[Carolina Cyclist] Our new lifestyle...

[jfenoffti]

WOOOO HOOO !! Lucky Road Warrior you are! Sounds like too much fun. Congratulations.

[carolina cyclist]

So, we had our first bump in the road last night but it didn't last long.

I have developed, out of necessity, a really strong hygeine program recently. Between the entire month of April dealing with bronchitis and then going right in to traveling, every week in May so far, I have not been able to go to CrossFit every other day so I have been 24/7 for several weeks. I did have 3 days out for the pulled groin but other than that...24/7...which is okay with me. Last week, I mentioned during our FaceTime session when we switched from the lock to the seal for travel that I would like to have a nice hot shower without my Bon4 to get clean and shave all of the areas that aren't really accessible. MrsL said ok. When I got home Friday afternoon, she asked if I wanted my shower then and I said no, first mistake on my part. Over the rest of the weekend, MrsL teased me several times but never let me out.

Due to having two 20 something boys at home for the summer, we are having to be a bit more careful about our new lifestyle and I got lost in the weekend. Fast forward to last night, as she was removing the lock and applying the plastic seal for travel, she said..."you never took it off for a shower..." All day, I was frustrated because she hadn't remembered and as the day was winding down convinced myself I was being a bit self centered. I replied, "it's okay...you didn't let me out so I will be fine..." We discussed it for a few minutes and ultimately I reassured her it was my fault, which in my mind it was because she has been excellent about letting me out for workouts, cycling, etc. After an in depth conversation about communication, MrsL teased me for nearly an hour and told me I could keep up my normal hygeine practices until I get home this Thursday BUT, I was not allowed to touch her until she has removed my Bon4, I have showered/shaved, and placed resecured my Bon4.

Crisis averted...all is well. As a matter of fact, our T&D session last night basically kept me awake until it was time to get up to get ready for my flight. I left her blissfully sleeping in our bed snuggled up to my pillow...which she always does when I get up. About to FaceTime with MrsL so she can supervise the transition to the real lock....!

[carolina cyclist]

I got home late yesterday from my trip and a week's worth of verbal and text teasing and life happened. MrsL had a sales show at the house last night so when I walked in I found her hustling around the house like crazy. Even though I should have jumped on my laptop and did a little more work, I hurriedly changed and helped her finalize the cleaning of the house, the prep for her sales show, and ran to the store to get some last minute things she needed for her recipes. She had been hinting all week about the possibility of being let out and even having an orgasm all week so I was on my best behavior.

After the show, we sat downstairs and chatted for a few minutes when her phone rang. It was a very good friend of the family whose brother is in hospice care so I massaged her feet...and sucked on her toes a little, while she talked to her. After the call, MrsL told me she would be up as soon as our son got home (I don't care how old they are...if they are at home...she cannot come to be until they get home). This was around 11 pm. I was exhausted having been up since 3 am, on/off airplanes, with a 4 hour layover....damn the company cost cutting measures taking the cheapest flghts!!

I don't remember falling asleep but apparently crashed immediately and never heard the garage door go up. MrsL finally came to be around 1:30 and I snuggled in beside her and began carressing her neck and face, let my fingers glide across her breast, and then move to her pussy. She rolled over and after several minutes of kissing and rolling around the bed she told me she needed me to go down on her and make her happy. With a raging boner in the Bon4 driving me crazy, I slithered down her body kissing and nibbling along the way, and brought her to 5 orgasms. When she pulled me back up beside her, she ran her fingers through my hair, down my chest, and cupped my swollen balls in her hand and whispered: "Good night...sweet dreams." It took me about half an hour to calm down enough to go to sleep. The feelings of love and frustration pulsing through my brain.

