Question to Keyholders concerning your own restraint.

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Question to Keyholders concerning your own restraint.

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My wife is now thinking of keeping me in the cage for 365 days starting on the first day of Spring, though since it's a long-distance relationship already, in practical terms that means from now until Spring 2016!

It's easy enough at the moment since she is not here, but I will be visiting her in May. Though I recognize that each woman is different, is it generally easy for a woman to just satisfy herself with cunnilingus for so long? My wife satisfies herself with cunnilingus for a month at a time regularly, but a year? Can a woman really resist or is this a really stupid question?
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Any lesbians around to answer this?
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how can she satisfy herself with cunilingus ? is she that flexible ? :P
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I am not a woman although my penis plays one in its chastity cage. My wife has not had Intercourse longer than either of us can remember. My guess is around 30 years now. She can have muscle cramping, rubber legs, exhausting orgasms by any means but her favorite is BOB, her Battery Operated Buddy. No muss, no fuss with BOB and she can control him as she pleases.

During my career I was away from home almost half of every year and we survived with masturbation. No big deal. Plus your wife will be able to date when you are not there so don't worry. :) LOL
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Not sure I have an answer to your question, but I suspect that if my spouse had met the Hitachi Wand before she met me, she would have married it. She is always saying how she feels she really should send someone a thank you note for this device. :oops:
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Hmmm... so far she's just contemplating it. Hmmmm....
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reeve wrote:how can she satisfy herself with cunilingus ? is she that flexible ? :P
Bad wording on my part. She borrows my tongue for that purpose.
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I don't think I could go without penetration for that long... a mouth and fingers can only do so much. Around 3 weeks without penetration I go bonkers needing to feel that filled up stretched feeling of his cock in me. Granted that is with me teasing him and bring with him everyday.

Perhaps I could satisfied quite a bit longer if I wasn't physically with him and had myself a good dildo. I would need the dildo, though, I'm sure.
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reeve wrote:how can she satisfy herself with cunilingus ? is she that flexible ? :P
My one and only 'wet dream' involved a woman being that flexible :P

Mrs. Twisted likes oral, but she likes fucking too...a lot. She sometimes makes do with a dildo, but it isn't her number one choice- she prefers a *real* cock. Lately, I think her desire to keep me locked and denied has been increasing while her inhibitions have been decreasing...and she has been allowing herself to entertain the notion of finding some more 'lively' substitutes...the idea is extremely erotic for both of us, and our 'rules' do not prohibit it...
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Isn't it more important how you will be affected? She can always unlock you if she needs your services. Are you honestly ready to give up sexual pleasure for a year? Since you are new to this, I can't believe you can make this decision before trying shorter periods.
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