"Hello world" thread

[TwistedMister]

Happy to find a forum that's strictly chastity related, as I do not belong to any overlapping communities.

Welcome to the forum.

What do you mean by "strictly chastity related"?

Thanks

Other sites seem to have a bdsm or sissy focus which are not my thing. Didn't find much educational info on devices, methods, etc until I checked this forum out.

Ah, well, we do talk about other stuff here, but we don't go around acting 'in character' or expecting others to 'play' to our kinks, if that's what you mean.

[HubbyNew2It]

Welcome to the CF Felere, HubbyNew2It, matet57, Queensman114 & naty. Happy to have you join our little group.

Thank you. We are looking for help in finding a good long term device.

[khorina]

Hi there I've been around chastity for some time, but I'm new to this forum. I've had some periods of chastity, the longest was around 1.5 years then broke it then a few months after that. Currently 6 months in. I'll try to be a positive member.

[Locked_husband]

Good afternoon all,

My beautiful wife and I, have been married for a year now we are both in our 20's and expecting our first child soon. We live in the UK (Midland, so anyone who is in the midlands PM me).

We have tried chastity a couple of times but it didn't last very long. She has always been worried about the effects on fertility. We are both involved with farming which so far hasn't been a problem, bar getting over the old gate and squashing something. We have a CB6000s in pink.

After masturbating one morning. I sat there not feeling a bit meh. I realised that I had been putting more effort in to watching porn and masturbating than I had into my marriage and my new wife. I realised I had been grumpy and not as loving as I had been. It was at this point I penned a letter to my wife (I have put this in another post). So last Friday 22nd May 2020, I put on my little cage. Set the letter down next to may wife with a cup of tea and waited for a reply. To my delight and surprise she was over the moon about this. And was looking forward to it.

I got home from work and we spoke about it. Since then I have been out once. Under supervision of course to clean my self the the CB6000s. This was all fine until trying to get it back on. Luckily I have a high pain tolerance so I squeezed my rather excited member back into the cage following some advice from previous posts on here about moving down a size as to try and reduce the amount of plastic in my pants.

Here to the future

Love J

[aksun]

Hello Friends, My wife (of 18 years) and I started down this road in January. Chastity has really helped our marriage and this forum (I have been lurking for a long time) has really helped! Started off in a HT and have been in a jailbird for the past few weeks. Looking forward to my wife joining this forum soon. :>

[KittensBoyToy]

Wow! I need to keep up with this thread more often. Fifteen new members in the last 2 weeks. I won't try to list them all rather say howdy and welcome to all, especially the new ladies.

[Cagedup]

Yet another newbie looking for help and answers to questions, very glad this forum exists. Just getting started and am unsure about what I am experiencing.

[Jens_Property]

Hi everybody,
45 year old guy here, married with one son. We've been married now for almost 19 years, but together for almost 26. Still love each other, but lately between working, housework, baseball for my son and so on, our sex life has gotten pretty stale to say the least. Non existent would be a better description I'd say. I found myself taking care of things myself if you get my drift. It just seemed easier to rub one out than sex since we're both always tired, sore from work etc.
Recently though, a guy I work with confided in me that every so often his wife would make him wear a chastity cage for a month at a time, so he'd be extremely excited to have sex with her after being denied for so long. He didn't seem too happy about it, but said the sex when they finally took it off was amazing and better than it had been in a long time.
So it got me thinking, maybe that's something my wife and I should do. I do find myself a sexually submissive person, always eager to please but it doesn't matter to me if I got off. So earlier last week I suggested it to my wife, jokingly at first, but got serious and said I would do that for her if she'd be interested. She definitely seems interested and asked how long I'd wear it for. I told her that's entirely up to her, and I could see the wheels turning. I told her she could lock me up, and only release me when she wanted sex, or as a reward for completing tasks or something. The rules would be up to her, and my release would only be hers to give. Her face lit up, then an evil grin and she told me I'd better hope she doesn't lose the key lol
So long story short....I ordered one a few nights ago, and I'm actually eager to try it out. I said before I give her the key, I'd like to try it out for a week, to see how comfortable it is first. It's a 4 ring one with a stainless steel tube that goes down my urethra, but it's removable if it's not comfortable. That was her idea, as an added torment, so I'd feel it moving inside myself and most likely get excited constantly. She's excited to see me squirm when I start to get hard, but am unable to.
So hopefully this will be an interesting way to bring us closer together sexually. It's definitely worth a try. What do I have to lose?
Anyways, just wanted to say hi and introduce myself before I started browsing the forums. Thanks for accepting me!

[TwistedMister]

Welcome gentlemen.

@cmjdjm1, sounds like you're one of the 'lucky' ones, having a partner who is eager to get involved.

[Jens_Property]

Welcome gentlemen.

@cmjdjm1, sounds like you're one of the 'lucky' ones, having a partner who is eager to get involved.

'lucky' might be dependent on how long she keeps me in it lol. I have a feeling that so long as I'm comfortable in it, she's going to spend quite a long time (weeks or longer?) keeping me locked up to tease me and drive me wild. Surprisingly, I think I'm ok with that. I'd go so far as to say I'm excited to see how long I can last before I'm begging to get let out. Fingers crossed this all goes well!