This morning I woke up at 6:45 with my typical attempt at a morning erection...this one was much more insistent very uncomfortable. Watching her sleep is one of my favorite things to do and after 30 minutes of just laying there watching her sleep, I began rubbing her back. She responded by rolling over, kissing me, and opening her legs. I knew immediately what she wanted and went down and started licking and sucking on her clit and lapping out all of the wonderful remains of her orgasms a few hours earlier. After her first orgasm of the morning, she asked me to get the scissors (I was still in the plastic seal from traveling) and I hopped up to grab them. She cut off the seal, took off the tube, and left the base ring in place. I fumbled with the PA jewelry and finally got it out and glance up and saw her laying in the middle of the bed, legs spread wide open, with a wonderfully devilish smile on her face. While chewing on her lower lip, she pointed at my raging hard on then to took her fingers and used them to separate the lips of her vagina and asked me if I wanted to put my cock in her.... She didn't have to ask twice. As I slipped inside her, the reason for the devilish smile became clear..."you can be in me...but you ARE NOT ALLOWED TO CUM" and she just giggled. I fucked her for several minutes actaully surprised at how long it took me to get to the edge and stopped. She again just giggled and asked why I was stopping. She told me she wanted me back in her so I slid back inside her warm moist body and she started clenching her kegel muscles as I thrust...which nearly took me over the edge. I edged myself for about 15 minutes each time pulling out and watching MrsL giggle. As she lay there looking at me struggle to not cum she said, "you know what, I think it is okay if you have an orgasm...go ahead and finish." Again, I was surprised at how long I was able to last before shooting into her and to both or our surprise she had an orgasm as well. That is rare for us as I usually don't have the stamina to make that happen. It was awesome.

After laying there and cuddling for a few minutes, I had to get up and get ready for work. I took a shower, shaved everything that needed to be shaved, and got back in my Bon4. As MrsL clicked the lock shut, she smiled and said "until next time..." then rolled over and went back to sleep.

So, the past two lock ups have been 24 days and 20 days respectively. She has now read the blog on the science of chastity and keeps hinting at longer periods of time between my orgasms. As happy and content as I am right now, I am completely okay with whatever my Princess wants to do. We are anxiously counting down the days until her Steelheart arrives!!!

[carolina cyclist]

Having an unexpected couple of free days this week due to a minor irritation issue. Last week after making love to MrsL PIV and having a full orgasm, I needed to shower shave. I grabbed one of MrsL's razors, as I was out, and didn't think twice about using it even though it was one with a Noxzema lubricating strip on the razor head. Granted, I got a really nice, clean, close shave and got back in my Bon4. I started noticing late Friday that something was different. There was more irritation after shaving and no matter how many times I applied lotion to the area around the ring I was uncomfortable. I have been wearing my Bon4 24/7 for nearly 4 months without issue and was perplexed. Then, Sunday evening when MrsL came to bed in a particularly frisky mood things went south quickly.

Usually, when I am being teased I get the typical pressure exerted on the balls from my device. This time; however, it was almost painful as the skin around the base ring was (as we found out once the Bon4 was removed) was red and very irritated. I have been unlocked since about 3 a.m. Monday and was racking my brain to figure out what happened...then it dawned on me....I used a Noxzema lubricated razor. MrsL does not have any problems with the razor...me not so much. MrsL has agreed to let me stay out until the redness goes away completely...and it should be gone by tomorrow. I have since gone to the store and got my trusty ole Gillette razors and will be using them from now on.

[carolina cyclist]

One of the fringe benefits of being unlocked is not being forced awake with nocturnal erections...so I thought. I woke up this morning around 2:00 with a raging hard on and wasn't sure if I was dreaming or not. I rolled over and found MrsL laying beside me and couldn't resist carressing her wonderfully naked body. I was very frisky and immediately reached up, grabbed her hands and held them over her head and began slowly stroking her pussy. Every once in awhile, MrsL enjoys a bit of a spanking on her pussy and since it had been awhile I started with gently swats to which she would moan, gyrate, and thrust up for more. This drove me wild! I would give her several gently swats then one hard swat and enjoy the shuddering that crashed through her body with each one. After a couple of seconds, I would ask her if she wanted another one and she would acknowledge with a simple shake of the head and I would oblige with another series of small swats....leading up to one full hand swat! At some point, I let her hands go and I realized I was feeling a wonderful pressure on my raging cock....her hand. She had gripped the shaft and was alternating between squeezing and stroking. After one final swat sending waves of pleasure coursing through her body...she leaned up and whispered in my ear..."finish me now" and grabbed a handful of hair and pulled me down to her pussy. I eagerly lapped at her swollen lips and clitoris as she purred. Usually, I take my time bringing her to an orgasm but we were both horny as hell...so she had a massive orgasm within a couple of minutes. She had her legs wrapped around my head and I could feel her orgasm pulsing through her clit, pussy, and even through her legs. I could not leave well enough alone so I used my fingers to separate her engorged vagina lips to expose her still twitching clit and began rapidly flicking my tongue over it...she had a 2nd orgasm within seconds.

