Should release be planned?

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ChasteM
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Re: Should release be planned?

Post by ChasteM »

This lifestyle or game, whatever you want to call it in your life is completely up to you how you want to do it. I don't have a scheduled release date. I like it because it makes me focus on being a better partner for my wife. I do like the concept of dice or marbles in a bag and the odds are against you. For me, if I knew when I was getting released then I think I would be able to overcome the mental aspect and be ready to "peak" when the time comes.
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Tame Lion
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Re: Should release be planned?

Post by Tame Lion »

Actually, the isn't really about planned release date as much as announced release date. Mrs. Lion knows exactly when I will orgasm. She's not telling me.
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Re: Should release be planned?

Post by Caged55 »

I have no idea when I will have release, generally Madam wants to be pleasured on weekends when she is rested, BUT there no guarantee, nor that I will be allowed to orgasm. She says 1xmonth should be fine, but there is no date associated with this, and if she is not in the mood, no matter how attentive I am, there is no release.
Her rule dictates that I have to earn a orgasm, be it by pleasuring her, or good or rather exceptional behavior and pleasant moods may be factors - but the fact that I don't know and its totally up to her, even when she would unlock me, is incredibly sexy and keeps me on my best behavior at all times.
I made the mistake of raising my voice ever so slightly to her, and it "earned" me a hiding and a additional week before she would even consider unlocking me (actually worked out to be 10 days).

In my opinion, release should never be planned, or expected, ...she locks me, she owns me, and don't even make the mistake of bugging her for release.... rather play cool, that all is "easy", and she will want to stimulate you if she doubts herself or thinks she lost the touch... he he works sometimes if you dont do it too often!