Still able to climax

[osimon9]

I have been practicing chastity for some time but not on a constant basis.

I am using a Chinese metal cage which fits me quite well.

However, after being chaste for a few days, it is still quite easy for me to climax with the cage on (including a "normal" ejaculation) when squeezing my nipples and focusing my mind on my pubic region. Even though these orgasms are kinda "ruined" they are still pleasurable and certainly not the goal of chastity.

Any input?

[GoddessRhea]

Some people have areas of their bodies, beyond their actual genitals that excite them like that.

My advice to you is realize that chastity is a mindset. If you don't want to be in control of your orgasm, then don't make yourself have one. This is like regular masturbation. You need to have self control. If you're practicing enforced chastity with a partner, I'm sure they don't want you doing this.

I would suggest you're entirely honest with your partner that you can do this, and you should see how they feel about it. If they don't want you doing it, then you need to have the self control not to. And if you do end up doing it, I think you should tell them about it. You really have to understand that device, or no device, chastity is a mindset and you need to be in it in order for it to work.

Edit: This sounds grouchy, and that's not how I mean it.

[slave d]

GoddessRhea is totally correct, chastity and orgasm control (not necessarily the same thing) is largely about a mental attitude. A chastity device is simply an impediment to the "normal" form of sexual activity including masturbation plus a reminder of the fact that (if you have a keyholder) somebody else doesn't want you doing this !!! I don't think there's a person on here who absolutely can't orgasm while locked, doesn't mean they "will" AND particularly it means they're usually obliged (in my case contracted !!) to advise their keyholder of this so they may be disciplined !! There are many threads on here on exactly this issue.

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[Shepherdsflock]

I have been practicing chastity for some time but not on a constant basis.

I am using a Chinese metal cage which fits me quite well.

However, after being chaste for a few days, it is still quite easy for me to climax with the cage on (including a "normal" ejaculation) when squeezing my nipples and focusing my mind on my pubic region. Even though these orgasms are kinda "ruined" they are still pleasurable and certainly not the goal of chastity.

Any input?

I see nothing wrong with it, unless your goal is total orgasm denial. We've only been doing this for a couple of weeks, but my wife had a big grin on her face when she found semen stains in my underwear while doing laundry and I told her that after our last round of caged love making I had gotten aroused enough to dribble in my underwear. I'm assuming you're practicing chastity with a wife or girlfriend. You should let her know that you can get off that way. She might really enjoy it as an alternative to penetrative intercourse. My wife hates intercourse but so far seems to enjoy making love while I'm caged. She just orgasmed twice in one session for the first time in our 7 year marriage last night. I think that knowing that I am super aroused, can't have an orgasm of my own, but am still willing (and wanting) to please her is a huge turn-on for her. It really makes her feel special and loved.

[sissyrandi]

I wouldn't worry about it, I think all of us have had an orgasm while wearing our devices - sometimes your mind and body just get the better of you no matter what. Actually, that makes the whole thing much more intense I think.