Hang in there Sam3655.
I am in the same boat with most folks here. Wife with low sex drive (I thinks it is in reverse), life issues etc.
Keep chugging a long. From where we start, we have moved ahead. I feel like Mr. Pickle: one step forward, two steps back.
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I have said locked and forgotten is like a police stakeout. A whole lot of nothing with a burst of activity. This stakeout ran for 25 days with just two knees to the balls during this time frame. And then CS wanted to play cards last night. Will say I greased the wheels a little taking her to her favorite BBQ place and getting her the hush puppies she loves.
The first game of 500 rum was a runaway victory for her and I commented it was a shame she hadn’t made her usual bet. This prompted a two out of three win and she gets an all over back rub complete with oils and lotion. If I won I would get five minutes to worship her breasts. They are a religious experience. To up the stakes I suggested the little leather paddle with the XOXO imprint. Lose the first hand you take a swat. Lose the second hand take two swats and so on until the game is won. Surprisingly she agreed to it. I lost hands 2, 4, ,5 and 6 and the game. She must have gotten into beating my ass cause the swings got harder and then though she won suggested a winner take all round. Lady Luck turned her favor to me and CS took the majority of swats. A second winner take all round was demanded. Since I was risking my winnings I asked that we do the swats as usual but the loser takes an additional 10 at the end. She agreed but she gave me the four swats she won in bingo last week. So again I won and by this time both our butts were red. CS had tried to distract me by biting my balls twice during play. I failed to mention I was pantless by this stage. So I was ready to administer the 10 swats when CS did a quick shuffle of the cards and said low card takes the smacks. She gave me a three and she got a ten. Fitting as I was then bent over a chair taking the 10 whacks.
Upstairs I still gave her a back massage with warmed oils. She reached back grabbing my (her) balls and squeezing them repeatedly the whole time . Five minutes worshipping her breasts led to getting her off with my fingers, then again with my tongue, a third with the vibe and a fourth with the strap-on. Sassified, she asked me to stay in her bed so she could sleep on me. I never got unlocked the whole time.
The night was torturous between the caged erection attempts when I would get to spoon her and trying to get into a good sleeping position getting around her dog and cats. Plus I have not cum in 195 days. I was horny as all get out.
This morning she was a tad hungover and had to go to her grandkids wrestling. CS said she would stop and get something to ease her stomach. Told her I could make her an English muffin with egg, cheese and bacon. Said she didn’t want to make me go through that trouble to which I said I was on a dopamine high from last night and wanted to. Sandwich made and foiled wrap, her glass of Powerade, dog let out and fed and laundry going. She came down and said since I was eager to please I could go get ice cream for tonight. I said, “ my high will fade” to which she replied she would just have to bring it back. Fingers crossed.
The first game of 500 rum was a runaway victory for her and I commented it was a shame she hadn’t made her usual bet. This prompted a two out of three win and she gets an all over back rub complete with oils and lotion. If I won I would get five minutes to worship her breasts. They are a religious experience. To up the stakes I suggested the little leather paddle with the XOXO imprint. Lose the first hand you take a swat. Lose the second hand take two swats and so on until the game is won. Surprisingly she agreed to it. I lost hands 2, 4, ,5 and 6 and the game. She must have gotten into beating my ass cause the swings got harder and then though she won suggested a winner take all round. Lady Luck turned her favor to me and CS took the majority of swats. A second winner take all round was demanded. Since I was risking my winnings I asked that we do the swats as usual but the loser takes an additional 10 at the end. She agreed but she gave me the four swats she won in bingo last week. So again I won and by this time both our butts were red. CS had tried to distract me by biting my balls twice during play. I failed to mention I was pantless by this stage. So I was ready to administer the 10 swats when CS did a quick shuffle of the cards and said low card takes the smacks. She gave me a three and she got a ten. Fitting as I was then bent over a chair taking the 10 whacks.
Upstairs I still gave her a back massage with warmed oils. She reached back grabbing my (her) balls and squeezing them repeatedly the whole time . Five minutes worshipping her breasts led to getting her off with my fingers, then again with my tongue, a third with the vibe and a fourth with the strap-on. Sassified, she asked me to stay in her bed so she could sleep on me. I never got unlocked the whole time.
The night was torturous between the caged erection attempts when I would get to spoon her and trying to get into a good sleeping position getting around her dog and cats. Plus I have not cum in 195 days. I was horny as all get out.
This morning she was a tad hungover and had to go to her grandkids wrestling. CS said she would stop and get something to ease her stomach. Told her I could make her an English muffin with egg, cheese and bacon. Said she didn’t want to make me go through that trouble to which I said I was on a dopamine high from last night and wanted to. Sandwich made and foiled wrap, her glass of Powerade, dog let out and fed and laundry going. She came down and said since I was eager to please I could go get ice cream for tonight. I said, “ my high will fade” to which she replied she would just have to bring it back. Fingers crossed.
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Oohhhh-Emmmm-geeee
This is one of the best updates of your journey I have read!
I couldn't be more elated for you, Sam!!
This is one of the best updates of your journey I have read!
I couldn't be more elated for you, Sam!!
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Hehehehe
Killing me Softly 104.3
9:47 AM hahaha
Killing me Softly 104.3
9:47 AM hahaha
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lol I was at the gym and it played today. Fortunately CS doesn’t go or I would be given an additional month.
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It’s been a real slow week. After Saturday fun CS went back into lock and forget mode and was gone all Sunday for her grand kids wrestling. Monday she was complaining of getting a cold and has been sick the last three days. I have picked up the slack taking care of her animals and bringing her meal and pushing fluids. Unfortunately it has started hitting me and leading into bronchitis. CS was planning on us playing cards on Saturday again. I guess she really got into spanking my backside. I just don’t see it happening unless we both shake this whatever it is quickly.
Today I hit 200 days without an orgasm. Just two more months to go. Just two more months
Today I hit 200 days without an orgasm. Just two more months to go. Just two more months
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Geeeez 200 days...
That just gives me the willies
That just gives me the willies
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There are no Willie’s in a Cobra Nub. 

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So true, just a feeling of nothingness.. There are no Willie’s in a Cobra Nub
Aka herbi space
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. 
