Should I or shouldn't I?

[Len51]

I am on anti depressants. I have not made a secret of that. I sought them out when I was getting too deeply into S&M as a short term escape from my depression. Once I got on the medication, my deep desire for more and more pain, vanished.

I have a doctor's appointment in two weeks. I know from experience that many of the anti depressants I tried as a younger man, either made it impossible to get an erection and/or have an orgasm. Even before chastity I learned about the extreme frustration to have an erection and after an hour of trying by two different women, not being able to cum. I would get to the point where I thought I would pop my cork but never did.

Now I am on an anti depressant which actually makes my orgasms more intense and increases my libido. Since I am now in chastity I can request that I go on an anti depressant that will prevent me from cumming as long as I take them. That would mean some great teasing sessions doing anything my wife wants without worry about taking me too far. It does not condemn me to a life of no orgasms though. When my wife wants me to cum, I stop taking the pills for two days and I am good to go until I take them again. We did this for a few years so I know the routine. Of course, this kills the spontaneity but she does not have to make me cum even though I could.

If this was you, would you want to take medication that will make it impossible to cum or some that also prevents erections too? I am tempted to go back on the ones that make me an-orgasmic as it would enable us to go far more without fear of orgasm and still be able to stop the medicate for a few days to allow for one.

[gluvlover]

Maybe close your eyes and throw a dart. Don't tell your wife about what you choose. There might be some excitement in letting her figure it out. Just an idea...

[LockedUp24]

This is part of your physical/mental health and I would suggest you discuss it with your wife before making choices.

[slave d]

Frankly if i was you i would be talking to my doctor and my psychologist or psychiatrist before even considering playing games with your mental health and powerful psychological drugs !! The very last advice you should be considering is from a bunch of unknown individuals on a forum. Your mental and physical wellbeing and health is not a game to be played with !! Just my 2 cents worth after having depression for many years.

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[Len51]

Perhaps I was not clear. I am not playing games with my mental health. It is just that the one I am on now interferes with my sleep so I can go to one that has worked well for me that will not interfere with my sleep but makes me anorgasmic. So it is not a choice of which works better but rather which side effect I want.

[eroslocked]

I take an anti-depressant for an anxiety condition. It works very well for this but no way can I cum during piv nor while locked. I see this as a positive for chastity as I am almost totally denied sex these days.

[Len51]

I take an anti-depressant for an anxiety condition. It works very well for this but no way can I cum during piv nor while locked. I see this as a positive for chastity as I am almost totally denied sex these days.

Someone who knows what I am talking about. I can now go to the more effective medication as my wife does not want me to cum again. BTW. If you do want to cum just stop the pills on a Thursday and by Saturday or Sunday, you should be good to go and the drug holiday should not affect you. Someone gave me this tip and it worked for me in the past. Now it is good not to be able to cum because I can be more effectively treated and not cum as my wife wants.. Win-win.