Anal Play

[noid51]

Locked up 24/7 except for our vacation time. I'm finding myself becoming increasingly drawn to anal play. I think it's because I can't stimulate my cock being locked and I'm so horny that I need to play with myself somehow. Years ago in a previous relationship we were into anal play but since then it's been something I haven't really been interested in. Now I seem to be obsessed with it lately. Part of me feels like I'm cheating on my KH by indulging as its something I do by myself when she is not around. We have talked about her pegging me when we are in the heat of the moment but I don't know if it would ever happen. Am I cheating? There is no orgasm by the way but I do feel a little guilty.

[locked4her55]

I don't believe this would fall under the category of cheating. If you were able to orgasm as a result then it would be different. Play on

[Mr No1Cums]

I believe that you should tell your KH since you are doing this because you are horny and it brings you pleasure. Maybe she would not approve of this and she wants to be the only one who can give you any sexual pleasure? I know for myself I would check with my KH on this subject since in our relationship we need to ask for permission for self-pleasure. Just ask her, she will not bite and if she does enjoy it

[sherulestherooster]

I don't have an opinion as to weather that is "cheating" or not.

For what it's worth, I really enjoy anal play as well. I would never had thought about this at all but one time when we were messing around, my wife started playing/teasing that area, and the sensations were incredible. I really do enjoy it. Actual penetration is a rare treat, maybe like 4 times per year with either the aneros prostate massager or her gloved fingers. I have not come anywhere close to climaxing, but the naughtiness of it and the fact that she won't let me do that to her make it pretty intense as a teasing experience. Interestingly, even though I really enjoy it, I always lose my erection when she plays down there.

[Caged55]

Anal play has been part of our FLR for about 4 years, but she has elevated her need for anal sex (strap-on sex) since me becoming permanently chaste except for her sexual "use" for me. I have far more anal sex than I have orgasms. She wanted me to realise the plesaure of anal versus male orgasm, and literally trained me to take her rather sizable strap-on. She would take me so hard and long that I would use the safe-word, all whilst being caged.
Entering into permanent chastity has really increased her dominance over me sexually, to a point that anal sex is no longer just "play" but something she really enjoys, she loves dominating me anally and how submissive it makes me, especially since I am now permanently in chastity with scheduled orgasms only every 6 weeks or more.
As I am not allowed to wear pants at home, as she loves the site of me naked, esepcially from the waste down, with my JB proudly showing, she often insists that I am butt plugged so that I am ready for her anally should she want to take me, therefore, anal "play" is nearly constant, especially on weekends....

I must admit, that I have really starting to enjoy anal, and her dominance as a woman is incredibly sexy, and the effect it has on me post-anal sex, is something that seems to really turn her on in return. She would often "ass-fuck" me before we go out, so I "remember" my place when we out in public, its become a "natural" part of our FLR, and just as chastity its improves my behavior and attitude, not as much as chastity, but certainly complimentary...

[GoddessRhea]

I personally would be upset if my partner was pleasuring himself in any way, even anally without my knowledge. Now of course every relationship is different, so she may not care, but I would personally advise you to atleast discuss it with her and get her perspective on it.

[sissyrandi]

I love anal play, and the best moments I've ever had are the ones when my wife has been atop me with her strap-on (a very rare situation I'm afraid), but I wouldn't consider doing anything back there when we're in "play" mode or she's in control. We don't do this 24/7 365, we do it for a few months and then switch back, then go a few months and switch back, but I've gotten to where I much prefer the submissive side of the fence!

[Michele]

My hubby is not allowed ANY sexual pleasure without my permission - penile or anal. This is definitely cheating in our relationship - but every relationship is different and some have rules about all different things.

My rule is NO sexual pleasure from ANYthing unless I say so.

[Caged55]

My hubby is not allowed ANY sexual pleasure without my permission - penile or anal. This is definitely cheating in our relationship - but every relationship is different and some have rules about all different things.

My rule is NO sexual pleasure from ANYthing unless I say so.

Sounds like my KH, ... this weekend I was allowed out for a few hours, under the constant watchful eye of my KH, which earned me several rebukes as I touched myself even in the slightest, to a point that she ordered me back into to chastity (after 4 hours of "freedom") and a quick domestic discipline session... for my alleged "back-chatting" or denying that I touched myself, and later after we went to bed, she mounted me as if to say, I own you, I control your sexuality... and indeed - she does!