[Carolina Cyclist] Our new lifestyle...

[carolina cyclist]

After a nice 24 hour release and remembering MrsL's one simple rule, in between coughing spells from lingering bronchitis, MrsL really drove me crazy Sunday night. I went to bed about an hour before she did but wasn't sleeping very well. When she walked in the, undressed, and crawled in to bed I got a massive throbbing hardon. MrsL ran her hands down my body and asked if I had been expecting her and giggled. When she rubbed the top of my cock and confirmed I had indeed remembered rule #1, she looked me in the eyes..."okay mister, No orgams, No touching, No kissing, and No licking....just lay back and enjoy.

With that, she turned around into a 69 position placing her wonderfully intoxicating pussy inches away from my mouth while she began sucking and stroking my raging erection. She brought me to the edge of blowing like a volcano 5 or 6 times all the while moving herself back and forth to my lips...if she even thought I was trying to let my mouth open/use my tongue she stopped and gently bit the head of my cock. She finally turned around and reiterated all of the "no's" she had given me earlier, grabbed my cock, and slid her warm pulsating pussy down on me. She slowly started fucking herself groaning with pleasure all the while paying attention to my body. As I neared orgasm she would stop...slide down my body...and after waiting for several seconds would begin to suck and nuzzle my cock with her tongue. She did this 5 or 6 more times as I writhed and squirmed each time she would stop. I even uttered those fateful words...please let me cum and I will lick you clean and swallow my entire load....to no avail. After the last time...I really lost count....she layed down beside me and told me, "this will keep you thinking about me all week while you are out of town on business." I asked if I could finish her and she said "no, we are both going to wait until you get home." Wow...!

[carolina cyclist]

I reached a huge milestone last night....21 days with no orgasm. MrsL has teased and denied me now for 3 weeks and last night was incredible. I want to cum...but I don't want to cum...and she now knows that and uses it like a Jedi Knight!

Last night, after she returned from work, she sat in the recliner and entered her sales while I rubbed her feet. She knew she was going to be awhile so at about 11 pm she sent me off to bed so she could focus and finish. I woke up at 2:30 to her massaging my cock through the Bon4. She snuggled in beside me and told me how excited and proud she was that I had gone 21 days but wasn't going to let me have an orgasm until she could sense that I was absolutely ready. We kissed and snuggled for about an hour then as she was drfiting off to sleep...she instructed me to wake her up early when I woke up so she could take off my cage and have fun with her cock & balls! Needless to say it was difficult to fall asleep.

This morning, I woke up a little early and simply laid in bed and watched her sleep and slowly started stroking her breast...as they are never off limits. As she woke up, she asked me if I had the scissors (we had to switch to a plastic seal as I had to go to one of my work locations that has metal detectors yesterday). I jumped up and ran to the bathroom and got the scissors, took them back to MrsL, who cut off the seal and told me to go take off the cage and wash up to which I eagerly complied. Yes, I remembered Rule #1. As I crawled in bed beside her, she began stroking my engorged cock slowly. My head was swimming, lost in the feeling of my beautiful wife stroke me. She slid down and started stroking and sucking which nearly had me shooting my load within seconds. MrsL has become very adept at reading my body and she stopped and started this numerous times. After several near orgasms with her hands and mouth she climbed on top of me and asked if I wanted to be inside her? Yes, I replied. She grabbed my cock and sat down on it and started her slow rhythmic dance with her warm wet pussy on my raging cock. As she was riding me...I began asking to cum. "You really don't want to cum now do you..." she asked as the rhythm of her dance increased. Every time I said yes, she repeated the question. Finally, I had to admit that I really didn't want to have an orgasm. She continued her dance for a couple of seconds and as she sensed my body tensing up she stopped and rolled off beside me. My cock was throbbing, twitching, and oozing precum like a leaky faucet. MrsL took her hand and stroked me a few more times to squeeze out as much precum as she could...getting it all over her hand/fingers and brought her hand to my mouth. "Clean off my hand and listen...I will not let you cum until I am absolutely certain you are ready" As I licked her hand, "remember how my pussy feels because until I am 100% convinced you are ready you will not be there for a few more days". When I asked if I could finish her, she simply said "did I tell you last night when we were falling asleep that you would get to finish me" and promptly sent me to the shower to get ready for work. As I was shaving, she came in to ensure I was being a good husband, smiled at me through the shower door satisfied I was behaving, and went back and laid down. I woke her up long enough to click her lock shut and she is peacefully sleeping right now.

