d like to further explore this and learn from others. Hopefully my experiences will be of value to others too. Thanks, Caged4Good!
Welcome to @JLai and @Becoming His Thumpee! @Becoming His Thumpee, I'll second the advice you already read. Think long and hard before agreeing to total lock up.
Kitten's Boy Toy I'm Kitten's property and She keeps Her property secure in a Jail Bird!
This is Al from Southern California, 37, married for 19 years now and happily caged (on and off) for the last 3 or 4 years. KH/wife really enjoys controlling me, so much that there’s already been talks about going permanently
BB and I have been together over eight years now, although I have known him over twenty years. I have been in charge of his orgasms for probably the last six of those years, on the honour system, but after a bit of discussion recently finally ordered him a device. We have talked about it for years but the time just felt right - particularly as we don’t live together, and recent lockdown and restrictions on seeing each other has focused our minds a bit.
Although still waiting for the device to arrive, could I have access to the Keyholders area please?
Welcome to our world @au831209 and @BBsMS. @BBsMS, is this a joint account that you both will be using? If it is, you may have to set up another account for one of you as we mortals are not allowed to see what the Goddesses write in the keyholders area.
Kitten's Boy Toy I'm Kitten's property and She keeps Her property secure in a Jail Bird!
Hello, no, the account is just for me. BB doesn’t really do social media, although I might try and talk him into it once he is experiencing being locked.
So I hope I'm doing this right
Jello, I am a 48 year old male in a relationship where the wife goes and has affairs, witu my approval of courae, and I stay monogamous to her and wear a steel chastity cage when she's out.
I have several questions and thoughts and i jopeni get access to ask.
Thanks for reading and please let know if thosnos the correct place to post
