[Carolina Cyclist] Our new lifestyle...

[carolina cyclist]

Yesterday afternoon until I went to bed I was extremely frustrated. Not because MrsL was teasing me...no...because MrsL was extremely busy and I really wanted to touch my penis. She insisted on a fully enclosed tube device when we were looking at custom fit devices and quite frankly she knew exactly what she was doing. She voiced her concerns that the cage style devices would give me access to touch and play with myself and she did not want that to happen at all. Yesterday proved her point beautifully. She was in her office all afternoon and evening getting prepped for another weekend long sales show and I really wanted some attention....but it is not about me. No matter how hard I rubbed...there was no sensations at all. Yes, I have access to play with my balls....but we all know that is not the same in any stretch of the imagination. Truth be told, if the Steelwerxx Extreme chastity devices that enclose everything weren't so expensive...we would probably have one of those for around the house....at a minimum.

The Bon4 was fully enclosed but I could still get some sensation by rubbing it....not in the Steelheart. A good night's sleep and a little teasing from MrsL this morning did the trick. Yes, I am still frustrated but it is from her teasing.

[locked4her55]

if the Steelwerxx Extreme chastity devices that enclose everything weren't so expensive...we would probably have one of those for around the house....at a minimum.
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Ain't that the truth

[carolina cyclist]

In the realm of "be careful what you wish for" I am in the midst of a very compelling day. After having asked for more anal play, MrsL appears to be obliging my wishes. She wants me locked and plugged all day, especially when I go out to the post office. I was so focused on writing about being frustrated earlier I forgot that I was sitting and typing with a butt plug in at the time.

I am sure some folks reading this will think I am "topping from the bottom" by asking for more anal play. Not the case, MrsL knows my likes, dislikes, and kinks; however, she also wants me to be open and honest about the things I want more of, less of, or simply want to stop (chastity not included). I have been on conference calls all morning and am about to head out on my errands. Second time out while plugged....I guess I should be careful what I wish for...!

[carolina cyclist]

So, I made it just over 6 hours wearing the butt plug before having to call MrsL and use the safe word to take it out. It was an interesting experience but it wasn't over.

When MrsL got home she informed me that I was going to accompany her "shopping" after dinner and just smiled. That is our little code word for being plugged. After dinner as I was taking her plate she told me to "hurry up".

Once I was properly plugged we headed out for what turned out to be an hour's worth of shopping. Several times while we were in the stores, we had to go to two different stores, she would rub or pat my butt cheeks and giggle. It was a very exhilarating experience. All total, I was plugged for 7+ hours yesterday.

Once we got back in the car, she asked me how I was feeling and I told her "horny and stretched." She then told me that the next time she is in the mood to fuck me...she was going to have me wear the plug all day again so she could use the bigger and thicker 8" dildo on me. To date, she has been afraid to use it for fear of hurting me. I would be lying if I said I wasn't both excited and a bit intimidated by the thought of her using that 8" dildo on me...but with a proper day of stretching it should be manageable???

[carolina cyclist]

I have read several comments on here about the integrated locks with Steelworxx products. This morning we found out some of those comments have some merit.

MrsL allows me out for a thorough cleaning and shaving once every 7-10 days. We decided last night that this morning would be the cleaning. We fooled around in bed before getting up, resulting in an incredible orgasm for her, and then we hopped up to head to the bathroom. When she grabbed the key, it went in the receiver just fine and turned to the unlock position just fine; HOWEVER, it would not budge. We took turns trying to grip the tube before I finally grabbed the bottle of silicone lube put a drop on the lock. It released almost immediately. I grabbed a bit of toilet paper to wipe up the excess lube and when I pulled it away MrsL said,

"What's bleeding?" I didn't see anything until I moved the base ring. There was a nasty little scratch...it really just broke the skin. So, I showered, shaved, and as I went to put the base ring back on MrsL said,

"You should probably let that heal..."

So, I am unlocked on on the honor system until the scratch heals up. After the frustration of wanting to have my penis in my hand earlier this week I have no desire to now. Amazing how that works!

[carolina cyclist]

Finally healed up about 45 minutes ago and am happily in chastity again. I don't like locking it myself but since MrsL gave me specific instructions to follow, I did just that.

[carolina cyclist]

I have been averaging three night time erections since we started our new journey. Each time, I usually end up going to the bathroom for a nice cold towel to calm things down...resulting in not very restful sleep. This past week; however, I am finally starting to not wake up with each of them. For example, last night I woke up when my oldest son came home at 3 a.m. after work and realized I also had a trapped erection in the Steelheart that had not bothered me. I guess my body is starting to adapt

[carolina cyclist]

This week is MrsL's birthday week. I plan on showering her with as many orgasms as her age...which I won't put on here so I don't get in trouble. Let's just say, it will be a busy week!!

[carolina cyclist]

Birthday week for MrsL is progressing quite nicely. It has been a hectic week with several everyday life issues cropping up: our youngest son totaled his car on the way back to school Sunday (he is okay the other vehicle wasn't damaged...it was a television satellite truck), and the house still looks like a tornado blew through it. However, MrsL has received massages every night, we celebrated at her favorite sea food restaurant last night, and her orgasm count for the week is up dramatically. She has even hinted that she may need a break...!

She just called after dropping our oldest off at school and said she was going to get pampered with a mani/pedi...I can't wait to see!!

[carolina cyclist]

Yesterday was a true dichotomy for me. I was excited that MrsL was getting her mani/pedi but very sad because it was my Mom's birthday. I say sad because she lost her battle with cancer 12 years ago next month and her birthday always hits me pretty hard.

Let's just say I was grumpy most of the day and snapped at MrsL and our son a couple of times. She let me know when she finally came to bed that all was good...! She even teased me in a way that caught me off guard. It is not that she hasn't used the same technique before...it just has never had the effect it did last night. She stroked each finger on my left hand individually with a light touch as I had my arm wrapped around her in bed. It was crazy just how quickly the Steelheart filled up and trapped the budding erection. As she started stroking the little finger, she rolled over and informed me I would soon feel that same light touch somewhere else...when I hadn't been grumpy all day long...! I LOVE HER!!