If I have any regrets about our new lifestyle, it is that I did not have the courage to surrender to her to stop my incessant masturbation habit many, many, years ago.

[carolina cyclist]

What a wonderful weekend!

Friday night, MrsL came to bed and teased me for over an hour and then ordered me to "finish her". After three orgasms pulsed through her body she ordered me to stand in front of her. She toyed with the lock on my Bon4, leaned in, and whispered in my ear: "if you finish the mulch in the yard and get the floors in the house clean while I am gone tomorrow...you will have a great night tomorrow night." With that she lay down and went to sleep. I had a fitful night sleep with several erections waking me up but didn't mind.

We woke up Saturday morning to a slow drizzling rain and all MrsL could do was laugh. While it was raining...there was no lightning...so I got out my rain gear as she was getting ready to leave and told her I was going to the lawn&garden store. Her smile nearly made me shoot my load in my Bon4! I bought flowers and mulch and spent about 2 hours in the rain getting all of the planters is the yard were taken care of with some color and fresh mulch. Of course, after dealing with bronchitis and walking pneumonia I was not sure if I was going to get sick again but as if this post all is well. Once I finished the yard, I cleaned up and started working on the floors in the house. MrsL came home early as her meetings finished early and found me finishing up the floors. She walked over and began rubbing my locked cock through my clothes..."wow, tonight is going to be interesting."

That night, I was so drained that I feel asleep on the couch as we were watching television. MrsL woke me up at around 11 and told me to go to bed as she was going to watch one of her favorite shows on DVR then come to bed. At about 1 am, I woke up to MrsL stroking the inside of my thighs and a raging erection straining to escape the Bon4.

"Oh, you are awake. Are you sure you are ready? I would not want you to disappoint yourself by not going a full 30 days..." (I studpidly made a suggestion after my last orgasm as she was putting the lock on me that we had a neighborhood garage sale in 30 days and smiled at her...BCWYWF).

"Yes, I am ready...please let me cum."

"I am not sure...will you be disappointed"

"I will never suggest anything ever again...I need you to be in control..."

"Then go get my key!" With that the best night of sex we have had in probably 20 years started.

MrsL started by slowly stroking my cock with her hand and telling me we had all night because we had nowhere to be Sunday. She kissed my chest and nipples, let her tongue slide down to my now pulsing cock, and began stroking/sucking at the same time. She brought me to several near orgasms before climbing up on top of me. She reached down and gripped my cock and slid her hot pussy down on top of me. "You can cum...but not until I do..." (which has always been an isssue for me). As her rhythm increased so did the load building in my balls. I could not last and as she squeezed her pussy around my cock on a down thrust I exploded inside her! She smiled and told me it was okay because I was going to clean her out and finish her with my mouth anyway. She climbed up my body...leaving a trail of cum on my chest...straddled my face and placed her cum filled pussy over my mouth. Not the most pleasant experience but anything for MrsL. As I finished cleaning her up and let me tongue focus on her pulsating clit...she exploded in a powerful wet orgasm!

In the past I would have rolled over and went to sleep but not tonight! I was horny as hell. I have a bit of a foot fetish so I let her lay down and started massaging her feet and sucking on her toes. After about 20 minutes, I actually felt like I was getting hard again (again have never really been able to have multiple erections/orgasms before) so I asked her if I could have another orgasm..."of course you can as long as you know you are cleaning me up..." That is all she had to say! This time, I climbed on top of her and slid my now throbbing cock back inside her. To my surprise, she reached orgasm as I was thrusting in to her which sent me over the edge and I had a second even stronger orgasm...my whole body shook as I shot my load in her. Afterward, all I could do was smile and laugh like a giddy little kid on his birthday opening presents. We laughed and snuggled for a few minutes then MrsL reminded me she was messy so I cleaned her up and made sure she had a couple of more orgasms with my tongue. What a night. We collapsed in each other's arms.

