"Hello world" thread

[Atone]

Started experimenting with reduced orgasms about a year ago.

welcome to the forum. I like the way you put that, less negative than denying orgasms. Reminds me a little of reducing a sauce on the stove top, makes it better, richer.

[BeHerBetterMan]

Hi everyone,

New to this forum, and generally living in chastity as well.

I'm into a 2-year-old relationship with my girlfriend, and things were kinda getting routine. This naturally led to more disagreements, arguments, etc.

We are currently physically apart from each other in different countries, and started exploring this chastity lifestyle initially as a way for her to trust that nothing naughty is happening in her absence.

Started with just the nightly lock-ups after I reach home from work. Progressed to orgasm denial over a 3-day period. I am currently overseas, and have been in the CB6000 (just switched to the CB6000s today) for the last one week (lock-up once I reach the hotel, removed only to go to work). Have not had an orgasm for the last 7 days, which for me, is a long time!

Started realizing wonderful changes in our relationship after going onto chastity. Due to the constant feeling of being horny, I am starting to think of her a lot more, calling her more. Attitude towards her have also improved tremendously and she's been very happy about the changes.

We have been talking about T&D when she finally comes back, as well as how to reward/punish the right/wrong behaviours.

Really looking forward to this lifestyle, and hoping to be able to progress to wearing it 24/7 comfortably.

[sherulestherooster]

Hi,
I am sherulestherooster, and I have been a longtime lurker and frequent viewer of the keyheld.blogspot.com site. I wanted to express my appreciation for selecting my blog, and I really enjoy receiving comments. At a high level, we are a 15+ year married couple, really enjoying our sex play a lot more lately. I think the kids growing up and us both mellowing out has helped a lot. My wife is much more comfortable experimenting, which is really fun. She doesn't' indulge all my kinks, but certainly a lot of them!

I have a CB-6000S and a Birdlocked Mini. I have blogged about my thoughts about both, but what really matters is that my wife didn't like the hard polycarbonate of the CB... so, if I am to be locked with us sleeping together, she wants the Birdlock.

Ahhh, where are we with chastity? My wife prefers the "honor system" to me being locked, except in times when we will be physically separated. Such a time is coming around the corner, and I will be locked Tuesday night through Sunday night, most likely. I have mixed feelings about this. To be honest, I don't like being locked when I am at work (too distracting, and peeing is always such a hassle compared to being unlocked). Plus, I am not sure how i will handle working out in the new gym - it has less privacy than my older one! However, I am grateful that she wants me to be locked and very excited about it. She really likes knowing that I will not be taking matters into her own hands while she is away. When we are together normally, she would immediately know if I masturbated due to my behavior changes.

Our longterm average is that she climaxes about 4 times per every time I do; we have gone as high as 11 or 12 of her orgasms between my climaxes. So we do frequently practices orgasm denial. The longest I've been denied orgasm is around four weeks, and she seems to want to stretch that out. "Her" particular fetish is cock and ball torture, which is something we do about every session now. As it turns out, she is a sadist and I am a masochist. Who would have known?

I strongly identify as a submissive and have lots of kinks I'd like to try. But male chastity (albeit largely on the honor system) is something that we both seem to enjoy.

Cheers,
sherulestherooster

[newlocker]

Hello all.

I'm new on the forum and locked for 4 days. It changed my life , but we're both happy with my wife. Describe feelings later. Sorry for the broken English because I'm from Slovenia.

[vintage39]

Hello everyone .
Thanks for letting me join .
I have fantasised about chastity for years ,and my wife MIGHT be getting into it .
I'm not locked yet ,but shes's hinted about it !
I'll post properly later and tell you all the story
Thanks for a great forum

[Princess K]

Hello, Chastity Nation!

I'm a new female keyholder in a relatively young relationship. My story is the typical one-- my boyfriend, after apparently keeping his yearnings secret for years with other partners, came out to me as submissive(ish) and interested in chastity. Although all of my past experiences have been pretty vanilla, my reaction was "Hey, I'll find out what this is all about and give it a go."

So here I am, eager to learn from all of the KHs out there (and the chaste partners, too-- the psychology and physiology of OD are fascinating to me). My boyfriend senses a dominant lurking beneath the surface. I just hope he's prepared for the day when I'm ready to unleash her!

[wishful4]

Hello, Chastity Nation!

I'm a new female keyholder in a relatively young relationship. My story is the typical one-- my boyfriend, after apparently keeping his yearnings secret for years with other partners, came out to me as submissive(ish) and interested in chastity. Although all of my past experiences have been pretty vanilla, my reaction was "Hey, I'll find out what this is all about and give it a go."

So here I am, eager to learn from all of the KHs out there (and the chaste partners, too-- the psychology and physiology of OD are fascinating to me). My boyfriend senses a dominant lurking beneath the surface. I just hope he's prepared for the day when I'm ready to unleash her!

Princess K,

So happy to see you on the forum. A lot of good info and friendly folks here. If they haven't done so already, our admin can set you up for inclusion in a hidden KH only section to the forum. Your partner is a lucky man. Welcome!!

[Sammy]

Good morning!

I'm Sammy (Samantha) -- I suppose I'm a keyholder. My husband introduced us to T&D and orgasm denial (for him!) about a year ago. He really did a botch job by trying to "top from the bottom", and things sort of were in limbo for a while. I've finally gotten to the point where we're either going to do this right or not do it at all, so I've decided to delurk and join this forum. I've been reading quite a bit on the Keyheld site, perusing these forums, and learning about the different paths. I'd have to say that we're pretty vanilla -- I don't dress in leather and he doesn't dress in lace, nor do we harbor fantasies of cuckolding or castration.

I've limited his orgasms since last Fall -- and weened him from taking matters into his own hands. I have him on the "honor system" for now -- but we have a CB6000 that I'll occasionally lock him in (things get kind of funky smelling after a long lockup). He has been denied release for about 3 weeks now. The first 2 weeks were a struggle and I had him use the CB when he was getting particularly anxious or I was leaving him alone for a period of time. I'm still getting comfortable with doing this the way that I want to do it, and not the way that he fantasizes about.

Thank you to everyone who shares their everyday trials and tribulations -- it is refreshing to find out that we're not traveling this path alone.

[locked4her55]

Welcome Sammy,

I'm going to quote Wishful4:

"So happy to see you on the forum. A lot of good info and friendly folks here. If they haven't done so already, our admin can set you up for inclusion in a hidden KH only section to the forum. Your partner is a lucky man. Welcome!!"

Couldn't have said it any better.

Feel free to reach out on the KH's side. I believe you and my wife "keeperof55" have a lot in common.

[Sammy]

Thanks! I think I'd like that. I'm sure I could pick up a lot more from other women who are making this work! I didn't realize there was a "hidden" forum -- how exotic! LOL.