small steps and "chastity lite"

[Curry]

I don't think you went into too much detail. I like reading about other peoples exploits. I just meant that we are nowhere close to that point. We might be on diet chastity ultra lite. Hahaha! It's a trip. Who knows where it will go. Wherever, it will be fun.

[TwistedMister]

This might be too bizarre for this forum

Nah, pretty tame compared to some of the stuff in *my* head.

...it's partly revenge for all the times she's walked around with soggy spunk filled knickers.

Imagine if you had to go to work, or out to dinner with her in that condition...

[McAndrew]

...it's partly revenge for all the times she's walked around with soggy spunk filled knickers.

Imagine if you had to go to work, or out to dinner with her in that condition...

As with a lot of things, I expect the fantasy and anticipation would be far more exciting than the reality.
Anyway it didn't happen. She 'needed' PIV and didn't allow me to cum.

[Curry]

And then yesterday...
We had a shower again, and then we moved to the bed. She wanted sex. She got some. I was close, and she said no. I could wait until the nighttime, she said. So, I was horny all day. Night came, and she wasn't interested in anymore activity, but she let me rub and love on her while she read a book. Then she started stroking me slowly and told me I didn't have permission to come. Wow. She's getting it.After a while, she took pity and let me come, and today I have a free day to do as I wish by myself, but tomorrow it's back to the new normal.

[McAndrew]

And then yesterday...
After a while, she took pity and let me come,

Just saying.

If things continue in the direction they are going, very soon you will find any 'taking pity' annoying.
She has to have control over when you cum and should decide well in advance. Any attempts by you to coerce her, or plead, should result in denial.

The only request you should be making is to ask to stop, so that you don't disobey if she hasn't given permission. Asking to cum, is asking for trouble.

[Curry]

Right on, man. I get what you're saying. I didn't ask. She changed her mind. This is only our first month giving this a try. It will develop as time goes on. Learning stages are fun.

[McAndrew]

Right on, man. I get what you're saying. I didn't ask. She changed her mind. This is only our first month giving this a try. It will develop as time goes on. Learning stages are fun.

Yes it takes time. My wife is not the naturally decisive and dominant type, but when she realised the fun that could be had, she really took to the idea.
If your wife does, then you will find out if it's what you really want.

As I mentioned before it's taken my wife a year, from really disliking chastity cages, to me having to wear one when she's not around, but not having it involved when we are together.