I woke up around 9 am with a raging boner as MrsL let me sleep without getting locked up. As I have posted before, I love watching her sleep and I watched her for about 10 minutes before I found myself stroking the inside of her thighs. She woke up, reached down and let her hand brush against my cock..."you want to have another orgasm?" was all she had to ask. I spread her legs and dove into her. We rolled in the bed, me on top...her on top...finally arriving at her favorite position...her on the edge, me standing up with her legs on my shoulders with free access to her pussy. That was all it took...and I was cumming for a third time in less than 6 hours, "now you know what you need to do..right?" With that I kneeled down and eagerly lapped out the cum oozing out of her then racked her body with a massive tongue induced orgasm!

She let me stay unlocked the remainder of the day Sunday. I went to bed at midnight and she finally came to bed at 3 or so...we snuggled together and feel asleep. She is still peacefully sleeping while I am at my desk in my home office happily locked again.

What a great weekend. I love our new lifestyle!

[carolina cyclist]

Oh, I forgot to mention we also finally ordered her Steelheart. We are both very excited...now the wait. I got my confirmation email stating 8-9 weeks!!!

[Caged55]

Lucky... I made love to my KH on Sunday after being caged for a solid week without release, and tease through the cage, as she licks my cock through the bars of the JB... however after she came, she allowed me to masturbate and orgasm, then she put me back into chastity before I even had a shower, and to clean myself caged... last weekend I had a whole 12 hours out, from Sunday am to 7pm, there is no way she would let me sleep uncaged for fear that I would masturbate while she slept (and as I have done before)... my unauthorized masturbation days are over... permanetly, and I love the new lifestyle shere she has control.... its so much better and our relationship is so enriched by all the attention she now gets, the massages, the coffee in bed, foot rubs and countless oral orgasms she wants...

[carolina cyclist]

So, after my 3 week bout with bronchitis and walking pnuemonia, I fianlly felt good enough to go back to CrossFit Monday afternoon. I was able to get the strength training done without issue and opted for a 15 minute row instead of the scheduled WOD (work out of the day). There was some coughing and a little shortness of breath but all in all a good day. MrsL wasn't at home so I texted her for permission to use the emergency key to remove my Bon4 as long as I showered and put it back on as soon as I got home. I eagerly and dutifully complied by going straight home, showering, and locking myself back in my Bon4. She even FaceTime'd me to ensure I complied...which is a huge step for her!

So, after running to Chipotle for a burrito bowl and working on my MBA course I went upstairs to watch the Braves game in the family room. I also use the family room as my home office when not traveling so I had my phone charging on the desk across the room. We have an old recliner and futon in the family room and I was lounging in the recliner. This recliner is as temperamental as a toddler during the "terrible 2 years" in that you have to sit up straight before attempting to close the foot rest. Well, my work phone across the room started ringing and regardless of the time of day, I have to answer my phone due to the nature of my work (I am a fraud investigator for a major corporation and have to deal with issues all over the globe in all time zones). Instead of sitting up straight before attempting to close the foot rest, I tried forcing the foot rest closed while reclined....BAD IDEA!!! I felt a pop on the inside of my right thigh that radiated up into my groin. For those of us old enough to remember this analogy...I saw stars swirling around my head like Wiley Coyote when his elaborate traps failed to snag Road Runner. Needless to say it was and still is very painful.

I have iced and wrapped my thigh right up to the crotch now for two days. Getting up from sitting is very painful. Last night, I broke down and asked MrsL if I could be unlocked for a couple of days. She smiled and said, of course. My wonderful wife is an awesome keyholder!! Going to continue ice, wrapping, and Aleve today then switch to heat tomorrow. Hopefully, this heals quickly!

[carolina cyclist]

It has been a crazy week.

First the groin pull and having to be unlocked all week. The pulled muscle is healing nicely and I am able to do some light stretching to, which feels great. After a long day of neighborhod yard sale, spring clean out of the garage, and some honey do list around the house, I took MrsL to get her mani/pedi and then out to dinner. Once we got back home, we were both in the mood for play time. She lounged in her love seat recliner and teased me for about 45 minutes then we headed to our room. I provided MrsL with many body quivering...wake the neighbors because the windows are up orgasms with my mouth, tongue, and hands. Then...

