short lived ??

[peggy_phill]

Did anyone else get about a week or so in and just lose interest in the whole idea of chastity ?

Today I just lost all interest in being caged even after last night with pleasing my key holder it hot ways even got a little spanking , today just been thinking What's the point ?

[Tom Allen]

You can't keep up the arousal 24/7. And that's fine, if you were aroused all the time, eventually you'd burn out.

What I've found is that it comes back, often when I start thinking about how erotic it is to be locked in a non-sexual context.

[TitaniumChastiTi]

Not preaching here in the slightest but perhaps the locked up time span has not been long enough for the mental changes to make a difference ?

[kunst]

Did anyone else get about a week or so in and just lose interest in the whole idea of chastity ?

No, but I did loose interest in being caged. I mean, I am not caged (unless rare occasions when I am too horny) but I do practice chastity and I like it.

[Tame Lion]

This is interesting. I was thinking and writing about the same thing, though from a different direction. In my view, enforced chastity is about control. There are times I definitely have no interest in being in my cage. It has nothing to do with sex. I just start feeling that it is pointless. Even if unlocked, I probably wouldn't go for getting off. It just is a feeling that comes on sometimes.

But, for me, this is about surrender of control. In moments when I truly dislike being locked up, very often I find myself smiling. After muttering to myself for a bit, I realize that I wanted to be controlled. What better evidence of control than not wanting to be locked up, but still remaining in my cage. Yup, at those moments I realize that I am not in charge. I like that feeling.

[StartingOut]

-d-

[locked4her55]

StartingOut . . .Thanks!

[ptharv]

The only time I want out, is after an argument or when I'm just so horny that I can't deal with it anymore (which is way too often these days). But of course, that doesn't happen. In fact, I get punished for asking or begging to get out. It is total control when you insist and need to be unlocked, and you are told "no way".