How long have you been married?

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BritCanUsa
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Re: How long have you been married?

Post by BritCanUsa »

hmm?....just looking at others posts with the many years you guys have being married to your loved ones, it made me wonder:

Collectively, I wonder how many centuries we have accumulated......or even more importantly, collectively, how many centuries have we been caged !

wow, that a thought!....I wonder how Alexander Dumas might have adapted that instead of 'Man in the Iron Mask'
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36 years, and looking into chastity at my hubby's urgings
New to this so may need some help
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LockEmUp wrote: Sat Aug 24, 2024 1:45 pm 36 years, and looking into chastity at my hubby's urgings
New to this so may need some help
You'll find plenty here. You may also find some conflicting opinions. There is no one 'right' way to do it, you only have to do what works for you...and hubby...but mostly you. I am sort of kidding, but not quite, about the 'mostly you' because if hubby 'urged' you to 'look into it' then it may well be that you doing what works for you may be what works for him. But that's something you'll need to find out from him (whether that's directly or indirectly).
04/07/19 "And then I 'punished' you by making you lick my pussy after I let my other 'boy' fuck me." --Mrs. Twisted
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We’ve been married since 96 and chastity started for us July 2024
Married to a fun & wonderful BBW woman. Who doesn’t mind sometimes being the Alpha.
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29 years married (1995). Bought first cage spring 2021, and have been incorporating it in our play regularly — but not always — since 2022.
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38 years
She came over to my house with a friend to play a game of Risk. I saw her and immediately got up and went over and got down on one knee and kissed her hand "pleasure to meet you". we met in October of 1985 and married in September of 1986

Ladyj is my wife and KH.
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My husband and I have been together for 10 years but married for 5. Chastity play for us started as a brief trial a year ago, but we’re recently getting back into it. We’re in our 20’s still, so I’m wondering what kind of a course I’m setting off on with this one - not to say it’ll definitively be forever, but he’s taken to key holding and denial *very* naturally.
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Married 52 years. 30 of those years were in a poly triad with my wife’s female lover. Both are bi s threesomes were our regular sex. I used to silently laugh when guys talked about wanting one threesome before they died. I had over 3,000. Plus gf is sexually dominant and into S&M play. A real sadist wh nosned in pleasure when I moaned in pain. Her thighs would drip her lubrication. She loved to hurt me sexually which was great for me.

After we retired and left our gf behind , a long story, we got into chastity to deal with my eve’s diminished interest with sex with males. Even tried cuckoldimg but she did not get aroused nor had an orgasm so she sad I would be the only male in her life but only if she could control my orgasms and when we had sex. I have been caged for 15 years this month.

I have not had PIV sex in over 30 years or more. I received no oral either. When I am permitted to orgasm it is just being allowed to jerk off. I am allowed to perform oral on my wife about twice a year like this Xmas and on our anniversary.

I am very used to having only a few orgasms a year or none at all. I am 73 so not horny much, bad ED, tiny penis and medical issues that make sex impractical. All in all we had a wild six life in our younger years with couples and lots of girls we shared. My wife never had sex with anybody unless I took part if only to watch. Said without me it felt like cheating. Heck, I even had to go on her dates with women too. We tried every fetish on fetlife, even the yucky ones.

So all in all a great marriage and great sex life despite chastity since in real life I am very alpha and ran companies so BDSM was a relief from work stress. Outside the bedroom I was HOH though. My non sexusl life is even more interesting. I always felt that life is a once in eternity thing so might as well experience as much of it as possible. Had 23 jobs, been to 23 countries and 36 States. Relocated 13 times in 9 houses. Although poor and was in a gang, at 5 years old I was reading and writing on a third grade level and attended private schools for gifted children on scholarships. I was an athlete not a geek. Also a combat vet. My life has been interesting both sexually, in marriage and in my many professional endeavors.

One life so might as well experience as much as possible.
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52 years. The only girl I ever dated. She has always been my best friend. We have been practicing chastity for about 9 weeks. She was very reluctant when I first brought it up, but is very happy with it now. She reminds me often that she has the key, and wears it around her neck often. I love it!
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The only girl I ever dated.
We have friends who have been married 58 years they started dating early in high school. They never quit, he still opens the car door for her every time she gets in or out.

I’m pretty confident he never wore a cage.
She says ‘it’s cute’ in the nub. ;)