Which sex option should I choose?

[lockedsteve]

My wife has finally agreed to have sex with me again but no orgasm of course. Here are the options she gave me:

She is willing to do these things:

1. Have me stay locked and perform oral on her until it starts annoying her and she pushes me away to use her vibrator. I have not tasted her in months and I love the way she tastes.

2. Accept a paddling and then be allowed to kiss her and fondle her breasts while she uses her vibrator on herself. I will be locked up. The kicker is that I have to take a Viagra which will be making my cage pull tight against my balls and make them sore.

3. Wear panties and a Bra and accept a hard caning in return for being unlocked and edged for a half an hour.

4. Be unlocked and not paddled or caned, get to lick her pussy and play with her breasts while kissing her plus get edged BUT that will add two months to my full orgasm denial with one ruined orgasm thrown in.

I have not decided which way to go yet. I have been denied oral for many months and really want to do that . Only thing is afterwards I cannot kiss her or touch her with my pussy lips and hands. She is OCD about cleanliness. She will french kiss me all night but if I use her fork just once, I have to get her a new one. She has her own glasses and silverware. Even not allowed to use the same bathroom as her. I have one half of the house and she has the other. Her's is immaculate and mine is messy. When you are home together for days on end it is best to not be together all the time. That never ends well. I have my man cave with my Xbox One, big screen TV, two desks, a few ham radios and memorabilia of my Football and Army days.

[Grizzly228]

Given these options I'd have to take #1. I love giving oral and frankly don't think I could go that long without giving SOMeONe oral.

[Hippoeater]

I'd go with option 3! ;D

[Betterthansmith]

Option 1.

[Tom Allen]

Frankly, I'm surprised that anyone would give enough thought to coming up with those kinds of options.

[slave d]

I'm with Tom on this, the option i get to choose is whatever MsM has already decided !!! Simple really.

d

[lockedsteve]

It ended up with no choice. I got paddled and then played with her until she had an orgasm. I was locked up and she just squeezed my testicles. It was over with in about 10 minutes.

@Tom Allen - when you are retired and have chronic insomnia, you have a lot of time to think up stuff. I have to think up options because my wife has no imagination at all. In all of our marriage she never once suggested that we do something. I have always had to come up with options or she would just do the same thing over and over again. Her gf and I ended up having sex without my wife, after my wife had her orgasm, because we liked to try different things and my wife did not. She once did but then she just stopped trying new sexual things which is why she brought in her girlfriend for me to play with. This is no lie; my wife would just lay there with me and my girlfriend waiting for me to tell her what to do. She never once initiated sex with our girlfriend, not ever, or did anything with her that I did not ask her to do. I actually would have to direct her even to tell her to kiss. She likes to follow, not lead. When you have two sexually submissive people married to each other who both like to be told what to do in bed, the one who is alpha in real life has to take charge or nothing happens and you are both unhappy.

I did not spend any time to think of these options because they are the main ways we have had sex for the last two years. All I did was post them. Nothing new for us. I have to make up a sex menu for my wife to choose from or we end up laying in the same positions and doing the same thing every day. She cannot even choose which impact device to use. She always asks me which one I want. I keep telling her to do what she wants and to her that means to do the same thing that she has done the last time.

I actually email her an updated list of things we can do in bed every so often because she will never think of anything on her own. I do what I must to keep from joining my friends who spend all of their time thinking about golf and have not had sex for years. I try not to top from the bottom by giving her options and encouraging her to come up with things on her own but as always, she has yet to suggest something to do that I have not suggested to her in the past.

The problem with chastity, it is a boring fetish to talk about because it is like the old Steinfeld show, it is a fetish about nothing. I try to post things of interest rather than just say over and over again that I am locked up 24/7 and did nothing. I bet you spend a lot more time administering this forum and any blogs you have, than it took me to write down the few things we do in our bedroom.

[locked4her55]

In all of our marriage she never once suggested that we do something.

Wrong. . She told you to stay on your side of the house.

[sunnyweasel]

option 2

[JBStok]

Maybe it's just me, but this is the one that will give you both the most in the short term... and the one that would be advantageous to you both in more ways than one in the looooong run.

4. Be unlocked and not paddled or caned, get to lick her pussy and play with her breasts while kissing her plus get edged BUT that will add two months to my full orgasm denial with one ruined orgasm thrown in.