[KnownAsHerbert] New chapter

[denied_one]

I have found myself wishing for the big cage lately. I will be happy and quiet in the nub

I wish you luck!

[KnownAsHerbert]

After the stupidly early wake up for the usual reasons, we ended up with an easy day. Things to get done but mostly just taking it easy after the busy week. Kept without clothes all day and Miss Emmie chose her shorts so whatever chores we undertook weren't done without distractions. She was also keen to add to her bean collection so I was kept busy there too. I found the cage getting tight multiple times yesterday.

Off to bed and Miss Emmie wanted cuddles plus an orgasm to "help her settle" and finally holding until she drifted off. Of course, she got all three of her wishes granted. But what about me??? I was solid and once her breathing had changed and I knew she was sound, I rolled gently away to let her sleep. It must have taken me another hour to get to sleep, straining away in the steel.

This morning, same again, 5am, with a cock demanding attention. "Hey, come on, let me out. I've got work to do".
"Sorry old pal, I haven't got the key. You'll have to wait."
The words weren't enough to stop him trying though. So that was it. I was awake as Miss Emmie slept peaceful on. Again.

I'd obviously got used to the Cobra and how it contains erections without drawing attention to them. Surrounding the cock, holding it still, just gently letting you know it's there and preventing unauthorised access, but nothing outrageously deliberate in frustrating its wearer. It just sits there, calmly saying "I have a job to do and that job is looking after your keyholder's cock until she wants it. You behave yourself and we'll all get along just fine."

And the Cobra did do its job very well, but now sits in the drawer until its next call of duty. For now it's the turn of the drill sergeant yelling at me at 5am instead. This one yells "Wake up, Herbi. I'm here doing my job. Can you feel that? I'm gonna make sure you know I'm here protecting Miss Emmie's cock until she's ready to let it out. Do you understand me?"

Yes, I understand. The House of Denial steel is a very different piece of equipment to the Cobra Nub.

[Tongue+groove]

It appears that Miss Emmie has been the catalyst to evolving your relationship with your cock. I thoroughly enjoy reading about the conversations you and your cock are having.

Your creativity is expanding.

[KnownAsHerbert]

And now, I suddenly remember why it's called the naughty cage. I can't bloody move in it and it's so darned tight!

Miss Emmie would say that a week of the naughty cage is a fair price to pay for a whole day of her wearing her fairy costume. I guess I can't disagree but do you know what? If I could get this thing off and do something useful today, I really think I would. Seven weeks for heaven's sake...

[KHEmmi]

do you know what? If I could get this thing off and do something useful today, I really think I would. Seven weeks for heaven's sake...

Lucky you can't get it off then, Herbs.
It would ruin your average.

And yes 7 weeks.
So far.
You've still got to go back into the big one at the end of this week.
Don't worry though. You can come in July if you're good.

[KnownAsHerbert]

So Mr. Nice Guy, the Cobra Nub, did his job all very quiet and polite.

Then Big Steel came along and caused his usual havoc.

And then Miss Emmie offered to wear her fairy costume as you know, which means I am now having to deal with being sat on by a 16 stone wrestler.

My cock: Gmphh, I can't move.
The wrestler: Keep still and keep quiet.
My cock: I can't move anyway. I can hardly breath.
The wrestler: So what? I'm just sitting tight until your times up.
My cock: Can I just stretch out a little bit, just for a moment?
The wrestler: Nah. Shut up and behave yourself.

The wrestler lacks the eloquence of the other two. He might be small but he's solidly built. No room for negotiation (or anything else) with this one.

Guess I just have to sit the week out and wait for Big Steel to take over again.

(A 'stone' by the way, is a rather quaint and as far as I know solely British unit of weight equal to 14 pounds so our wrestler weighs 224 pounds, or just over 100Kg if my sums are right)

[Nick0965]

Hi,

Thank you for your journey. As I've said on @KHEmmi 's board, I stayed up late on Saturday night reading both entire journeys. It took me until 5am on Sunday. I then went to bed for around 2 hours before needing to get up again. Sunday was hard work.

Reading between the two accounts, it seems that you regularly "want" orgasms, but then suffer a massive drop immediately after receiving one, and Miss Emmi says it takes you 6 to 8 weeks to get back to where you were - an almost Zen like state (possibly).

