Help wanted: ways to tease without unlocking

[Flaccido Perpetuo]

Maybe this is a strange request, so I'll explain myself.

As I already mentioned in my Hello World introduction post, both the "officialisation" of our more or less already existing FLR and the introduction of male chastity/orgasm denial were my idea.
My SO (and now also keyholder) and myself always do our best to communicate openly and she did not understand exactly why I really wanted this and what good it would do for our already very good relationship. I tried to explain taking into account all perspectives (hers, mine and ours) and she accepted the FLR as this would not change too much of the dynamics of our relationship.

Regarding the male chastity and her "ownership" (control) of my genitals, she wanted to test it during a trial period. We decided upon one month to try out the concept. During the weeks that followed she really warmed to the idea and by the end of the month she was enthusiastic to continue. Why and how it all worked out so well is another story...

However, she said there was one condition if we were to continue practicing male chastity/orgasm denial.
She explained that she was really turned on by the idea of taking my penis completely out of the equation where sex is concerned while at the same time maintaining a healthy and mutually satisfying sexual relationship for the both of us. She also assured me that if I were to agree to try this experiment, I would not be immediately cut off from all orgasms immediately but that it would be a gradual process over a longer period of time, maybe the rest of this year or so. If it would not work out in the long term, we could go back to "normal" MC / OD.

Although I was a little apprehensive at first, I also felt aroused by thinking about it and I agreed to her condition.

After this long introduction, I hope the background of my question is clear.

I know her as a very playful and inventive person so I am sure she is already thinking about interesting games and teases that she can use to reach her objective and simultaneously have lots of fun.
Nevertheless, I am looking for ideas and suggestions that I can propose to her.

Has anybody done or tried something similar and how did you go about it? What are good teases that do not directly involve the penis? Any other thoughts about this?

Thanks.

[TwistedMister]

Being required to provide oral pleasure while I remain locked works pretty well on me.

[slave d]

Having to hold a dildo on top of my cage, or tied to the cage, or with a harness while MsM rides cowgirl to multiple orgasms does it for me every time !!

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[wishful4]

Don't discount verbal teasing. Many women don't realize how effective it is. Teasing you while fondling you, tweaking your nipples, all the while telling you how she is going to deny you. Doesn't matter if she really intends on doing all the things she says. It is just really hot while she's saying them and you are powerless to do anything about it. It will really push your hot button and takes very little effort on her part.

[Flaccido Perpetuo]

Thanks for the suggestions so far.

Yesterday I suggested that she could maybe peg me. She immediately replied that this chastity thing was my idea and that although she loves it she doesn't think I should be the one having all the fun and that I should be the one wearing the strap-on to pleasure her!

[Toy4her]

We have a key game, to see how my wife will receive her pleasure. Three identical locks are randomly selected from a set of 4. Two locks are fitted to my cage and the third locks her toy box, she then picks 1 key from four identical keys.
1. Key opens the lock allowing her full access to her cock.
1. Key unlocks the cage only allowing her to tease me while she face sits me to orgasm.
1. Key unlocks Her toy box I remain locked while using her various toys on her

No excuses I'm not allowed to cum unless she grants it, this regime is enjoyed by both of us.

[doctor_h]

Having to hold a dildo on top of my cage, or tied to the cage, or with a harness while MsM rides cowgirl to multiple orgasms does it for me every time !!

d

I second this one. Being enthusiastically ridden while not getting any physical stimulation gets me as worked up as anything excluding contact with the penis. My kh can seldom orgasm by penetration but when she does while riding me without my penis getting stimulation it is additionally arousing.