Is erection denial a thing?

[Locked by LRC]

... He said its a strange feeling that in our relationship he will never get the pleasure of a massive orgasm again, exciting...but disappointing at the same time...

I think this is the point where the fantasy of extreme chastity clashes with the reality. It sound like he's at the point where, to him, it's more than he thought it would be. I hope he learns to cope with this extreme chastity and can still fully enjoy it.

A question for you. You've show a couple of extreme devices with internal spikes. Hopefully these are very short term devices. I can't imagine being woken in the night with a nocturnal with them on. If they are left on how bad are the abrasions that they must cause?

[Julie Morgan]

A question for you. You've show a couple of extreme devices with internal spikes. Hopefully these are very short term devices. I can't imagine being woken in the night with a nocturnal with them on. If they are left on how bad are the abrasions that they must cause?

The first picture, the one with the spikes is called The Iron Maiden. I only use this on him if I feel he deserves it. Quite a few months ago I released him one evening for him to get a shower, I don't know why but I thought I would just pop my head around the bathroom door and to my horror he had it in his hand, fully erect and bashing away like a good one, his eyes closed and face all contorted, I shouted EXCUUSE ME and he opened his eye in disbelief, I had caught him red handed. I was very angry and told him to get dressed and I will be waiting in the bedroom for him and it is not going to be nice. When he came in and saw the Iron Maiden on the bed I could see in his face he was not happy, we had only tried this for a few minutes before as it is so unconfutable. He asked how long? I replied until you learn your lesson. I made him wear it all weekend day and night with the urethral insert until Monday morning. When I took it off his thingy it looked so sore, although the spikes did not break the skin they left deep indentations in his willy. I relented a little and locked him in his clear CB6000s which is a little more forgiving. So in answer to your question, Yes it is painful and it is a great deterrent for him to know I WILL use it when ever I need to get him to tow the line. I have told him that if I ever find out he has done that disgusting wank thing again it will be lock in the Iron Maiden for at least a week, and I am not kidding.

[mellyshubby]

I have told him that if I ever find out he has done that disgusting wank thing again it will be lock in the Iron Maiden for at least a week, and I am not kidding.

I am awe struck. WOW!

[filthyslut]

Well for me it is, i mean it was, because i am single now. Being on hormone therapy, my cock doesn't get spontaneous hard, so it's not really an issue. Nevertheless, generally speaking i prefer to have all my pleasures owned, since my kinky mind abuses them if not owned and due to the frustration of not having an orgasm, not even edging(because that i like) and rarely masturbating, i become the fluffiest kitty in the world. Oh i meant filthiest lol. Aaanyway, it's fun for me because i have a very long list of fetishes and i can get satisfied just by serving as a maid for example or pleasuring my Mistress. Trust me, a good session of bladder control, even though it makes me horny, in the end i come out quite spent and don't really want a one minute orgasm...because if i get in the orgasm subject, one is not even enough for me since i am an orgasmic bitch and can have multiple ones.
So it depends on each individual, i guess.

[Aarkey]

Is erection denial a thing? My wife started talking about adding erection denial to my orgasm denial.

As many others have answered, obviously yes it is a real thing. I recall a discussion on FetLife where the owner of Mature Metal posted about how some men who had experienced very long term denial experienced the inability to get a full 100% erection that they had before. This didn't happen if the man was allowed out regularly for a full erection, even without any release, or if the man is out for a few weeks after any duration of denial things always returned to normal. However the tissue is spongy and when the blood flow is discouraged there for a long duration of time (which the body will stop doing if there is not room to grow after a period of time) then the erection denial does cause things to change.

I can vouch for that with my own personal experience of when I went for 28 days, it took me a few days of freedom to feel like I was back at a fully strong and sized 100% erection.

I will add that my last g/f and Domme and I played sometimes with a VERY small cage. I am a decent shower, and my regular MM Jailbird is a bit longer and wider than the CB3000. However, when we would have an intensive corporal or strapon scene, my soldier would get scared and turtle up. And to put it simply, she didn't like it. So, we bought a much smaller to use temporarily for scenes. The longest she kept me in it was 6 hours, and I am grateful that it was never longer. I don't know how the blood and fluid flow would work long term in it, but it was very tight in every way and definitely discouraged ANY erection at all.

I think this is the point where the fantasy of extreme chastity clashes with the reality.

Ultimately, it is all just speculation until we hear from him on the forum.

You've show a couple of extreme devices with internal spikes. Hopefully these are very short term devices.

FWIW, I know one fellow who wore the original Kali's Teeth Bracelet for 2 weeks straight. He said it definitely hurt, but didn't cause any permanent damage. I personally can not fathom wearing it. I had one Domme who refused to play with me ever again unless I would put one on. And I never played with her again.