Hello - My husband and I have been married for many years and we are exploring the use of a chastity device for him. My husband had a strong tendency for FLR when we married, but did not reveal this to me for several years, and then it came as a big shock. Fast-forward 20+years, and we have found our own way, with give and take as strong & long relationships require. I am/was actually pretty vanilla, but have been drawn into a female led relationship (FLR) as the sexual side of our relationship has evolved.
We do not own a chastity device - yet- so I am here to gain some comfort with the idea. I feel better after reading your "rules" for this site and commend you for establishing a forum based on civil discussion for people like me. I like the "it's like chatting over coffee" idea. Other than my husband, I know no one who is involved in FLR or chastity. I tried the SMTR site, and just couldn't get into it. I'm not one to share about the private aspects of our life. I am here to talk with other women on the "keyholders" forum, but I respect that it will take a few posts before I am allowed into that site. That's all good - I appreciate the strong boundaries. M
Darlingmsm wrote: ↑Sun Mar 15, 2020 3:14 pm
Hello - My husband and I have been married for many years and we are exploring the use of a chastity device for him. My husband had a strong tendency for FLR when we married, but did not reveal this to me for several years, and then it came as a big shock. Fast-forward 20+years, and we have found our own way, with give and take as strong & long relationships require. I am/was actually pretty vanilla, but have been drawn into a female led relationship (FLR) as the sexual side of our relationship has evolved.
We do not own a chastity device - yet- so I am here to gain some comfort with the idea. I feel better after reading your "rules" for this site and commend you for establishing a forum based on civil discussion for people like me. I like the "it's like chatting over coffee" idea. Other than my husband, I know no one who is involved in FLR or chastity. I tried the SMTR site, and just couldn't get into it. I'm not one to share about the private aspects of our life. I am here to talk with other women on the "keyholders" forum, but I respect that it will take a few posts before I am allowed into that site. That's all good - I appreciate the strong boundaries. M
Thanks for joining Darling
I know I'm new here, but I'll vouch for her!
Caged 24/7 since March 1,2025. Locked in a Cherry Keeper Stub
i am a submissive male who is owned by MsReneeLane (early days, still under probation) and currently locked in Screw Me If You Can cock cage. As someone who has been locked in a dozen different types of chastity devices over the years, including a William Jones belt, this is surprisingly comfortable for long term wear. And those spikes...!
Very much looking forward to connecting with the community hear, it looks to be quite active.
Darlingmsm wrote: ↑Sun Mar 15, 2020 3:14 pm
...Other than my husband, I know no one who is involved in FLR or chastity. I tried the SMTR site, and just couldn't get into it. I'm not one to share about the private aspects of our life. I am here to talk with other women on the "keyholders" forum, but I respect that it will take a few posts before I am allowed into that site...
You should be able to see the Keyholder forum now.
04/07/19 "And then I 'punished' you by making you lick my pussy after I let my other 'boy' fuck me." --Mrs. Twisted
@LockedFgBerlin welcome to the site. Your story sounds very interesting. I will look forward to reading your posts about your transformation with chastity.
There are some underlying commonalities we all share. But everyone has their own story.
A big Texas HOWDY to our newest members @LockedFgBerlin, @Darlingmsm, and @maniform.
@Darlingmsm, my Mistress is Kitten and she is fairly active on the forum as are several of the other ladies. I'm sure you will find them all very helpful as you explore the idea of your husbands chastity.
Kitten's Boy Toy I'm Kitten's property and She keeps Her property secure in a Jail Bird!
Yes, I am a real person. I've been practicing chastity for a couple of years primarily as a way to control my masturbation habit. My beautiful wife is on board with this and happily hides my keys.
Curtis.
Pennsylvania, USA
Kilted and caged. Currently in a Cherry Keeper with Headlock.
M
