KeyHolders - Male Chasity Myths Debunked

[wishful4]

1. He will think I am punishing him. – False - You are not punishing your man - you are protecting him from the male’s perfectly normal lack of self-control.
2. I feel guilty denying him sexual pleasure. – False - In fact, he always wants to cum, but what he really craves is denial. When you do release him from his male chastity device, sex will be mind-blowing for him and his orgasms will be much more intense. He will love you for it.
3. I’ll be having less sex. – False - You are not denying yourself the sex life you deserve. You have the key and can use him anytime you like. While he’s locked up, he won’t be able to keep his hands off of you and, if you allow it, he’ll use his mouth and fingers to provide you with sexual satisfaction on a regular basis. Sex will always be on your terms. Most find they have sex more often and widen their definition of sexual activity. It will be whatever you want, from cuddling to intercourse.
4. I’ve heard he needs to have regular orgasms to stay healthy. – False - This simply isn’t true. There is info out there on both sides of this issue. Bottom line is that his orgasms are yours to grant whenever you see fit. He will be fine no matter what you decide to do and will be so appreciative when he is granted one.
5. This is really “out there” kinky. - False - Many couples have included male chastity in their relationship. It’s not kinky. Sales of Male Chastity devices indicate that they are the second most popular sex aid sold; second only to dildoes/vibrators. In fact, the odds are that several of your friends already have their husband’s crown jewels locked away for safekeeping.
6. He won’t love me anymore.False - When done correctly, your man will feel more loved by you than he did before male chastity became a part of your life. In fact, most men eventually thank their wives for insisting on the lifestyle. The two of you will become closer than ever.
7. I’m afraid he will turn into a wimp or sissy husband. – False – Quite the opposite is true. Over time he’ll start to feel like more of a man, because he’ll know that all of his sexual energy is going towards pleasing you. He will be totally focused on you. He’ll like the fact that he no longer feels like a little boy who can’t help but play with himself when you are not looking.

[Michele]

Nice Wishful

[Allmylife4her]

Nicely summarized.

[Linus]

Great post!
All newbies MUST read this post

[eido]

I didn't realize male chastity had accumulated it's own mythos. These seem more like arguments a man is using to persuade a reluctant keyholder. Do they even need the usual and customary caveats about safety, sanity, and consensuality?