So, I suppose, my question is - which is better for you (from your point of view) - the orgasm or the not orgasm? The few seconds of bliss followed by the 6 - 8 weeks of getting back on track, or the loss of the bliss with no need to get back?

I've also been reading through @Tongue+groove 's journey and find it fascinating the differences between your two wives. It is really interesting to see those two dynamics in action.

Thank you for writing it all out so clearly over the past nearly 14 months.

[KnownAsHerbert]

Thank you for writing it all out so clearly over the past nearly 14 months.

I'm glad you enjoyed the read, even if it did cost you a whole night's sleep!

I'm not sure about this 6-8 weeks thing. I don't think it takes as long as that to get over the drop, maybe 2-3 to stop feeling cranky and wanting more. Maybe Miss Emmie notices further changes and feels that after 6-8 weeks I've completely calmed down and just accept where I am.

I don't know. It's not easy to self analyse.

I'm sure I'd go for the easy option (orgasm) if she let me. Would I feel better and grateful if that happened? I'm not sure.

One thing I do know is that as of now after about 7 weeks, I'm back to feeling horny and frustrated a lot of the time.

Thanks for your interest!

[KnownAsHerbert]

All I can do this week is look after Miss Emmie and keep her comfortable. It's "that week" for her.

She's still able to write though, and her words make it sound like she's become something of a political dictator, talking as she does of "seriously eliminating all self-pleasuring habits" and saying what a breakthrough such an approach is. I know she was quoting another's words but she made it sound like she was triumphantly delivering on her manifesto or something.

Meantime, I sit here squashed into her naughty cage with a few more days to go until the weekend. I don't care about orgasms but just want to get back to the big steel or the cobra. This little thing just keeps me squashed up into almost nothing with no proper sensations except when aroused so no real pleasurable aspect at all. She always says that I always want to keep changing, and I suppose that's largely true. With the naughty cage, it's especially true. All self-pleasuring habits seriously and totally eliminated here.

[denied_one]

All I can do this week is look after Miss Emmie and keep her comfortable. It's "that week" for her.

Funny thing I have noticed since beginning to post here, and you sharing when your Miss Emmi is "out of commission" is that my Wife is about 10 days behind Her. So when your Wife is finishing, mine is about to go on. So I absolutely understand how this time can be for us "locked lads" and appropriate empathy is extended if welcome.

She's still able to write though

She certainly posed a very good and interesting question!

and her words make it sound like she's become something of a political dictator,

She is certainly strict enough, with your tiny average for the year thus far ....almost halfway in already

talking as she does of "seriously eliminating all self-pleasuring habits" and saying what a breakthrough such an approach is. I know she was quoting another's words but she made it sound like she was triumphantly delivering on her manifesto or something.

Yeah, about that....

To be fair...I did NOT set out to eliminate the habit...just kind of "reign it in" because @MrsLockNkey said it was not only becoming such a habit for me that it was lacking feeling for me and was making it difficult to climax when actually being with Her. She said it was absolutely "out of hand", so to speak

My triggers were right before bed and maybe twice more before getting up in the morning. So two or three a day, mainly overnight and in the morning.

I rationalized that if I wore the cage to bed every single night, it would be on every single morning, when I'm caged, I don't do it.

We agreed to try for 90 days locked and no climaxes for me last May-July. We achieved no climaxes for me for 87 days and absolutely no masturbation. It was hard. Really hard. But at the end...my self-pleasure habit was totally interrupted and gone. Replaced with a new habit...the cage.

This little thing just keeps me squashed up into almost nothing with no proper sensations except when aroused so no real pleasurable aspect at all. She always says that I always want to keep changing, and I suppose that's largely true. With the naughty cage, it's especially true.

@MrsLockNkey mentioned we have a new smaller cage arriving soon. It is from CockCages.co and it is a clear resin Cobra BABY knock off...I think it's 28 CM. Getting prepared for that!

All self-pleasuring habits seriously and totally eliminated here.

It absolutely is possible! Those who never wore a cage will never really know what we are talking about.

Good man! We are better for it and we know it!