Hello again - Day 13 after a long break

[fuzzydunlop]

It's been a while since I posted because we haven't been playing with orgasm denial that much the last few months, maybe longer than that. We had a lot of sex in February, including hotel sex, Valentine's Day sex, and birthday sex. We even had sex at a sex club (with each other). We are in our 40's, with a busy family life, so it's rare that the frequency is that good.

Things have started to change since the sex club. It sometimes seems like denial starts without any real plan or goals. It's now been almost 3 weeks since we had sex, and about 2 weeks since my last intercourse. There's been more active tease and denial, or she's started to MB around me more.

I know this can be kind of a taboo topic, but we've dabbled with cuckolding - a little. It goes together with my D/s fantasies. She has a friend she checks guys out with. Makes me nervous, and turned on at the same time. We also have plans for some phone sex, and to attend a munch in the near future. We will see how it goes.

Odds are, we break the denial streak on Friday. I'm excited, but also unnerved about how I might feel after coming down from the high. We will see how it goes.

[locked4her55]

Either way, welcome back.

[LucidDreamer]

Good luck!

New on the journey here.

Incidentally my wife & I have an open relationship although only she's made "good" on it. That was a couple years ago and aside from occasionally remembering how hot it was when it comes up, it's changed nothing. (Requirement: a play partner mature enough to PLAY and not get emotionally involved. We never had a doubt with the person she was playing with.)

Curious about your experience at the sex club, can you share your city? My wife & I both fantasize about it but I guess we're looking for something ... not sleazy. We have a few sex clubs in my city (Vancouver) but from what I've read about them in reviews, fetlife etc, "Dirty" is polite. What was it like? Would you do it again?

[fuzzydunlop]

Good luck!

New on the journey here.

Incidentally my wife & I have an open relationship although only she's made "good" on it. That was a couple years ago and aside from occasionally remembering how hot it was when it comes up, it's changed nothing. (Requirement: a play partner mature enough to PLAY and not get emotionally involved. We never had a doubt with the person she was playing with.)

Curious about your experience at the sex club, can you share your city? My wife & I both fantasize about it but I guess we're looking for something ... not sleazy. We have a few sex clubs in my city (Vancouver) but from what I've read about them in reviews, fetlife etc, "Dirty" is polite. What was it like? Would you do it again?

Near Chicago. We've been to various sex clubs and expectations matter. What's sleazy to one may not be to another. For us, room to play, not play, socialize be anonymous, is all key. We've been to large and anonymous places, and places that were like a home. Night club atmosphere helps because less pressure.