Time between orgasms

[Grizzly228]

Hello

I've posted some questions regarding ruined orgasms/length of time between full orgasms before. My question is how long does it take generally to get to the "maximum" orgasm sensation? I've had one that was only 4 or 6 days after my last one that felt amazing but usually it seems to take a week or two at least.

My last streak was disappointing though I went 14 days without orgasm; I was given 4 or so ruined ones in those two weeks and when I finally received permission there were strong contractions but almost nothing to come out. Very disappointing and a bit uncomfortable actually. It took a few days to recover and I was actually a bit depressed by the whole situation.

Now we are beginning again and I'm 6 days in already but we've agreed on no ruined orgasms of any kind. I think she wants to take me past my 21 day record or even the 26 day goal of last time. After 21 days of no release I basically passed out after as it was a draining and extremely physical experience. I wonder if I need to wait so long or does it plateau eventually. Any suggestions or personal experiences regarding this?

[Look02]

Within the last 2-3 years we played with different chastity devices. Most of the time I was pushing to play with it. But one day in may my wife told me to put it on. I had to be unlocked for about two weeks because of modifications of my cage (had a ruined orgasm while being unlocked). But since the start I had no full orgasm and not another ruined one. As we want to try long-term, my wife has been announcing, that my next full orgasm might be at the beginning of winter.

So of course I hope that my full orgasm after such a long time will be amazing. But that's probably not the answer to your question. To be honest, I'm even kind of afraid of having a full orgasm, because of the long build-up-time to my present state of mind.

[Grizzly228]

Wow. So you haven't had a full orgasm since before May and only one ruined one then?? I think I'd lose my mind. But hopefully the payoff will be almost worth it. I say almost because my amazing orgasm after 3 weeks was definitely an experience but I can't honestly say it was worth the build up and expectation. That being said, looks like I'm on my way to that again. Guess it's like a drug. Always looking to push the limit to match or beat that first high

[lockedsteve]

I have discovered that my best orgasms are about a week or two apart. Prior to now, I was going 2-3 months between orgasms and quite frankly, they were not great and left my urethra burning. Really not worth the waiting time. However, it all depends on what you use chastity for. If it is just to build up to a great orgasm, than a week or two is good. If it is a D/s thing, then having the best orgasm is not the main purpose of chastity.

We do it because my wife likes the way I am when I am denied an orgasm for long periods of time. We took a break of a few weeks for my scrotum skin to get back to original condition and then my wife wanted me to lock up again. I agreed but only if I could have an orgasm every 3-6 weeks at here discretion. For me it is not worth it to wait any longer. My wife is submissive so it is not a domination thing. It is more complicated than that.

[Grizzly228]

That makes sense. 3 weeks is the max I've gone and would like to experience longer to see if it gets better but it does seem to plateau between 2 and three weeks.

It's not d/s thing so much. My gf does it to please me but has gotten a little more aggressive and comfortable denying me and playing along. Her getting dozens of orgasms to my one does wonders for her demeanor.

[slave joanna]

i am presently in my longest period of lock up (it began on April 12). For my birthday i was given the optional 2 1/2" cage for my CB6000. Before putting it on Mistress informed me that it would be removed every two weeks for a 20 minute cleaning and discipline session--and that this would be done with me sitting in my discipline chair where my wrists and ankles can be secured. She is a fan of leather cinch straps and using tea spoon to "slap" the tip of my cinched smallness into complete submission. Mistress maintains that a well disciplined pee-pee is much better able to endure necessary confinement. Before being returned to its cage it is thoroughly cleaned with small brush while it is still suspended by the strap secured to an over head eye screw.

i have never been able to feel any sensation in my cage, but can look at it to know when my cage is filled with excitement and feel the tightening of my cock ring during my excitement. Mistress maintains that "excess" pre cum dripping (as determined by Her) is a punishable offense. To punish me for "attempting to pleasure myself" She uses a glue syringe to inject ben gay into my cage. For days after my discipline and cleaning i can definitely feel the results of the strap burns caused by my punishment strap. As for the burning sensation in my prostate i am given Midol which She says is designed for swelling and cramping--and it does work.

W/we are still experimenting with my daily hygiene. Using a glue syringe Mistress is able to inject a baking soda paste into my cage followed with an injection of vinegar--then hot water (a little hotter than comfortable)--then an injection of rubbing alcohol. This is working pretty well between my two week scrubbings.

[noid51]

We have fallen into a pattern of about three weeks. By then I am begging to get out to have an orgasm and my KH is ready for the real thing. I've always wanted to venture further in the time between orgasms and that just may be about to come true. Last week as I was pleasuring her she mentioned my birthday in September as I was asking her when she would like to have some real cock in her. Ouch!I have said she has always enjoyed The feel of a real cock inside her but that might be changing.The last two times I have pleasured her, I used a penis sleave partially filled with a dildo and then fit over my jailbird. I'm beginning to think I might be a little too inovative for my own good.

[extremeswinger]

The longest I've gone without a FULL orgasm is about a month. Within that month, there were probably 7-8 ruined orgasms. That was a little much for us though. We've settled in on a weekly orgasm for me though. I am only allowed to orgasm on Saturdays. If we're out of town and can't make it back to the hotel on time ...that's too bad. Gotta wait another week. That's happened a few times and it's a good part of our game.

[LOCKED HUSBAND]

Grizzly228
I used to masturbate daily sometime several times looking for the ultimate orgasm never found it , had several good orgasms but never the ultimate . However since I confessed all to my wife and my desire to be in chastity and denied my orgasm ( which is another whole story of how we got started ) I have found there is no ultimate orgasm for me . The ultimate for me is being denied and the emotion and desire to please her and the little things she does ( not even always the teasing ) or says that deepens that emotion to a point when I will actually leak more cum than I would ejaculate with an orgasm .

We found that after an orgasm I became what she called a Neanderthal man and it took a week or better of denial to make him go away and bring me back to the attentive person we both enjoy . Needless to say at this point I am on long term denial and we are both happy . If I get to have an orgasm which as long as I leak I doubt she will allow I will let you know as to it's intensity . But for now I find it very emotional intense being denied not knowing if she will ever allow an orgasm again .

Sure I could cheat , but I think hell I know the guilt would show and my attitude would give me away and being denied is creating one hell of an emotional high . I think it's better than any orgasm could ever be , just my opinion . One ruined O since the first of the year and even that brought the Neanderthal man out , and both of us agree he should stay out of our lives .

Point being enjoy being denied it may be better than the ultimate orgasm you will never find .

[Look02]

@ LOCKED HUSBAND
Thanks for your post - sounds very much like my own situation, my own feelings about being locked and my fear of the time needed to get back to the present state of mind (we both like very much) after "going back to Neanderthal" (like the term).