Why are they always "sissy" maid uniforms? Doesn't anyone go for the manly maid uniforms anymore?Sissy Stine wrote:...in particular I spend a significant amount of time doing chores whilst wearing sissy maid uniforms.
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Can you send me a link to a "manly" maid uniform? I'm not sure exactly what that is.Tom Allen wrote:Why are they always "sissy" maid uniforms? Doesn't anyone go for the manly maid uniforms anymore?Sissy Stine wrote:...in particular I spend a significant amount of time doing chores whilst wearing sissy maid uniforms.
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Here you go...Atone wrote:Can you send me a link to a "manly" maid uniform? I'm not sure exactly what that is.Tom Allen wrote:Why are they always "sissy" maid uniforms? Doesn't anyone go for the manly maid uniforms anymore?Sissy Stine wrote:...in particular I spend a significant amount of time doing chores whilst wearing sissy maid uniforms.
Butler's Uniform - International Butler Academy
www.butlerschool.com/butler_uniform.htm
I'm not a gynecologist, but I'll take a very close look.
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After posting my Hello World message, I browsed a bit more on the forums and found that the athmosphere here isn't exactly friendly towards the sissy fetish. Rather it seems smug and bordering on the unpleasant. I'm only sorry I didn't notice earlier. Probably best for everyone if I find a different forum to frequent.
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It wasn't meant to insult or belittle you in any way...just joking around. What the hell, they're all just fetishes, and none of us really know why a particular one latched onto us.Sissy Stine wrote:After posting my Hello World message, I browsed a bit more on the forums and found that the athmosphere here isn't exactly friendly towards the sissy fetish. Rather it seems smug and bordering on the unpleasant. I'm only sorry I didn't notice earlier. Probably best for everyone if I find a different forum to frequent.
I'm not a gynecologist, but I'll take a very close look.
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Oh, dang it.Sissy Stine wrote:After posting my Hello World message, I browsed a bit more on the forums and found that the athmosphere here isn't exactly friendly towards the sissy fetish. Rather it seems smug and bordering on the unpleasant. I'm only sorry I didn't notice earlier. Probably best for everyone if I find a different forum to frequent.
I really did post that thing about manly maid uniforms just to be funny, and that's only because the subject came up recently, so it had been on my mind.
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It had nothing to do with you.
But here's the thing: Most of us are here because the sissy thing does nothing for us, and we wanted a place that was more oriented to straight, vanilla denial (whatever that's supposed to mean). Are we sometimes a bit derisive? Yeah, probably. It's nothing personal, though, it's more of a reaction to the frustration that many of us have felt because most of the forums that are out there definitely have a BDSM or a sissy spin to them, and sometimes it feels like there isn't really a place for people who just want to practice chastity & denial within the context of a more vanilla-ish relationship.
So, you're more than welcome to stay and discuss the various aspects of chastity & denial. Just be aware that for most of the regulars here, the sissy stuff really isn't appealing, and you might be better served taking your discussions to Chastity Mansion.
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I appreciate the follow-up comments. And I was not without blame myself; I should of course have done my research before registering.
Thanks for the link to Chastity Mansion; I'll probably give that a try instead.
Thanks for the link to Chastity Mansion; I'll probably give that a try instead.
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That is not a manly maid uniform. A butler uniform would be easy to come by but not really the same thing at all. It would seem to me that a manly maid uniform would have to incorporate both masculine and feminine attributes.RegularJoe wrote: Here you go...
Butler's Uniform - International Butler Academy
http://www.butlerschool.com/butler_uniform.htm
Sissy Stine, I'm sorry if I caused a bit of a stir, that was certainly not my intention. I hope you hang around a while, we really are a pretty nice group of people. Whatever you decide I hope that you find a good fit whether it is here or elsewhere.
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You are welcome to enjoy any fetish you wish. It isn't that we are unfriendly to the fetish per se, it's that we are adults here and we tend to [try] to act like it most of the time. We talk as adults and tend to prefer to be talked to as adults. We exchange information and [sometimes] experiences, but we don't expect other members to coddle us or cater to our fetishes.Sissy Stine wrote:After posting my Hello World message, I browsed a bit more on the forums and found that the athmosphere here isn't exactly friendly towards the sissy fetish. Rather it seems smug and bordering on the unpleasant. I'm only sorry I didn't notice earlier. Probably best for everyone if I find a different forum to frequent.
Some of us, including myself, have a cum fetish...but we don't expect others to call us "cum slut" or whatever. I have a fetish for cuckoldry and forced bisexuality but I don't come here to be called a 'little fag boy' or something like that.
We typically don't 'play' to each others' fantasies here. If you are looking for others to engage in your fantasy persona and to 'play' to it, you won't find that here. On the other hand, if you are looking for adult conversation on real issues/experiences having to do with chastity or other kinks, then you will certainly find plenty of *that* here.
Not all members share all of the kinks of other members but we respect each others' rights to enjoy his/her particular kink. But though we respect your right to enjoy your particular brand of kink, that does not confer any right to expect us to *indulge* in your particular kink *with* you.
You are welcome to stay, but you shouldn't expect other members to become immersed in your particular fantasy persona.
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Well, it could work, sans breeches...with a nice lacy apron. Sometimes ya gotta improvise!Atone wrote:That is not a manly maid uniform. A butler uniform would be easy to come by but not really the same thing at all. It would seem to me that a manly maid uniformee would have to incorporate both masculine and feminine attributes.RegularJoe wrote: Here you go...
Butler's Uniform - International Butler Academy
http://www.butlerschool.com/butler_uniform.htm
I'm not a gynecologist, but I'll take a very close look.