Using a strapon on Her

[Betterthansmith]

We're progressing slowly with our chastity play but in the right direction. We are at the point where i stay locked up and pleasure her with a number of toys. Her favourite one of these has the base to be used with a harness.

I'm in a Jailbird. When I try to get hard there is some 'bulging' (!) above the base ring, as well as trying to get hard in the cage. I guess my question is to those that have worn a harness to pleasure their partner - did it work? I'm concerned my attempts at an erection are going to get in the way? (She is still a little disconcerted by the attempt to get hard and concerned it might be hurting..)

I guess I'm also concerned about introducing the harness... It wouldn't be the first time where we make steps forward only for me to push it too far and for us to take more steps backward again..

Thanks for any thoughts!

[noid51]

I am currently in about the same position as you. I haven't been unlocked for the last 14 days and have used various toys and my tongue on my wife while waiting for release. I'm in a cheap Chinese cage waiting on a MM Jailbird to arrive. I've been able to use a hollow strap on by sliding it over the cage. I had to grind away a little bit of the material in order to get the cage into the strap on. It actually worked pretty well. The strap on is rather large and my wife really has to be in the mood for something that big. It works best when she gets on top so that she can control the movement. Tucked away in the cage which is inside the strap on, I don't really feel a lot, but sure is fun to watch her enjoy herself.

[Betterthansmith]

Thanks for the post noid51 - great idea - out of interest, which hollow strapon have you been using? The reviews of ones I've found mention that the internal diameter isn't that big (so getting a cage in there might be a problem...)

[slave d]

W/we've tried several strapons with varying success. Biggest issue is the time and hassle getting "geared up" and then it isn't in the right place really. Lately, since MsM bought the Contender, She has been using an adjustable cock ring (a loop of surgical latex tube with a slide/clamp on it), to attach Her favourite dildo directly above the top of the cage (the loop runs around the base of my cock behind the cage and around the "balls" of the dildo). She finds this locates it much better for Her pleasure (She prefers "cowboy" style) and She has no problem achieving multiple orgasms "riding" it. i end up running with pre-cum but unable to achieve anything else but frustration ......... exactly as MsM prefers it.

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[noid51]

I'll check when I get home. I thought I bought it from Adam
and Eve but don't see it on their website. I shaved off quite a bit from the strap on and it is a tight fit on the cage. A little lube helps. But once on its not going anywhere biggest, hardest, hard on I've ever had !!

[Betterthansmith]

The 'Contender'?

[noid51]

Found it. It's on Amazon. Fetish Fantasy Extreme 7" hollow silicone strap on.

[Michele]

This one here - though expensive - holds the cage and junk all in so you dont get pinched or anything, so I've heard. We would love to get one but we've got to save money for it.

http://stockroom.com/Mens-Dildo-Harness-P321.aspx

[Tom Allen]

viewtopic.php?f=3&t=18792&p=33991&hilit=+harness#p33991

That thread has one of my suggestions for a harness and strapon.

[Betterthansmith]

Thanks for the replies... I think the stockroom one might be a little too 'threatening'. Overwhelming? You know what I mean - I'm not sure she'd like it...

I like the look of the Terra Firma harnesses though - thank you!