Chastity and our wedding night

[Slave Richard]

Hi everyone, I am looking for some creative ideas.

My Mistress and I are getting married at the end of July, and she told me recently that I will only be allowed to have sex with her on our wedding night. Obviously I want our wedding to be beautiful and focus on our love for each other rather than sex and chastity. However, my Mistress and I both feel that we should incorporate something to do with chastity into our wedding night, to be part of the celebration. It should be something subtle, that we can do in front of our guest, but only we will know what the true meaning is. It can be anything from an action to saying something in my speech.

Would love to hear your ideas on this

Thanks

[Tom Allen]

You can do a simple "symbolic" exchanging of gifts, perhaps a lock and a key.

[sirmebane]

A thought comes to mind that it would be easy enough to present her with a single long stem rose with the key inserted in the petals. You could even take a knee for the presentation for dramatic effect.

Your best man and her bridesmaid would likely have to guard the key or you could leave the key completely out of it and just use the symbolism of the rose from bended knee.

Having her pin the key to her undergarments would also include her bridal party but might offer some options to include it in the ceremony.

I like the idea that you both want to consummate the marriage on your wedding night or even keeping you free and available for the entire honeymoon but locking you up before you return to the 'real world' would be best for all concerned.

I'm so jealous of your situation. I wish my wife and I had discovered chastity when we got married. We're 20 years late to the game but it has been a wonderful intimacy for us.

Congratulations on your coming nuptials!

[Tom Allen]

I like the idea that you both want to consummate the marriage on your wedding night or even keeping you free and available for the entire honeymoon but locking you up before you return to the 'real world' would be best for all concerned.

That's a great image.

[KittensBoyToy]

If you do the traditional garter toss to the waiting single males the key could be attached to it. You might have to explain the key when the garter is returned to you!

[Slave Richard]

Thanks everyone, some great ideas. Hopefully we get some more to make the night even more special

[Devoted2Her]

A lot of keyholders I have seen online wear the key on an ankle bracelet, maybe while doing the garter, you could simultaneously put the key on a chain around her ankle?

[Hungry_Pete]

Ok, this is something she may find nice and not expected....

Write up a formal transfer of your penis to her so that it's really her property. Give it to her in an envelope with the chastity key back at the hotel. Make it her property officially and let her know you are ok with it being locked up 24/7 permanently.

You could also consummate the marriage using a nice big strap-on while your caged dick stays put away.

Is she going to cuck you?

She could give the best man or other friend a BJ while you two are consummating with the strap-on.

[Tom Allen]

Okay, I'm going to be "that guy" again.

I read the original post, and this is what I saw as the main point:

Obviously I want our wedding to be beautiful and focus on our love for each other rather than sex and chastity. However, my Mistress and I both feel that we should incorporate something to do with chastity into our wedding night, to be part of the celebration. It should be something subtle, that we can do in front of our guest,

From there, you managed to turn it into:

You could also consummate the marriage using a nice big strap-on while your caged dick stays put away.

Is she going to cuck you?

She could give the best man or other friend a BJ while you two are consummating with the strap-on.

Literally not a single one of these things are anything like what @Slave Richard asked about.

There's something about this kink that draws in guys (it's always guys) that are so into their own fantasies that they constantly project those onto every question or situation that anyone else asks about, and the overwhelming majority of times that I see this, it's a cuck fantasy.

Again, as we state in the forum rules:

This group was formed because a lot of us in the community wanted a place where we could go to talk about "enforced" chastity, OD, and T&D without the side distractions of dealing with online personae that is so common in the kink community. The discussions here will not play to your desire to be a slave/submissive/sissy (or whatever), we don't call the women "Mistress," and we will not indulge your fantasies. Instead, we encourage people to ask questions and offer advice in a manner that would be more appropriate to just chatting over coffee in person. It's not as kinky, but we think that it's probably more helpful.

Yes, I'm ranting a bit here. The guy asked about a marriage ceremony, and your single post in this group projected your Tumblr / PornHub driven fantasies onto it.

/rant

[Slave Richard]

@Tom Allen Fuck, I don't know if swearing is allowed, but fuck, thanks, you get it. Yes chastity is a kink, but it's something deeper than that. The last thing I want to do is to turn our wedding day into a chastity themed fuck party.

No she isn't going to cuck me, nor will she ever, we love each other and we both feel that is overstepping the bounds of our relationship.

I thought about wearing cufflinks with her initials on, MT (Mistress Tiffany) and the morning of the wedding leaving her a gift with an ankle bracelet with a key and a lock on it.