Questions

[Jedi]

Seven to ten days continuously in chastity belt is safe. After this period his penis should be erect while. Tenth minutes or more. This can be for tease or intercourse. He does not have to cum. After that You can go back Him in chastity belt without orgasm. After a long period of Denial (month or two)ruined orgasm is better solution.

I disagree and my own personal experience has shown no ill effects of periods as long as 60 days without any unlock. There is no medical evidence showing that refraining from orgasms and refraining from erections diminishes the capability. Currently, I have been without orgasm since May 19th... 172 days with even a ruined orgasm. Previous lockups have gone as long as 250 days without an orgasm. When I am finally granted the gift of an orgasm, everything works just fine.

[Aarkey]

How long should a break in period be? Should I let him out at all? Even just to fuck me, and not get off?

First - kudos on reaching out. I wish more Keyholders would take an active role seeking information and community support with chastity play, so I applaud you for doing it.

With that said, as others have already replied - do what makes you happy. I am extremely opposed to people who say "you should do X" or "if you do Y it isn't real" or "its wrong if you do Z" etc. It is YOUR lifestyle. Enjoy it. Explore it. If you like sex, have it. If you want to allow him release for it, good for you! Want to numb him and deny him longer, great, or not... all good. Make him use a strapon on you instead? Have at it... whatever you want, try it. Communicate with each other, explore, find what makes it fun. Or don't... the only wrong way to do it, is to not enjoy the journey

After a long period of Denial (month or two)ruined orgasm is better solution.

I disagree and my own personal experience has shown no ill effects of periods as long as 60 days without any unlock. There is no medical evidence showing that refraining from orgasms and refraining from erections diminishes the capability.

Jedi - the fact that you have no personal experience with issues does not mean that you are an authority on the matter. And there IS medical evidence showing that orgasm frequency can have an impact on health, though evidence is mixed, and there is no study that I have heard which looks at the impact of locking your jibblies up and how that affects things.

http://www.harvardprostateknowledge.org ... ate-cancer

"Two relatively large studies of this question, reported in 2003 and 2004, yielded good news for sexually active men: high ejaculation frequency seemed to protect against prostate cancer."

[cottus]

To play devil's advocate, Aarkey, there is barely any medical literature to speak of on the use of male chastity devices. That being said, there aren't any class-action lawsuits against cage manufacturers that I know of, so I think we're all good for the time being.

[Aarkey]

To play devil's advocate, Aarkey, there is barely any medical literature to speak of on the use of male chastity devices. That being said, there aren't any class-action lawsuits against cage manufacturers that I know of, so I think we're all good for the time being.

Pssst. I said that in my post just above yours - "there is no study that I have heard which looks at the impact of locking your jibblies up and how that affects things." And any class action would fail terribly, since they're sold as novelty items. Trying to sue a chastity manufacturer would be like trying to sue baby formula manufacturers because the glass jar failed and broke when you stuffed it in your bum. The user assumes ALL the risk.

[cottus]

My point was that the lack of medical literature could infer both good or bad on the basis of ignorance, but the lack of lawsuits is telling. People will sue for anything so the lack of these being attempted is a good sign. However, I am admittedly pushing a pointless digression.

[Lockedwithlove]

When Mrs. M and I first started my chastity about 6 months ago, I felt that there were rules that needed to be followed and male chastity had to be done a certain way between a couple. Mrs. M's view was that this was her ticket to do whatever she wanted with me. After feeling a little disappointed that Mrs. M didn't want me locked up for a month at a time I forgot about the fact that this was all about her pleasure and what she wants, not how I think make chastity is supposed to be. Mrs. M derives much pleasure from allowing me to orasm. She locks me up long enough until she knows I have a huge buildup of cum and then she has her fun with me. You shouldn't feel guilty forwanting your man and letting him fuck you for your pleasure. You could always try having him fuck you with a strapon of your choosing so he doesn't have to stop when he feels like he's going to cum. The longer he stays locked up the easier it will be for him to cum. Mrs. M and I have a couple of strapons that she just started using on me but I think soon I'll be using them on her too while i stay locked up but only if that's what she wants in the end. So I've changed my perception of MC to just go with the flow and make Mrs. M a happy girl and that should be your mans focus on you too. Just do what you want...

[poptart1200]

I was going to suggest that he use a strap on with you, but Aarkey beat me to it. I use one on my g/f with great results... for her.

[Aarkey]

People will sue for anything so the lack of these being attempted is a good sign. However, I am admittedly pushing a pointless digression.

I do not believe that many people would want to out themselves for their kink in order to bring a very doomed lawsuit.

Though I also have not heard anyone talk about any long term health issues as a result of wearing a chastity device, and I've spent thousands of hours on forums like this discussing chastity over the last 12 or so years.