How quickly are you locked up after orgasm?

[wishful4]

Last evening, my KH/Spouse and I were discussing how quickly I should be locked up after being allowed a full orgasm. She is concerned that I will have another unauthorized release as I did about a week after my Christmas orgasm. I told her my experience has been that the desire to masturbate starts about 5-7 days after a full blown orgasm. She wants to give me a little break in between lockups, but not too much and she does not want to have to keep an eye on me all the time. I promised to tell her immediately when I start to feel the "itch" and I fully intend to keep my promise. I thought this would be a good poll to let her know what other experience in this area.

[danj]

Should be an interesting poll. I tend to have the most problems resisting masturbation the first 1-2 days after an allowed orgasm. It's almost like I'm still "full", and need to release more. While I certainly get worked up as the days go by, my willpower seems stronger after 4 or 5 days. At that point I want to cum, but my desire to not cum without permission is usually more powerful than the urge to cheat.

[michaelnmelissa]

At the most I've been allowed 24 hours but that was awhile ago. Lately, Melissa likes me locked up almost immediately after any sexual activity. She does not believe in giving me a break from the device and, since it is so comfortable, I never feel a need for one.

Michael

[Tom Allen]

It varies for us. Sometimes, it's immediately. Sometimes I'm unlocked, say, on a Saturday morning, and we'll have some fun until she locks me back up on Monday morning. Sometimes, though, I'm out for a while because I've already been locked for weeks or months, and she wants some time with the real thing instead of the strapon.

[danj]

...she wants some time with the real thing instead of the strapon.

That is one thing that keeps me out of longer lock-ups...my wife has zero interest in strap-ons. While the thought of using one on her does turn me on, I think the cock is very happy that she prefers the real thing!

[Tom Allen]

That is one thing that keeps me out of longer lock-ups...my wife has zero interest in strap-ons.

Have you ever tried them, or perhaps tried a dildo?

With us, it was a progression. We tried augmenting oral with a dildo, then I tried holding the dildo in place and just entering her, then we tried a few other models, and finally we were just, like, "Oh, what the hell, might as well try it," and it went downhill from there.

[Locked by LRC]

Like Tom Allen it varies. Sometimes I will still have the drops woking out after an orgasm and LRC will tell me to put my cage on. No clean-up until after the cage is on. Sometimes I will be allowed out until one of us has to leave the house. She makes this decision and I gave up a long time ago trying to predict this. This is why wherever I am allowed to orgasm I have to have my chastity device nearby.

Like her plan for my next orgasm, this keeps me guessing and this is the way LRC says she wants it.

[prthomas]

For me, it's generally no later than the next morning after sex. So if it's on a Friday night, then I am locked first thing Saturday. If it is Saturday morning, then I am generally allowed the entire day to remain unlocked before Sunday morning.

Sometimes on a Saturday, she'll unlock me for sex without allowing me to orgasm. Then, I have to lock back up and take her shopping and lunch, etc. After lunch, we'll come back and have another session. Finally, after dinner or late in the day, she'll let me have my release. Those are blissfully painful days... she particularly enjoys doing that after a long lockup period.

[celticqueens_sub]

That is one thing that keeps me out of longer lock-ups...my wife has zero interest in strap-ons.

Have you ever tried them, or perhaps tried a dildo?

With us, it was a progression. We tried augmenting oral with a dildo, then I tried holding the dildo in place and just entering her, then we tried a few other models, and finally we were just, like, "Oh, what the hell, might as well try it," and it went downhill from there.

CQ just hates them.... we tried cock splints/sheaths, dildos, she just doesn't like them... which is well good for me!!

[Atone]

You should really have an option for just right away. That is what I have been doing lately at the instruction of my wife. I'm happy with how it is working out. She seems to be too but I haven't asked her lately.

-A