[tongue+groove] From vanilla to spumoni

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because of a weakness in the stronger sex for the weaker sex

Oh the wisdom of Miss Emmi, so very well put. Even after all these years I am still mesmerized by Mrs.G. It seems the longer we are together the more I crave her presence. I would do just about anything she asked of me.

I’ll never forget the first time I saw her. It doesn’t matter that she didn’t acknowledge me nor does she remember that moment when time stood still. That fact is she made me go weak in the knees. She has owned my every breath since that day.

We have had a few good laughs in recent months about that day. What if we could go back and have a conversation.

Me. You’re beautiful, I want to spend the rest of my life with you.
Her. Sounds great, but you’ll need to wear this chunk of metal on your junk.

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@waki86

A woman does not need a man to live with her.
But usually a man cannot live without a woman.

Oh how true! It’s interesting how when God created Eve he said, “it’s not good that man should be alone”. But He never said a word about woman being alone.

And anyone who says women are the weaker sex has never attempted to squeeze a 7 pound football from their body. I witnessed this with both of our children. One natural and one c- section in both cases she was amazing.

I have watched a lot of livestock being birthed and even had to assist in a few cases. But witnessing the love of your life bringing your children into the world, WOW! Unbelievable.

Thanks waki86 for stimulating my memories.

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Just thinking here.

Is this what it’s like to be too old for sex? You know, a change of focus. More on the relationship and time spent together and less on penis play.

It’s different than being too busy for sex. In that situation you also end up too busy for each other also, and the hormones rage on.

Like I said just thinking.

[waki86]

I think as you get older the emphasis on ejaculating becomes less.
No more need for performance.
But the focus will be more on pampering each other.

Because what is sex anyway?
Penetrating the woman who then receives it.
Or is sex challenging, pleasuring, attracting and repelling each other without the ultimate goal of having an orgasm.
But still feel emotionally connected.
And say yes, honey, it was delicious.

For us men it builds up very quickly and then boom, there is no way back and the discharge comes.
A woman it builds up slowly, then it peaks again, it weakens and it peaks again, etc. until it can no longer be stopped.
After which, after a gentle caressing session, it starts all over again.
A cage actually ensures that it peaks, weakens, peaks again and there is no discharge.
And as a result, people deal with what they are so used to calling sex in a completely different way.

[Tongue+groove]

A woman it builds up slowly, then it peaks again, it weakens and it peaks again, etc. until it can no longer be stopped.

Nice description for riding the female orgasmic wave.

Thanks

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It’s the subtle teases that mean so much. Mrs. G always texts me when she arrives at work. Today she sent me a bunch of kissy imogees and some hearts. I told her thank you it made me feel all warm inside. She replies,

Yeah!! And tight!

Me yes very nice and snuggly.

Then she sends more hearts .

May not sound like much to many out there. But, this is huge for her to do anything the least bit flirtatious on her phone.

I’m so proud of her. And yes my hopes are up for an exciting evening. Hopefully the day doesn’t exhaust her like they frequently do.

[KnownAsHerbert]

I get a few texts at work during the day. Something like "Are you hard at work?" will appear at random. Of course, I reply "Very busy today, yes" and she will respond with "That's not what I meant and you know it".

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@knownasherbert

I look forward to a time when she will tease me like this. As it is it doesn’t take much from her to get me worked up. Trouble is she says she feels bad about getting me worked up and feeling uncomfortable. I can’t seem to convince her that I enjoy it.

She’s getting there, only time will tell how far.

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, expect a punishment if you go this route and I take no responsibility for that punishment)

I have considered going down the road you propose. It seems that when I take care of stuff, (household etc.) it has become a norm and not a rewarding experience.

She has been teasing me with threats of punishment. She also knows I would enjoy that. I just can’t seem to push her over the edge of punishing me for real and not for play. I actually made her a nice walnut paddle with hearts cut out. However the first sign of redness and she backs off. I crave more from her.

It’s a fine line of thoroughly pissing her off and play time. For her a spanking Is playtime but I need her to be pissed off and beat my ass.

Thanks for the input. It sounds like you’ve been down this road and I relish your input, hopefully it will help.

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Be aware that it also hurts the one giving it too. It’s actually super emotional.

You said a mouthful there. It took her several attempts to realize what she was doing for me by warming my seat. She couldn’t grasp my pleasure from pain. In her mind she was hitting me, something she has never done nor would ever do. Hitting has never happened because it was never an option in our relationship.

So yes a super emotional hurdle for her, but one she is willing to attempt for me.