It has now been three weeks without a wank, which I am happy and proud of. I've come just once---quickly upon having intercourse with Mrs. last weekend.
Last night was one of my most intensely erotic experiences ever. Communication has been lightyears better between us and we talked about waiting another week before sex, as I've been stressed out and flat this past week.
Instead, we had several intense minutes of slow intercourse without me coming to release. I didn't end up coming at all. I performed some oral, Mrs. had several Hitachi induced orgams.
We are impulsive people, and I have read about others doing this, but I didn't think we ever would intentionally have sex without me coming. For one, I thought I would have a hair trigger under the circumstances but was able to be intensely aroused without finishing. For another, I thought both of our egos would insist on me climaxing.
I drifted off to sleep with somewhat mixed feelings---I knew it was one of the most erotically delightful experiences I ever had, but my ego wouldn't shut up completely. I woke up this morning feeling very energetic and turned on. Mrs. kind of smirked at me with "a girl could get used to this" kind of grin. No longer are intercourse and my orgasm so firmly linked.
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And another light bulb suddenly flicks on.tcs wrote: No longer are intercourse and my orgasm so firmly linked.

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Re: Intercourse without
Thanks for the comments! The most satisfying aspect of the experience for me is that my wife said that it was "fun" and "playful". That might not seem super hot to some, but we are very busy and have young kids. Life sometimes takes the fun and playfulness out of the equation. I think it was the most *fun* we had in a couple of years. I am now on Day 22 of my current orgasm diet. Only one orgasm so far---No MB, intercourse twice---once without an orgasm. We have used a CB-6000, a little, but playful mind games and role playing are what mostly keep me honest. She has definitely been more flirty and playful with me, which I will gladly trade for orgasms right now.