My cock was raging and in the past, I would pull her legs up and dive my hard cock in to her. Last night, I rolled her up on the bed, covered her up, and walked back around the bed and layed down beside her. She snuggled in beside me and said "just because you are unlocked doesn't mean you get to cum..." She fell back asleep holding my hard cock in her hand. I fell asleep happy and content knowing I had given MrsL two awesome orgasms and she was still my wonderful wife and KH!!!

[carolina cyclist]

While I certainly miss my Bon4 and really can not wait until MrsL's Steelheart arrives, I am happily frustrated this morning and would be happy, I think, to be left out for awhile so MrsL can really tease me anytime she wants. Last night, she came to be exceptionally frisky and started stroking my cock as soon as she climbed in bed. She even hinted that she liked it being out for awhile.

She edged me with her hands, fingers, fingernails, and her mouth for over an hour bringing me to the edge 5 or 6 times. She has become quite fantastic at edging which is both a blessing and a curse. She kept edging me until I broke down and asked for permission to cum...to which she simply giggled, sternly said "no", and rolled over to go to sleep. I snuggled in behind her still with a raging hard on, to which she commented, "you have never been this hard this long...too bad you can't cum...." which drove me wild. I began grinding against her beautiful ass. She began purring and rolled over and went right down and started sucking my hard cock again. As I got close again...she stopped and laughed out loud..."I can't believe you did that to yourself...that is all on you."

The soreness and redness is just about gone so I will be back in my Bon4 by the end of the day.

[carolina cyclist]

MrsL is really taking advantage of me being "free" the past couple of days. No, there have not been any orgasms for me; however, she is taking every opportunity to tease and take me right to the edge of an orgasm...consequently...I am horny as hell!!

Earlier today, I walked by her in the family room while she was stretching in her recliner and took the opportunity to give her a kiss and stroke her pussy through her shorts. She in turn rolled toward me, pulled down my shorts, and proceeded to deep throat my throbbing cock. After about 3 or 4 times, she pulled my shorts up and informed me I needed to get back to work. When I don't have to travel, I work at home and it certainly has its fringe benefits. Just a few minutes ago, I heard her walk in to our bedroom and in to the closet...and I got a text ordering me in to the closet. She was sitting on the floor with an delightfully evil grin on her face and pointed to the floor right in front of her. She again pulled my shorts down and started stroking my cock, which was already getting hard and when it was firm enough she again started sucking and nibbling. She took me to the brink of cumming 3 times and after the last time pulled up my shorts and said, "that is all I need right now...get back to work!"

I truly love being locked up; however, this level of teasing is awesome.

[carolina cyclist]

MrsL was very generous Friday. We woke up Friday morning and kissed and cuddled for a few minutes before I ventured down her body and found myself nibbling and licking her clit. She enjoyed two orgasms then sat up and started stroking my cock and nibbling/biting my nipples. She told me how she was going to tie me up and enjoy a little "playtime" tonight and if I was lucky...I might get to have an orgasm. Since I have been out all week trying to clear up a hot spot, I asked her if I should go ahead and get back in my cage right now since the hot spot had healed...and she looked at me and very curtly said: "only if you don't want anything I just described to happen tonight" and got up and went in to the bathroom to get ready for the day.

