Pros & Cons of a PA Piercing

[kh4extendedram]

Extendedram has been locked pretty much 24/7 since his CB6000s arrived. For me it's a mindtrip that he's locked and held away waiting for me to play with him, or let him out to serve me. He figured out early on that if he wanted, he could pull himself out of the tube portion of the device. I'll admit I was dismissive with him and basically said, "It's not like I'm afraid you're gonna f*** someone else. How would THAT work?" If I'm honest, he has always enjoyed masturbating a bit (a lot) and lacks self-control when left to himself.

Anyway, he really likes the idea of making things "more secure" and has discussed getting a PA & later upgrading to another device. Initially, I was unaware how many different penile piercings there are. He is most interested in the traditional PA. I am mostly concerned with how this will affect ME. So, my questions are -

How will this affect my experience when I allow him to penetrate me?
Will it have an effect on how I give him oral or a handjob?
Will it increase HIS sensitivity? If so, how much?
Are there any other benefits for either of us?

[wspony]

I can just talk about myself and my KH ...

The PA piercing is one of the easiest and fastest healing intimate piercings for the male that is available (beside the frenum piercing). If there are no complications it will most likely heal in 4-6 weeks.

The PA ring indeed is a nice addition. For myself it is making me more sensitive as it stimulates my urethra when it moves. My KH told me that she does not feel the ring much at all during sex and that it does not really enhance anything for her. She said that the diameter of the ring (mine is now 22mm = 0.86in) is quite large when she gives me oral ... it touches her teeth a lot.

The good thing about a PA is, that you need not wear a ring. You can wear a Barbell as well. My KH loves the look of the 5 gauge barbell a LOT ... she said she likes it more than the ring. If you worry about the PA giving you pains or being too big, or a hassle during penetration, try the barbell, it should be perfect.

Handjob is no problem at all when it is healed fully. I don't feel it anymore (beside it being highly arousing and pleasing when touched) when I or my KH touches me there ...

To use it as a chastity-security device I would recommend wearing a segment-ring (smooth closed ring impossible to open without pliers). I would wait at least 4 weeks for the healing until it is not painful anymore to turn, twist, and pull upon it. As long as it is sensitive to those movements, it is not healed and should not take ANY strain. After that time I would stretch the ring to a wire-size of 6-4 gauge (mine has 6 now and works perfect). Then let it heal fully until all those movements are more erotic than painful

Hope I could answer some questions. If you'd like to know more just ask!

[jimbobin]

A little about me, currently I'm wearing a 00ga (just over 9mm) by 18mm (measured from the inside of the ring). I got my ring done as a bit of a dare as my wife who said I was too chicken to get it done. So one lunch time I got it done. The below are just my feelings and experience, this may well be very different for others.

Pros
I love the look of having it, and the funny looks I get in the toilet if someone takes a little look at it.
I would say that you need to stretch it up to 5ga or higher, as the smaller (thin) gauge rings can cut/pull and can become very uncomfortable.
For me I think it shields my frenum, so I last a lot longer during sex, and can actually make my wife come a few times before I feel that feeling building.
My wife says that she can feel the ring and makes sex 100x better, I can make her cum pretty easy now. Before the ring, it would take quite a bit of work to get her there.
She likes 'our little secret' and finds it sexy, although her sister did see me naked once (unintentional and my complete accident), but never mentioned the ring straight out.
I enjoy the little tugging feeling I get from the ring, always reminding you that it is there. I like having a larger gauge/heavier ring.

Cons (for me, not so much her)
Going for a wee is best done sitting on the loo. Urinals are fine, but you need to put your finger behind the ring underneath to stop the wee from flowing from the hole underneath.
If wearing a large (i.e. 22mm) ring, I find it uncomfortable wearing 'tight' underwear i.e. lose boxers/commando are fine but briefs tend to bend the ring to one side making it uncomfortable.
The rings can be expensive (especially for larger sizes and guages).

For me, I think it's great and wish I had done it earlier. The hole can close up quite quickly if you leave it out for a while.

[Whizbang]

How will this affect my experience when I allow him to penetrate me?
Will it have an effect on how I give him oral or a handjob?
Will it increase HIS sensitivity? If so, how much?
Are there any other benefits for either of us?

