"Hello world" thread

[TwistedMister]

After 15 years of vanilla sex, I finally introduced her to this lifestyle. Though it will take some time for her to get used to, I gave her the keys and she let me do all the work last night and then said something to the effect of " You don't have enough tickets to ride this coaster yet." She doesn't know how that just turned me on so much!

Then you should absolutely make a point of *telling* her how much she turned you on. That sort of positive reinforcement will go a long way toward seeing that she is happy and satisfied with the decision to try this experiment with you.

[dolefrank]

hello,
new here and just getting into the idea of chastity. Not sure where I will go from here but who knows.

[Michele]

Hello and welcome!

[andy13]

Hello World.

Bi Married man here. Into chastity but not sure how to explain it to my VERY VANILLA wife. A couple years ago I was locked 24/7 for 3 months without her knowing...Yep, that about explains it.

Just making sure I am not too "out there".

Thanks

[Atone]

Just making sure I am not too "out there".

Thanks

you are not "out there" anymore, you are here and I am glad that you found us. Welcome to the forum.

[Petsean]

Hey everyone.

I've been a long time lurker and after a little bit of time locking myself up for a day or 2, decided to create a session online with Emlalock.

Essentially Ive been debating trying to find a real world keyholder but I wanted to try out some extended denial before I take the plunge with a Domme, just to make sure I can actually handle it(reasonably well anyways)

So I'm posting here just to say hello and if it's allowed, I've included the link to my Emlalock voting page, where I need a certain amount of random votes to even get my combination back after my time is up.

Perhaps at somepoint I'd like to try an online keyholder, we'll see.

If love to hear from you.

[Flaccido Perpetuo]

Hello Forum,

I'm a 40 something male(-ish) person and I have only recently started incorporating chastity into my life.
I live in Europe and English is not my native language, actually it is only my third language. I'd like to apologize beforehand for any spelling or grammar mistakes or any clumsiness in expressing my thoughts.
I've been browsing this forum for the past weeks and registered recently.

Anyway, as this forum seems such a friendly place and as a lot of the members seem very helpful and knowledgeable it is only fair that I tell a bit about myself.

I have been in a loving relationship with a fantastic woman for more than 15 years. Recently we have been evolving towards our own flavor of a FLR relationship. I have always had submissive tendencies and my SO has a very strong personality but only now have we formally concluded that a FLR really is the way forward for us. We are convinced that it is (for us, your mileage may vary...) the perfect relationship type to "deepen" (is that correct English?) our relationship and enhance our intimacy.
We also agree that Chastity (mine, of course) must be an integral part of the FL relationship.

Both the officializing of the FLR and the introduction of chastity for me were my initiative. However, it is a strange feeling that this will be my final significant initiative in our relationship and even then the moment it became real it is no longer on my terms either.

My nickname discloses one of the most important aspects of chastity for us and also indicates a major goal we want to attain with chastity. We want to evolve towards a satisfying sexuality for both of us in which my penis no longer has any sexual function at all. My pleasure is to be derived mainly from hers and when it is not, it is up to her to decide what kind of pleasure I will experience and in which way.

As one of the main subjects on this site is the multitude of chastity devices that is available and all of the issues of wearing such a device I'd like to add that I also wear a chastity cage.
There were some teething troubles getting used to wearing one and it took a while before it became comfortable enough to wear it more or less full time. That doesn't seem to be unusual though.

I am not the most experienced Chastised person but I hope to be able to participate in the discussions and maybe once in a while offer some useful advice.

Thanks for reading my first and long post.

[locked4her55]

Welcome to the Forums Flaccido Perpetuo.

English is not my native language

Could have fooled me.

[Rebuilder]

Hello all.

I'm 40 and have been a chronic cheater in my 20-year relationship. I'm always finding ways to rationalize it - lack of sex at home, compulsive behavior, sexual trauma survivor, blah blah blah.

Recently, I've begun to wonder if I really want to change. And I'm coming to the conclusion that I do. And yet I don't know if I *can* so I'm exploring the idea of chastity and debating bringing it to my wife as a "solution."

At the very least, I'd like her to trust me again.

[le_le_par]

Hello world,

This is my first post here, because that's what I have been instructed to do.

I'm a 27yo male and new to chastity. Currently single. This is something that I am interested in getting into. SO I hopefully I'll find some interesting stuff here.

Peace out.