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by velcrofist
Mon Dec 16, 2013 5:08 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Permanent denial
Replies: 13
Views: 11115

Re: Permanent denial

Thanks guys. I must stress again though, my concern is not whether I should or could do it. (I'm not exactly a novice at this and it's easy enough to go back or do something else if it doesn't work out). What I want is to remove any negative feelings about it to give it the best chance of success.
by velcrofist
Mon Dec 16, 2013 8:00 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Permanent denial
Replies: 13
Views: 11115

Re: Permanent denial

Thanks guys. Too true, and I have the next 12 months to do just that. It's just so breathtakingly hot thinking that's at the end of it, and I do have enough prior experience to know that I love the rush of denial far more than an orgasm, and I love the idea of getting them out of the way so I can fo...
by velcrofist
Mon Dec 16, 2013 7:05 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Wife doesn't seem to like it :-(
Replies: 15
Views: 6106

Re: Wife doesn't seem to like it :-(

Sounds like you just pushed a little hard a little too soon. With the right approach and understanding most women will usually play along to some extent, especially once they understand how important it is to you and that it isn't going to go away. Some good stuff at http://www.malechastityblog.com/...
by velcrofist
Mon Dec 16, 2013 6:45 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Permanent denial
Replies: 13
Views: 11115

Permanent denial

So, I've had the common fantasy of being permanently denied and expressed the idea to my wife who likes it so much she'd like to help me make it real. While the concept is amazingly hot and we're using the next 12 months or so to get me weaned, I can't help but feel it's also kind of drastic and I'm...
by velcrofist
Wed Nov 28, 2012 11:37 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Disappointed
Replies: 7
Views: 4566

Re: Disappointed

Thanks people. After pretty much abandoning the idea since my first post I'm just now starting to get a little of the spark back again. Strangely during this time I've had almost no interest in any kind of sex at all which is highly, highly unusual for me. ;) So it was possibly just a circadian rhyt...
by velcrofist
Mon Nov 19, 2012 11:48 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Disappointed
Replies: 7
Views: 4566

Disappointed

Well, after finally getting "serious" and going for 2.5 weeks locked up (my longest yet) I've got to say reality hasn't turned out to be all that spectacular. From around the 1 week mark I had permanent blue balls and was sick of wearing the damn thing. By release date I was no longer inte...
by velcrofist
Tue Nov 13, 2012 10:42 pm
Forum: Chastity Devices
Topic: To Shave or not to Shave
Replies: 3
Views: 3614

Re: To Shave or not to Shave

Depends if you want them gone, what your pain threshold is, whether pain is a "good" thing for you and so on. Waxing lasts longer and gives a smoother result but many people find the pain unbearable (or totally hot!). Plus the hair needs to grow back to a certain length before you can wax ...
by velcrofist
Mon Nov 12, 2012 1:28 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: CB6000 sizing issues
Replies: 3
Views: 1905

Re: CB6000 sizing issues

Yeah, I think that's it. It's fairly rare that I get small enough to pull out anyway, and even if I did why would I want to cheat and spoil the fun? As it is I'm unlocked usually once per day for exercise and/or cleaning. Out of necessity I'm often unsupervised during these times and I never think a...
by velcrofist
Sun Nov 11, 2012 7:23 pm
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: Created a monster
Replies: 1
Views: 1985

Re: Created a monster

Whatever floats your boat. However, a word of caution - fantasy and reality are 2 very different things and bringing your fantasy to life rarely turns out the same as you dreamed. For example, this article by Sarah Jameson explains how the reality of orgasm denial often turns out to be quite a diffe...
by velcrofist
Sun Nov 11, 2012 3:24 am
Forum: General Chastity Chat
Topic: CB6000 sizing issues
Replies: 3
Views: 1905

CB6000 sizing issues

I'm finding the middle ring totally comfortable for long term use but, being a grower, I can pull out fairly easily when I'm at my softest with a bit of soapy water. The next ring size down is inescapable but almost immediately uncomfortable and causes numbness after an hour or so. My other issue is...