does this happen to you after being locked for a while?

[inhercontrol]

So my wife and I have been playing around with a cock cage for me for a few months. Ive got a jailbird that fits very comfortably. Usually we use it pretty short term. She'll look at me when I'm bugging her, or made her upset and just point in the direction of it and demandingly say "go put on your cage!". It pretty much instantly changes my attitude with her. If we were having a conversation, she'll restart it and enjoy my new.compliance, and if we're in bed she'll enjoy my newly directed attentions. Often it only stays on until she's satisfied or wanting access later that evening, but sometimes its stays on for a few days and she reaps the benefits. When I've been really turned on, often as soon as I take it off I need a few minutes to get into action because it kinda feels like my dick had been straining and needs a moment to rest. That seems normal.

Well recently she told me to "go put on your cage" and it stayed on for over a week for the first time. I getting plenty turned on throughout the week and I was spending most evenings pleasing her. The base of my cock got a little sore from struggling with the cage some nights. I didn't care. We were having fun. Anyway when it finally came off, we had sex, but I actually lost my erection which rarely has ever happened and for the next week I had almost zero sex drive and wasn't getting hard for anything almost.
A week later, tonight, im back to normal and could go for hours.

Is this a common experience?
It worried me that perhaps I was stressing the muscles at the base of the cock that constrict bloodflow to keep erections by making it unable to enlarge for over a week of intense desire and its intense attempts.

We're enjoying this, but I dont wanna hurt myself.
Any experience thats illuminating would be appreciated.

[inhercontrol]

Ok...alot of you have read it. Any thoughts?

[locked4now]

When you say you lost your erection, do you mean that after you took the cage off, you got erect and started having PIV sex and then lost your erection? Or do you mean when it came off you intended to start having PIV sex and you could not ever get an erection?

[TwistedMister]

Is this a common experience?

Not for me.

Any time she wants it off, it has to come off in a hurry. If it doesn't come off fast enough our play gets interrupted while I go and calm down enough to try again.

[inhercontrol]

When you say you lost your erection, do you mean that after you took the cage off, you got erect and started having PIV sex and then lost your erection? Or do you mean when it came off you intended to start having PIV sex and you could not ever get an erection?

Yeah, we started and about five minutes later I lost it. That doesn't really happen to me ever. It felt kinda like my dick was just "tired" at the base. I don't know how to describe it. This was after about two hours of intense playing around....
But what made it more concerning was the following week.

[lockedsteve]

I have problems in maintaining an erection after a long lock up period. My solution was to go online and buy some generic Viagra from a reliable source. I have a 3 years supply so erections are not longer a problem. I too get back to normal after a few days unlocked. I am unlocked now waiting for my device to be returned to me after adjusting the ring sizes. My penis is no longer shriveled up and turtled hiding in my body. When locked, it retreats into me. I would think that after two years it would get used to be locked up but apparently not. So I do not think you have anything to worry about. Things will return to normal.

[sissyrandi]

Actually, yes, you could be doing yourself some damage. Take it from someone who is damaged, and was damaged by playing with these things. Long ago we bought an early trapped ball device and it was used on occasions for various lengths of time. Finally, like yourself, we did it for about a week-and-a-half straight without me sleeping in it though, because I never could get to sleep with the thing on (we found other things to do at bedtime to prevent touching). Regardless, what ended up happening to me was a serious prostate infection, which I will have forevermore now - chronic prostatitis, because the ring was constricting the epyditymis (certain I misspelled that), around the back of the balls.

What happens with these things, if you're prone to it, is during periods of being excited but being aroused, the epyditymis fills with prostatic fluid and sperm in anticipation of the big moment, which, of course, doesn't happen. That stuff has to go somewhere. In my case, it was trapped for long periods and became infected, then it seeped into my bladder, which became infected, which then caused retrograde urination, and before the week was out, everything was a mess down there and has been ever since unless you really take a lot of care - thus, I will never use a ball trapping device again.

My urologist as much as told me (this happened about seven or eight years ago), that it looked like something had put a bind on my epidytimis and asked me if we'd been playing around with cock rings, because he'd seen this condition brought on before by guys using cock rings too much or for too long.

Trust me, once your prostate gland gets seriously infected, it stays that way. You have several months where things will go into remission, but it has always come back, and then you have a month or so of seriously painful stuff going on an have to bombard it with antibiotics. That's been my routine now for the last seven or eight years, and I am absolutely convinced it's entirely due to a friggin' CB-3000.

Does this happen to everybody? Obviously not. But, it happened to me, after having perfect health down there all my life, within a few weeks of messing with this stuff I developed a problem I'll likely have for the rest of my life. And the doc specifically asked if I'd had something wrapped around the fellas as a likely cause of the problem to begin with and said he'd seen it before, so I'm not the only one.

Just be careful with these blasted things - and you don't have to have a ball trapper to do chastity - where there's a will, there's a way, and there are much more practical and comfortable ways to accomplish the same goal.

[mjaus77]

What do you have in mind sissyrandi ? What is much more practical and comfortable ?

[inhercontrol]

ok.. thats a good word to the wise. It sounds like a totally different issue however. Im no doctor, but that sounds like its caused more from the base ring being too snug and constrictive on the balls. Mine is quite comfortable and Im experiencing something quite different. That said, thanks for the heads up. Its always good to know possible situations to be aware of when it comes to the health of my best friend.

[inhercontrol]

ps.. Lockedsteve.. if you dont mind send me a link to that "reliable source" just in case.