Fast forward to Friday night, the house was quiet as our oldest was house/pet sitting for a friend and our youngest went to bed early...(we have two 20 - something boys at home for the summer...one due to a little issue with DWI's and the youngest is home from college so normal life is running rampant in our house and chastity life is a bit more difficult). I had been outside doing some yardwork in the early evening so MrsL told me to go take a shower and come back downstairs. When I did, she had 50 Shades of Grey pulled up on demand and we watched it...okay movie but we have no desire or intention (right now) of a truly D/s relationship. After the movie, she told me to go upstairs and get out her toys, get out of my clothes and lay down on the floor. I eagerly obliged. MrsL was true to her promise....she secured me spread eagle on the floor (she has become very clever with the straps we have hidden under our mattress) and proceeded to have some fun. I am a bit of a masochist...well...a big time masochist and she knows just how to work me during our playtime. Let's just say that nipple clamps and cbt along with some clever use of ice were great fun for both of us. My cock was dancing and pulsing as she alternated between stroking, sucking, and riding it....each time stopping all activity prior to my climax. When she was ready...and to let me work through a bit of a refractory period since I had been on edge for over 3 hours (she was playing with me throughout the entire movie plus while being tied up) she untied me and we moved to the bed where we kissed and carressed each other. It only took about 5 minutes before I was rock hard again and when she felt it she told me to get inside her.

I climbed on top of her to find her pussy moist and dripping and slid right in...of course my primal nature to have an orgasm took over and she could sense it...."I didn't say you could cum...I said get inside me..this is going to take awhile..." So for the next 20 minutes or so I edged myself inside my wonderful wife as she told me how much she was enjoying having me inside her...when she finally sensed I couldn't make it much longer she simply whispered in my ear..."it's time" and I started diving in as long and deep as I could and exploded. I got up cleaned her up with a towel (I don't have to eat my cum unless I orgasm without permission) and proceeded to give her 4 body rocking orgasms with my mouth and tongue. We cuddled and fell asleep.

Saturday morning I woke up to her stroking my cock....which nearly caused me to blow another load. She asked me if I wanted a 2nd orgasm and giggled. I just shook my head yes and watched her climb on top of me and start riding my cock. I was ready in no time but again she told me it needed to last awhile so she would ride hard and fast for a few seconds then just sit on me with my cock buried inside her...then ride me slow and steady flexing her kegel muscles...then sit on me...and so on. This went on for a wonderfully long time and MrsL was able to do something that very rarely happens...have an orgasm from PIV sex. When that happened...she told me it was okay for me to cum...so I had a 2nd orgasm within a few hours. As we lay there enjoying each other she said I needed to get cleaned up, get back in my cage, and come see her downstairs. With that she got up went in the bathroom to get her pajamas on and left the room. I showered, shaved using my old faithful razors without Noxzema, and got back in my Bon4 and went to find her downstairs. She had the lock with her and happily put it in place.

After 26 years, the passion and energy is back in our love life....and it is AWESOME!

[carolina cyclist]

I think I finally had my first true experience of a refractory period after this past weekend. After having two great orgasms in a matter of hours coupled with a major test this week in my masters course, I have been a bit on edge (no pun intended). While cooking dinner last night, MrsL and I started reconnecting and focusing on each other. However, I had that test looming so I sat down and knocked it out last night. When she came to bed, we cuddled and I told her I had been too grumpy and would work on it starting right then. She just agreed, reached down to stroke the Bon4, and said we would address it later and went to sleep So, we shall see what is in store.

[carolina cyclist]

Well, I am on my first trip since February without my Bon4. When I put it back on last Saturday morning, everything seemed normal. However, as I just posted on the General board, I have some scar tissue around a titanium clip used during a vasectomy and every now and again it becomes irritated and inflamed. Between last Saturday and Friday MrsL and I were both very horny and she teased me several times a day. At some point, the scar tissue got irritated. There is some inflamation and soreness...no pain....when touched.

I have had this several times before and have had the area medically checked and there are no issues...it is just the scar tissue getting aggravated. MrsL and I had a very in depth conversation this morning as I was packing to leave....I am on the honor system. I have not had an orgasm now in a week and it will be another week since I am on the road. She stated that I will be "tested" to see if I have been good when I get home.

On the brighter side, I checked with Steelworxx and my Steelheart is due in two weeks! I can't wait. I really think that extra little silicone piece used to connect the tube to the base ring on my Bon4 creates too much pressure causing the issue.