TwistedMister wrote:
For some strange reason I have this picture in my head, that she is fairly attractive with buns that one would think about for a while...
In a perfect world, she would have looked like Sofia Vergara, but since life is not like the movies, she was only a moderately attractive, and a bit on the heavier side, and sliding into middle age.
I quit worrying about the bulge. Use to be a concern. If people think I have a little extra size down there, what does it matter. My cage is a small Steelworxx device, and in regular briefs, I dealt with pinching problems. It wasn't the device, it was that my package was held between my legs. Then I found some underwear that has a pouch that holds you up and forward. Most comfortable design I have ever worn. The consequences of that is your package can be noticeable, especially in lightweight gym shorts. Under heavier jeans fabric, it is not nearly as noticeable. There are several brands of this design but the one I have is Ergowear. I have caught some glancing looks at my crotch, but what the heck. Let them think I've got a good package and my wife is a lucky woman.
My Custom Chastity Ghost with a cable tie rather than padlock seems invisible. As somebody else said, it merely makes me look slightly better hung than I am.
I wear a jailbird now and it's quite noticeable. Even with a security screw. I'll have to try the cbk's. How often do you have to take the cbk's off to clean? My jailbird I only take off once a month. The bars let me clean well with out removing.
I had a conversation in the recent past about the curse of being larger than average. I don't need to look like I'm well endowed. I'm genuinely considering having surgery to get prosthetic testicles in a smaller size and if they can I wouldn't mind getting my penis shortened and a little girth taken off. This is not a fetish thing. My penis and testicles are so big that even when I'm not wearing a cage people often ask me if I am erect. People will stare at my crotch and I have had girls and women directly asked me if I have a boner. I don't like having such a big penis. It's been nothing but an inconvenience in my life. Only about one in ten women can handle what I have. It's really not all it's cracked up to be
I have a CB-6000S and it's not noticeable under normal street clothes. I feel more comfortable wearing jockstraps when caged - I think that would help. Having said that, in gym clothes, you CAN see the outline of the lock.
I've used both the CB 6000s and the HT2 and I can't really tell the difference. Neither are concealed enough for me to be completely comfortable.
I'm a little self conscious about my package because I'm not tall at 5'9'' and I'm pretty fit—which means there's not much other stuff to hide a slightly bigger bulge. I live in a warm climate and so I'm often in shorts. When I sit down the tube will go to one side or the other and unless I'm sitting at a table there can be a noticeable bulge on one thigh or the other. Depending on how comfortable I am on that day I can forget to check. I saw at least one coworker (female) checking things out down there and when I noticed her noticing me she shot me a strange look.
I know it should be "to each their own" and if I was ever pressed I'm sure that's what would come out of my mouth. The problem is concealment issues make my keyholder a little self conscious as well and I think it contributes to her tepid interest in having me sport a device.
However, like a certain NJ/NY hotel magnate, I'm going to double—no wait, triple down and order a custom steel device that will end up being 10-15mm shorter than the 6000s. That should do the trick.
