Finally, things are looking up

Living the real life under lock and key
Herchaste
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Finally, things are looking up

Post by Herchaste »

My wife told me that her nipples were getting hard anticipating locking me up again. Just before her statement I told my wife I that I thought I needed to be locked in my cage leading into the weekend to avoid any temptations I am starting to feel. This is quite a change from the first time I brought the idea of male chastity up six months ago. She had very little, if any, interest in the beginning. I had explained my desires and feelings, sent her excerpts from articles, purchased her ebooks, but she read very little of what I sent. I persevered, the feeling of increased dopamine and pleasure of abstinence of an organism was increable and I wanted this badly. We had a number of chastity starts and endings, ranging from just a day or two to several weeks at a time. During these periods my wife experienced the true benefits of male chastity. While in chastity, I have an intense desire to hold her, touch her and caress her as much as I could. She has finally accepted that while I am in chastity she receives all the loving and attention she looks for. Now we will see if she transitions to enjoying all my loving making without PIV, I am especially looking forward to licking her to climax regularly, morning, noon and night.
nebman
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Re: Finally, things are looking up

Post by nebman »

Glad to hear you two are enjoying yourselves. We've also had a slow build up, and I'm not really sure where I want it to go myself. I'm in the midst of my longest lock up now, (three days and counting) and we had quite a play night at a hotel night out Friday. I never got out in the evening, and we had a long slow play in the morning with my hand between her legs. After she came, she suggested I might want out, I said leave me locked so I could expand my longest lock up. My fingers were inside her when I said this, and she gushed wetter than she had been when I made her cum.

We talked about the length of my lock up in bed last night, and I ended up licking her to a quick climax that she really enjoyed, and then we had to get to sleep in anticipation of an early morning. She's cum at least four times since I was locked up Thursday morning, and she's a lot more comfortable with things.

I love that a woman's body can give away her thoughts. That gush on my hand made my cock throb in its cage.

My wife has also ignored the book I picked up. We seem to be finding a way forward at a slow and uneven pace, and it works fine for me.
Len51
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Re: Finally, things are looking up

Post by Len51 »

Hang in there. My wife took 8 months to really get I to it as much as I was. By the twelveft month she want it to be my lifestyle and has steadily been increasing my chastity time from 2 weeks to 3 months. Just keep showing by your actions, not words, how chastity has a positive I pact on your relationship. Don't wait for her to ask, just do so she can see. If your wife is open minded, you will get where you want to be. However beware of what you ask for.
"It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it." - Aristotle
Herchaste
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Re: Finally, things are looking up

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Last night I was swollen to the limits of my device while licking her very wet pussy after nearly an hour of caressing and massaging her beautiful and very sensual naked body. My desire for her is insatiable and it seems I would do nearly anything she asks. Afterwards, with her Hitachi, she had the most fantastic series of organism while I laid next to her enjoying every motion and sound of her hedonism and indulgence. I am starting to think that I miss having my own orgasim less and less while desiring her pleasures more. Is that possible?
Herchaste
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Re: Finally, things are looking up

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I am continuing my comments of my experiences to The Journey forum