When she ordered me on to the bed for her turn for more fun teasing, denying, and maybe some PIV....I could not get an erection...even if my life depended on it. She sucked, stroked, licked, and nibbled for 20-25 minutes. Talk about frustrating. She finally crawled back up and lay beside me and whispered in my ear "I think we both need to rest...feel free to wake me up any time the rest of the nigt." I woke up around 2:30 with a raging hard on and started carressing MrsL's back and inner thighs and she responded by arching up on her knees. I instantly knew she wanted a little doggie style action and gladly complied. I have never been able to go for a long time during intercourse, thus the skills with my tongue and mouth, and this time was no different. MrsL simply rolled over, gave me a long kiss, and drifted off to sleep.

I am now back in my Bon4...counting the days until my Steelheart arrives. I leave town on a business trip tomorrow so all is back normal in the world!

[carolina cyclist]

It is so good to be back in to a "normal" routine around here. I traveled this week completely locked up which was a great feeling. On Tuesday night, MrsL even surprised me with a full hour of sexting...yes...my once vanilla wife of 26 years is truly the woman of my dreams!! Her sext messages were wonderfully frustrating and pleasing at the same time.

Wednesday and Thursday were both "travel" days. Wednesday was all about enduring getting home via flights that were delayed all day due to weather related issues and Thursday was spent driving 6 hours round trip to pick up my youngest son from his first year in college. It won't change much around the house as my oldest son is at home getting his life back in shape after spiraling in alcohol and drugs in college...so we have 4 adults in the house for the summer. Are MrsL and I going to change...absolutely not...we both love how our life has improved over the past 4 months.

Even though I got home at midnight Wednesday and had to be up and on the road early Thursday, as soon as MrsL came to bed she climbed on top of me and started grinding her hot cunt on my cage and said she was going to have orgasms tonight even I was not! She then straddled my face and instructed me to get busy...

I pleasured her for about an hour in several different positions...most of which allowed her to tease the bulging cock inside its silicon jail. I could not have been any happier. Last night, we were both exhausted so when she came to bed we just cuddled and fell asleep. I had to run to the VA clinic this morning and when I got back she was still in bed with her wonderfully enticing and sexy feet sticking out from the sheet. Knowing the rule that she will tell me to stop if she doesn't want my attention...I began carressing and sucking on her toes. She responded by rolling over on to her back and opening her legs wide and with her eyes closed simply wiggled a finger directing my tongue to her clit. Needless to say, she loves her wake up calls.

I am now typing this during my brief lunch break and she is downstairs with our youngest son getting caught up on his last semester. Life is Good....no GREAT!

[carolina cyclist]

MrsL and I started a new travel process this week in anticipation of getting her Steelheart. Plus, for some reason the plastic seals seem to create a looser fit for my Bon4...maybe it is psychological...maybe not but I prefer a real lock. Our new process:
- MrsL replaced the lock with a plastic seal last night before I went to bed.
- She placed the emergency key and a second plastic seal in an envelope, signed her name over the seal, and placed tape over the seal and put it in my computer bag along with the lock.
- I went through my normal travel routine for the day, going through TSA PreCheck with my Bon4 and plastic seal.
- Now that I am at the hotel and when she is ready, we get on FaceTime and she watches me remove the plastic seal and click the lock shut.
- On the night before I return home, we will FaceTime again and I will break the seal on the envelope after she reviews that it has not been opened and switch back to plastic for the flight home.
- If I have an emergency and need to get out...I have to call/FaceTime with her to get permission.

I like the new process. Once MrsL's Steelheart arrives we will have to amend this process. MrsL has hinted that I will be wearing the Bon4 to the airport and put on the Steelheart at the hotel that night....or...she may give me a bit of freedom until I get through security and have to put her Steelheart on once I am through security. Either way, I will gladly do what my wonderful wife/KH wants me to do.

[carolina cyclist]

Just got off of FaceTime with MrsL for the switch back to the plastic seal. I never thought that something so mundane could be a turn on but it was. MrsL had a great time making sure I showed her the lock up close, having me show her the seal on the envelope inch by inch, then inspecting the plastic seal once I locked it in place. She obviously saw I was beginning to bulge in my Bon4 and started verbally teasing me. After about 5 minutes of verbal teasing, that had my cock straining to the point I thought the silicone was going to give, she abruptly said..."gotta go...sleep tight"...and disconnected from FaceTime! Wow!

Can't wait to get home tomorrow afternoon so I can really take care of her!!

Love my new lifestyle!!!