Unexpected happenings

[Newknight]

Being recently new to the chastity device wearing world (6 months or a little longer), I never expected my wife, who is my key holder, to do the following things:
1. Be firm regarding when the device is off for me still not to be allowed to touch myself without her permission
2. To take ownership of my penis and testicles--she quickly talked about them being hers now, even refers to the orgasm as being hers if I receive one
3. Taking ownership of my backside too--quickly forbidding anymore solo back door play--unless she gave permission. (It was a daily occurrence alone in the early morning shower to help calm myself from no releases)
4. Being very vanilla, she has quickly become firm and assertive regarding any sexual acts
5. Has incorpororated pegging almost each time we have sex now. She keeps the harness, attachment, and lubricant bedside in a drawer.
6. Is asking things to get done outside the bedroom.

She was not dominant at all before. She is quickly becoming that way--but in a very low key kind of way. I don't think anyone else will notice but in our private conversations and interactions, she has definitely changed. And that change occurred in less than a week.
My question is this: has anyone else noticed or received unexpected changes in their key holders? I happen to like all the changes, and am certain mire will come. It's just such a contrast because it had taken about 3 years of frustration, miscommunication, arguments, and long periods of talking before we incorporated chastity and I never thought she would take to it like she has--almost like she has discovered "the inner key holder" and now she won't ever go back.
Thanks,
NewKnight

[greecemonkey]

I don't yet wear a device, not having found one I like. However, since we got into the whole denial thing, wifey has certainly become more interested in playing and decides quite arbitrarily when the little lad has had enough of her attention. She also demands a lot more attention from me as well, which of course I'm more than willing to provide; she simply doesn't reciprocate and when she's had enough, either rolls over and goes to sleep, or gets on with her day.

I do find it leaves me with a permanent sense of arousal, about which I can do nothing.

[tqbartleby]

My wife has gradually become more comfortable with giving orders. She was always in the driver's seat, really, even before we explicitly decided on a female-led relationship. Because I've always been deferential, courteous, and fully chores-sharing (it's my nature, said the scorpion), it's not a night-and-day change, but an intensification of what there was before. At first I think she felt a little guilty that I was now doing ALL the chores as well as attending to her every need. She's gotten used to it, however, and is now quite unapologetic about taking advantage of it.

We currently practice honor-system orgasm control. As orgasm control became the rule, she became much more confident about making sexual demands. I come once for every three to five times she does. Of course that fluctuates with circumstances--sometimes more, sometimes less. Your experience sounds similar to mine: once it sunk in that it was up to her, she mostly stopped reciprocating and now takes my oral service as her due, and my rare occasions for release as a treat she dispenses at her discretion.

And now she has just given me the go-ahead to purchase a chastity device. I'm very excited and curious about this new path and wondering if, as you and others have reported here, it will somehow increase her dominant tendencies. I'm hoping it will, because I think it does her good in all areas of her life.