Wife away update.

[rps1106]

Ok, so I mentioned on here several weeks ago that my wife will be going away for 3 weeks at Easter and wants to lock me for that full 3 weeks. Quite a few guys have given me some good advice, so we are going to do the following.

For the past 2 weeks I have been locked other than for 1 RO. She wanted to see if I could keep myself clean without taking the CB6KS off. I have managed to do this by using cotton swabs every day in the shower and lubing the tube afterwards. So, she has decided that while she is away, I'm not going to have a key to unlock myself to clean. She is going to put a numbered tag in place of the padlock. She will leave 1 replacement tag in case of problems. Then she said, when she comes home she will be tired, so that will give me a chance to clean up ready for some action the next day

She has also decided that this week I will be allowed out of my cage for 5 days until she goes away. She will then lock me. However, if I masturbate without permission during this time, then I will be locked up straight away without release until she gets back!

She has also said, that to help me with my frustration while she is away, she is going to buy me something that will help. But, if I've masturbated this week, then I won't be given it. Not too sure what to expect, but I'll let you know

[slave4missP]

Ooohh, I hope you're getting a flesh light... You'll love it if you do.
Three weeks seems like an eternity to me... I'm kind of envious! I haven't been locked up for more than a week, nor gone more than 10 days without release. Good luck and please update.

[rps1106]

Ooohh, I hope you're getting a flesh light... You'll love it if you do.
Three weeks seems like an eternity to me... I'm kind of envious! I haven't been locked up for more than a week, nor gone more than 10 days without release. Good luck and please update.

I think if it is a flesh light it will be even more frustrating because I'm going to be locked the entire time she is away

Congratulations on the 10 days. How is it going?

[slave4missP]

Well, we started at about the very beginning of February, about the same time as you, and the sex without orgasm has been sweet. Way more satisfying than just me getting mine regardless of whether she gets hers or not. She loves being in control. She gave me a handjob with orgasm last night after only 4 days without, and I'll admit I was slightly bummed she didn't deny me, but I was back to being super excited this morning when she slapped me awake this morning to the sweetest first words of the day: "Back in your cage!"
So the relationship part of chastity going great. The practical part, I've ordered almost every style metal cage on DHgate, some are okay, others not. I'm learning that the ring size used on plastic 6k and 3k aren't the same size that should be used on metal, as metal is heavier and pulls down more. So smaller size rings should be used.
Thanks for asking and keep me posted on your 3 weeks.

[TwistedMister]

I've ordered almost every style metal cage on DHgate, some are okay, others not.

If you can, could you give a list of OK and 'not OK', either here or via PM?

Mrs. Twisted definitely wants to go to metal now, and even though dhgate seems fairly inexpensive, the less money I waste, the better. I hate to piss money away on junk, especially if it can be avoided.

[noid51]

You certainly get what you pay for. I got unlocked for Saturday night. As I was pulling the cage off it separated at the weld and one third of it fell off. I felt like I had just dropped the cookie jar. But, with three small zip ties it's back together again and where it should be. Hopefully only two more weeks till my jailbird arrives.

[slave4missP]

I'll do that tomorrow in this thread for you twistedmister. Some aren't great for regular wear but great for wife to tease you in... Allow just enough stimulation for her to excite you but also restricts you from getting fully erect. Some look awesome but lowsy for security. Some would be better for me if I ordered smaller ring size.
I have a couple more due to arrive also.
Once I find one I really like, style, design, correct size, I'll likely order one custom. Although, the quality of construction in the ones that I've got so far has been pretty good.

[TwistedMister]

I'll do that tomorrow in this thread for you twistedmister. Some aren't great for regular wear but great for wife to tease you in... Allow just enough stimulation for her to excite you but also restricts you from getting fully erect. Some look awesome but lowsy for security. Some would be better for me if I ordered smaller ring size.
I have a couple more due to arrive also.
Once I find one I really like, style, design, correct size, I'll likely order one custom. Although, the quality of construction in the ones that I've got so far has been pretty good.

Thanks, I appreciate it. The cost is such that I intend to order several, partly to get different sized rings, and partly to try some different things...like a urethral insert. I'd like to narrow down the possibilities, especially as the intention IS for 'regular' wear and it would be nice to eliminate those which are unsuitable for that purpose. Security is also a major consideration.

[slave4missP]

Sorry, didn't have time to do this today, cat had to be taken to vet after a 2 story fall. Should be able to bang this out tomorrow.

[TwistedMister]

Sorry, didn't have time to do this today, cat had to be taken to vet after a 2 story fall.

No problem, I understand completely. Some years ago, we adopted a pair of adult Siamese cats from a shelter. The house we were in at the time had a second-story loft, it was all done in pine with polyurethane coating, including the railings which were sort of curved instead of being flat. The big male was investigating, and decided to take a stroll on the railing, which was slippery under his paws and down he went. Wife was freaked out that he fell so far and ran to pick him up...without realizing that he might be hurt, and he was. He bit right through her hand. Long story short- he turned out not to be seriously hurt, but Mrs. Twisted almost died from the infection from the bite, so concerned about the cat she didn't get her hand tended to right off.

Best damn cats I ever had. Some people think that Siamese are difficult to deal with, and they *can* be somewhat demanding at times, but if they bond with you they bond *hard*. They used to go walking with me like dogs would, and they were smart as hell. The male even learned how to work doorknobs, all by himself.