CB6000s masturbation problems

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Lockedup87
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CB6000s masturbation problems

Post by Lockedup87 »

Hi everyone

I´m totally new at this forum and in the whole chastity thing. I am very exited to find this forum.

First a little background story.
In the weekend i asked my girlfriend what she would think of me being locked up in chastity. She haven´t seen it comming. It was like if I would like it. she would be allright with trying it out with me. This Tuesday I picked up my CB6000s (s because I`m quite small down there). We took it to bed and after laughing a bit she mounted it only to try it overnight. The first night i woke up 3 times. Two of these times because i came in my sleep. Next morning she asked me if i wanted to be released but i said that i was quite comfortable and that it was only her to decide, so I was to stay locked. Since there have been alot to do and not very much time together. So today it´s my second day in chastity (it should only have been a single night tester). Im very glad still to be locked.

Now to the problem:
This evening she left me home alone to see some friends. She sent me a picture of the keys. That was my que I was very exited. I quickly found out that I was able to masturbate in the CB6000s and came shortly after even tho I wanted to stop before orgasm. I felt very bad afterwards

The thing is that one of the things that arouses me about this chastity thing is not being able to control my own orgasms.
What can I do to eliminate the option of an orgasm with the cage on?

I look forward to hear from all you guys :-)
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Re: CB6000s masturbation problems

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I will be frank, even though I am Len. If you can not control yourself mentally, chastity may be a problem for you. I say this because you can cum in pretty much anything. Just hold a vibrator against it, pull out or use a Q-tip through a hole. Not very difficult to do. Chastity is really a mental game, not like being tied down so you cannot possible move. With chastity you will have opportunities to cum if you want to take them. The trick is to make your chastity a cooperative adventure towards a common goal, not a contest to see if you can cum.
"It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it." - Aristotle
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Re: CB6000s masturbation problems

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Lockedup87 wrote: She haven´t seen it comming.
Sorry, this is where I stopped reading.
:lol:
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Think of it this way, when many of us started in chastity we had been masturbating up to several times a day. When first locked up the "increase" in sexual thoughts means there's still the occasional lapse because with the best will in the world there's a point of no return and you find (as you did) that you actually can't stop and you cum BUT it's still less frequently than before. You also realise that cumming actually makes you feel bad, guilty, etc etc and not good as you wanted. All these are little lessons bought on by chastity, and i for one believe you'll find over time that you reach a point where you REALLY don't want to cum by yourself, the arousal and the high that gives you becomes an end in itself and all you want is to be taken higher and higher. i know, it's taken a year but that's where i'm at now. So don't worry, nothing changes overnight, learn from what has happened and move forward !!

d
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Re: CB6000s masturbation problems

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Lockedup87 wrote:Hi everyone

I´m totally new at this forum and in the whole chastity thing. I am very exited to find this forum.

First a little background story.
In the weekend i asked my girlfriend what she would think of me being locked up in chastity. She haven´t seen it comming. It was like if I would like it. she would be allright with trying it out with me. This Tuesday I picked up my CB6000s (s because I`m quite small down there). We took it to bed and after laughing a bit she mounted it only to try it overnight. The first night i woke up 3 times. Two of these times because i came in my sleep. Next morning she asked me if i wanted to be released but i said that i was quite comfortable and that it was only her to decide, so I was to stay locked. Since there have been alot to do and not very much time together. So today it´s my second day in chastity (it should only have been a single night tester). Im very glad still to be locked.

Now to the problem:
This evening she left me home alone to see some friends. She sent me a picture of the keys. That was my que I was very exited. I quickly found out that I was able to masturbate in the CB6000s and came shortly after even tho I wanted to stop before orgasm. I felt very bad afterwards

The thing is that one of the things that arouses me about this chastity thing is not being able to control my own orgasms.
What can I do to eliminate the option of an orgasm with the cage on?

I look forward to hear from all you guys :-)
If you need a physical restraint against masturbation, I'm not sure any cage would help due to its design. You might have to consider a chastity belt in that case.
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Re: CB6000s masturbation problems

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Drill some small holes into the body of the cage, particularly the head end, six or eight should do. Insert small sheet metal screws into the holes and screw in until the pointed ends extend an eighth to a quarter inch inside the cage. Problem solved. :twisted: :shock:
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Re: CB6000s masturbation problems

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Don't forget the Super Glue so you can't back the screws out!
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Tom Allen wrote:
Lockedup87 wrote: She haven´t seen it comming.
Sorry, this is where I stopped reading.
:lol:
Yea. It got worse.
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Find a different device if you can metal as plastic is to easy to break off.
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Re: CB6000s masturbation problems

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Locked by LRC wrote:Don't forget the Super Glue so you can't back the screws out!
And cut the heads off the screws just to be double sure.
04/07/19 "And then I 'punished' you by making you lick my pussy after I let my other 'boy' fuck me." --Mrs. Twisted