Hello to everybody, this is my first experience in chastity and i want to say hello to everybody and ask for some tips, if possible..
i bought a cb6000 one year ago and finally my wife told me to use it: the fact is that we are waiting a baby and as she feel fat (not true, for me is always wondeful) and not really interested in sex she was gelous.. untill yesterday when i told her: "if you want to feel sure about me why don't you make me wear the chastity belt?"
she accepted and after a while she told that she likes it on me and that i'm going to wear it for a week ..
i love this thing..
anyone has some tips about how i can act in order that she likes it so much that she wants me to wear it always?
sorry for my english but i haven't been using it for a while, so...
thanks in advance for your help and i wish an happy time to everybody
First day in chastity
First day in chastity
currently wearing: cb6000
Re: First day in chastity
My tip:
Don't try to do something "special".
IMO, the CB (and the knowledge your sexual release depends on her) will make you aware of her needs all on its own. Just follow the wave that builds up within you.
She will probably take some time to get used to your enhanced need for nearness, so don't overwhelm her.
After all, if it doesn't come naturally now, how should she trust it will come naturally later on?
If she is not interested in sex, but the pressure for you gets too high, suggest she lets you out every now and then for some DIY sex under her supervision. That way you are still under her control, but she does not have to feel guilty for taking away your pleasures, which can be hard for a brand new keyholder.
And maybe she accepts some non-penetrative attention when you are locked.
K
Don't try to do something "special".
IMO, the CB (and the knowledge your sexual release depends on her) will make you aware of her needs all on its own. Just follow the wave that builds up within you.
She will probably take some time to get used to your enhanced need for nearness, so don't overwhelm her.
After all, if it doesn't come naturally now, how should she trust it will come naturally later on?
If she is not interested in sex, but the pressure for you gets too high, suggest she lets you out every now and then for some DIY sex under her supervision. That way you are still under her control, but she does not have to feel guilty for taking away your pleasures, which can be hard for a brand new keyholder.
And maybe she accepts some non-penetrative attention when you are locked.
K
Currently using: Steelworxx Looker 2
Owns: CB6000, Bon4, Sentinel (Copy), Birdcage (Copy), Lovejail, Gerecke Desire (Titanium)
Owns: CB6000, Bon4, Sentinel (Copy), Birdcage (Copy), Lovejail, Gerecke Desire (Titanium)
Re: First day in chastity
thank you for the advice.. i'm thinking to do in this way too, also becouse it took a long time to let her accept it and i don't want to screw up for impatience.. let's see how is going in the next days..
currently wearing: cb6000