The jewelry IS removable

My partner and I usually remove the jewelry any time there's going to be penetration(*). With oral or hand jobs, we usually remove it but sometimes leave it on.

While the jewelry is in, you probably want to keep any stimulation rather gentle. For a handjob, slamming your knuckle into the jewelry where it enters the piercing isn't really pleasant and could stress the piercing anyway. Gentle stimulation can be intensified by the jewelry itself, as the weight of the jewelry will stimulate the cockhead.

In giving oral, I find the jewelry clacking against teeth is rather disconcerting--it can take some practice to pick up techniques for dealing with that--but again, it's easy enough to remove the jewelry.

As for sensitivity, it's a crapshoot--and possibly there's a big mental element to that. My PA didn't really change my sensitivity.

As far as other benefits, the jewelry has aesthetic value and the weight of the jewelry, especially if / as you size up, will cause things to hang rather lower while flaccid.

(*) Small gauge captive beads are easy to remove by hand. As gauges get larger, you used to have to use ring spreaders, but now there is plenty of jewelry that relies on spring-loaded beads that are secure when inserted but still insertable and removable by hand. These go up to large gauges, but, at large gauges, I'm a huge fan of this, though: http://www.kolopiercing.com/rubber-ball ... 6_189.html. Note that the smallest of those, a 4-gauge piercing, is still very large and your husband would be pierced at probably a 10-gauge. Note that the more narrow gauge the piercing, the more stress that a tug on the jewelry will place on the site of the piercing. Larger gauges spread out the force. So I dunno how, say, using a 10-gauge piercing to secure a chastity device actually ends up feeling.

[mrfelix]

I would like to get a piercing to secure my device, but each time I take the device off the piercing pin would be removed. Would this be a problem? Also I tend to turtle up at times, would this help to stop this or would it just put extra pressure on the piercing?

[Whizbang]

I would like to get a piercing to secure my device, but each time I take the device off the piercing pin would be removed. Would this be a problem? Also I tend to turtle up at times, would this help to stop this or would it just put extra pressure on the piercing?

If you took the device off, you could always insert some jewelry. Piercings below a certain gauge will tend to heal, but at some point, the piercing is stable.

With chastity devices, you'll generally want to have a tube that's equal to your flaccid length. If the tube was much too long, then I could see the fixing putting a lot of stress on your piercing. From my experience, it's okay if the piercing stretches you some--my tube is .5-1 cm too long and I haven't had piercing stretch problems. I'm in a pretty large gauge though, and I dunno how a smaller gauge piercing would deal with stretch.

[kh4extendedram]

Thank you for your relpies. You've given me some much needed insight, which I appreciate.

[wspony]

One thing that has nothing to do with PA piercings directly but I thought I'd mention it anyway. When I got my PA, my KH got herself a vertical clitoral hood at the same time (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Clitoral_hood_piercing). Like the PA it is one of the fastest healing intimate piercings a women can get. I am told (and read on the net) that it has a huge effect on the pleasure of the women as it increases the stimulation to the clit manifold... So that would be one option if someone is looking to increase their pleasure

I would like to get a piercing to secure my device, but each time I take the device off the piercing pin would be removed. Would this be a problem? Also I tend to turtle up at times, would this help to stop this or would it just put extra pressure on the piercing?

It also depends on which device you use. Some devices work with the piercing itself and don't insert anything through your piercing hole. Eg. the Steelheart with the PA fixing I now wear is something like this. I wear my normal standard segment ring in my piercing. The PA-fixing goes through this piercing ring and secures the device with it ... no need for me to remove or change the piercing when I am let out...

[mrfelix]

I have a Lori 2A on order, with a removable PA (8 gauge). If it stays secure without a PA that is how I will wear it. If not my key holder has agreed to me getting a PA. She is concerned about sucking on Her cock with a steel ring on it. She now sucks on Her cock 5 or 6 nights a week as her favorite form of tease and denial. I don't want to mess that up!

[wspony]

@mrfelix: I would not worry about that .. 1st you can take out the ring during teases (the hole won't close up THAT fast) and second, you can always put a barbell in it instead of a ring. 5-6 nights a week! ... Holy Grail! ...