Yeah you’ve touched on a lot of the lessons I fell we both learned yesterday. I’m glad to hear that you think we’re on the right path. It’s a lot to digest at times but it sure feels so much more fulfilling to live this way than the way it was before.Tongue+groove wrote: ↑Fri Jan 24, 2025 8:27 am Just a few quick thoughts. Everything in your post we have all probably been through. You’re in the right mindset. You probably had a hormonal shift you never used to recognize and now you and her both see it. you may want to discuss ruined cums as you are less likely to get the drop.
Secondly, these events can really escalate the communication, which you obviously experienced. Good for you both.
And finally when you have those frustrating days and you don’t know where you’re going and she doesn’t understand you, well be careful. When I have mine, Mrs. G let’s me vent, then she consoles me, then she tells me to lockup and man up because she’s not going back to the old way as of now.
And kudos for you managing the 10 incher, I’m envious. Make up sex is the best. Especially when you don’t get to cum.![]()
I was seriously considering if I needed therapy to still the racing thoughts in my head and now that we’ve shifted the dynamics of our relationship it all feels safe and right.
I’m a few hours away from completing my first week in total lockup, only been let out for hygiene and edging. I know I’m not going to be allowed to cum tonight, but A has told me tomorrow night is when I’ll get my reward. I’m genuinely torn. I want to cum so bad, but I also don’t want to lose this incredible feeling I have right now.