stardustqueen wrote:Just a quick Hello! I am a Domme currently exploring chastity with a real time slave that I play with. So far he has only been locked for 8 days before I let him out. Next time it will be longer. He found this forum and suggested I sig up and read it. So here I am! I look forward to reading the posts, learning new things and gathering new ideas to use with him. Nice to meet you all!
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Welcome to the site
Contact the site admins. Tom Allen or Atone and they will grant you access to the KH only forum. As a humble mod I don't have those super powers...
Owned and loved by Celtic Queen. Her perception is my reality.
My wife and I are completely new to chastity play and hoping to learn a few (lots of!) things.
We're living in the Mediterranian sunshine after taking a hike from cold northern Europe.
In particular I'd like to learn which devices might be suitale for beginners and how to go about sizing, etc, as well as dealing with a relevant medical condition - I don't know if this thread is the right place for that though, so I'll wait & see what you good folk advise.
Welcome greecemonkey. This particular thread would not be the place for your inquiry, but if you browse around a bit you will find that there have been some frequent discussions on the subject recently, and using the search function will show you more from the past.
04/07/19 "And then I 'punished' you by making you lick my pussy after I let my other 'boy' fuck me." --Mrs. Twisted
Yes, I'm another 50-something guy, but I was in my mid-20s when I was introduced to male chastity by a girlfriend. She's long gone, but the desire for denial she awakened has followed me through the last quarter century and several relationships, including my current marriage.
Don't take the "tammystoy" handle too literally. It's more of an inside joke than a description of our relationship. With one exception, all our D/s and bdsm stuff is strictly for playtime. And if anything, I am more dominant in the bedroom, even when I'm locked in the cage.
Which brings me to the one exception: male chastity. We started out slow. My wife had many reservations when I first brought it up -- we'd already been together several years -- but I didn't push too hard and she gradually got more and more into it. Someone on another site wrote once that it seemed like a lot of women were reluctant to get into male chastity at first, but once they do they get more into it than the men who brought it up in the first place.That kind of describes my wife. We used to discuss and agree on how long I would be in the cage, but one time at the end of a two-week agreement she announced she was going to keep the keys for two more weeks. What could I say?
That's pretty much where it stands now: she decides when she wants me back in the cage and for how long. We haven't got to the point where male chastity is a lifestyle. I doubt we ever will. As it is, I spend more time out of the cage than in (although it doesn't always feel that way!). But it's always her decision. In that respect, I guess, I'm a submissive and she's a dominant.
I found this forum while reading a post on Thumper's blog and couldn't believe I hadn't run across it before. I really like the "grown ups' table" approach here. Don't get me wrong: I love a good fantasy, and have even written a few myself. But it's great to have a place to go that's devoted to the real world. Thanks!
Hello all! I'm been Very happily married to my wonderful wife since '93. Everything was perfect with the exception of our one little Unspoken secret - my incessant masturbating. I stumbled across Chastity devices in mid 2014, and in my research I stumbled across Thumpers blog. After educating myself, I sat down and discussed it with Tesa. To soay she didn't hesitate is an understatement! 8 months in, and I am always locked up and yearning for the rewards and attention she gives me. I quickly progressed from CB6000, the HT2 and have settled into her ideal device...the Looker 2. The difficulty of "popping" the insert in guarantees that I could never escape. Tesa has also incorporated the FLR and DD methods into this lifestyle and truly loves giving my ass weekly workouts.
I am a very outgoing, Alpha type. A leader of me, Capiain of Industry if you will. The gift I gave her of becoming my KH has revitalized our relationship and has amplified the wonderful feelings that we have developed for each other over the past 26 years. At times I'm whiny, and plead with her for release. She just gives me a wickedly wonderful smile and tells me "No". She knows what is best for me!
I've read here and gathered info, formed opinions and somehow found the stones to approach my wife with this subject and was met with understanding and love. So we're prepared to go forward and reading here and some posting will be part of the trip. I really like the forum and the atmosphere. Great info.
Hello, I'm 42 living in ontario canada. Currently self locked in an MM jailbird. Been interested in chastity for the past 4 years and finally decided to take the plunge a few months back. I've been reading posts for a while and gotten some excellent advice and read some cool stories
Looking forward to more
