Erections after weeks in chastity?

[Shepherdsflock]

I'm only about 2 weeks into chastity, and quit for a few days because my wife felt weird about it. I was having trouble controlling my masturbation impulses today and my wife suggested I lock back up. She is starting to feel better about me being locked up full time. I'm just wondering if I should be prepared for any sexual changes after extended lockup periods. Like will my ability to have a full erection decline (like how an arm atrophies after weeks in a cast)? Will hypersensitivity and premature ejaculation become an issue?

[TwistedMister]

I go for as much as two months at a time without being unlocked at all, and for spans of 18-24 months where being locked 24/7 is the norm except for occasional periods of freedom to play, or for teasing or orgasms. I have no difficulty getting erections.

The only issue I have experienced as far as the erections themselves, is that after a month or two of not getting out at all, the skin loses some elasticity and an erection will be 'tight' and the skin easily chafed. This condition resolves after a short period of freedom, and is avoided entirely by being allowed a full/complete erection every week or two.

Sensitivity and easily induced ejaculations *can* occur, especially if there is a lot of teasing going on too, but there are ways of dealing with this...or not, if that is a desired result.

[Shepherdsflock]

Ways of dealing with it would be appreciated. I'm not into premature ejaculation and my wife isn't either. I don't want to be so hypersensitive after a few weeks of chastity that I can't enjoy regular intercourse.

[Tom Allen]

There have been times that Mrs Edge would unlock me at night and give me a quick orgasm. Then we'd go to sleep with the understanding that I'd waken her up for some morning sex, after which I'd be locked back up.

The quick one at night was to clean the pipes and reduce the, umm, reaction time for the morning.

[TwistedMister]

What Tom said, or variations of it. When I was [much] younger, erections were easy to come by and orgasms easy to achieve. Before going to see a GF, if I was fairly sure that there would be some sex happening I would rub one out in the shower just to take the 'edge' off.

Experiment with variations of that using full or ruined orgasms, and/or various numbing creams/sprays with or without condoms.

[poptart1200]

I'm locked up 24/7 and if anything my erections are much stronger than they were before chastity play. I'm only allowed one full erection per week during my supervised cleaning/teasing.

Before my g/f locked me up, I would jerk off to porn almost everyday. That was desensitizing me both physically and mentally. Porn was effecting my sex life with her as I would cum within a few minutes of PIV sex. Long term chastity is helping to reset my body and mind, but I still have a way to go.

[Gwyidion]

In the US, lidocaine cream (i believe mine is 5%) applied to the frenulum/glans has been effective for me.

This takes some experimentation, and you should have some expectation of failure.

Too much cream = no erection (no stimulation).

Too little = not fixing the problem (too much sensitivity)

Correct amount = unlimited use for your wife

It really only took one success for my wife to be convinced.

Apply 40-60 minutes prior to intercourse, it should last at maximum effect for about 40-60 minutes after that.

I don't use it every day, or even every other day. Talk to your doctor, of course.

[Shepherdsflock]

In the US, lidocaine cream (i believe mine is 5%) applied to the frenulum/glans has been effective for me.

This takes some experimentation, and you should have some expectation of failure.

Too much cream = no erection (no stimulation).

Too little = not fixing the problem (too much sensitivity)

Correct amount = unlimited use for your wife

It really only took one success for my wife to be convinced.

Apply 40-60 minutes prior to intercourse, it should last at maximum effect for about 40-60 minutes after that.

I don't use it every day, or even every other day. Talk to your doctor, of course.

Is there any chance of it rubbing off me and making her numb?

[Gwyidion]

Yes - i forgot that part.

Immediately prior to intercourse, i took a (clean) wet rag and wiped off the areas of application. At that point (40-60 minutes after application), it has absorbed enough that no more should be needed.

Any residual may eventually affect your wife. It would take 40-60 minutes to affect her, and it would be much minimized, as there should be a small amount.

I haven't asked my wife if she noticed anything.

My next experiment involves application of the cream while wearing a cage via q-tip.

[TwistedMister]

Is there any chance of it rubbing off me and making her numb?

Washing it completely off with soap and water should avoid that, and/or use a condom if you want to be completely sure. (They also make condoms with a numbing agent already inside.)