Time without orgasm

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Tongue+groove
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Re: Time without orgasm

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5 months, impressive turn around, however I have a few questions and comments.

When you say no orgasms for you I am assuming you mean ejaculate. Or have you learned to orgasm without ejaculation? If not it’s worth focusing on with your kh.

What about prostate health. Have you had any issues in that department?

Final comment. It seems that for many cage wearers there is a window of opportunity to reset so to speak. For example when I approach the 10 - 14 day mark my level of horniness levels off and I tolerate the situation much better. However as I approach the 28 day mark I actually start a decline in energy and desire. Keep in mind I am still having intimacy with my kh/ wife this whole time and even an occasional cumless orgasm. We have found that I can ejaculate in the 28 day range and get a reset so to speak, without a drop. Horniness and energy go sky high also.

I am speaking with limited knowledge as I have never gone without for any longer than a month. Here again everyone is different. Find what works for the both of you.
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atxmtb
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Re: Time without orgasm

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Tongue+groove wrote: Mon Oct 07, 2024 12:28 pm 5 months, impressive turn around, however I have a few questions and comments.

When you say no orgasms for you I am assuming you mean ejaculate. Or have you learned to orgasm without ejaculation? If not it’s worth focusing on with your kh.
I've read about male orgasms without ejaculation and to be honest, I have no idea what that means. I associate the two as one. I'm not sure if when people say, "you can orgasm without ejaculating, you know", if they are describing the nice feeling, or sometimes something like goose bumps, but certainly nothing like a real O. I keep hoping that someday I'll learn some secret. Same thing with lasting for a long long time without cumming. I last long enough, but not as long as these you-tube kung-fu masters claim. But, other than pay up $1000 to go to some course that claims they'll teach me this stuff, I figure I'll just keep practicing. It's one thing I'll never tire of.
What about prostate health. Have you had any issues in that department?
Yeah, I've read about this and there's a few things. Basically when they say it's better to cum for prostate health, they're talking about the noises. Maybe it is, slightly better, but not really meaningful. I've also read that what you can do instead is sit on a tennis ball. What I do instead is sit on a bicycle seat when riding. Also I listen to what eastern practices say. They have generally better overall health I feel than Americans. Tao actually claims a guy like me should almost never cum again. I'm not procreating anymore. So, I figure I'm more interested in what works for me. I'm not going to worry about what might happen, but probably won't. Besides, prostate cancer impacts something like 80% of guys if they live into their 90s. Again, I'm not going to worry.
Final comment. It seems that for many cage wearers there is a window of opportunity to reset so to speak. For example when I approach the 10 - 14 day mark my level of horniness levels off and I tolerate the situation much better. However as I approach the 28 day mark I actually start a decline in energy and desire. Keep in mind I am still having intimacy with my kh/ wife this whole time and even an occasional cumless orgasm. We have found that I can ejaculate in the 28 day range and get a reset so to speak, without a drop. Horniness and energy go sky high also.
Yeah, I found I was pretty horny after about 2 weeks and then it just kind of leveled off. Still, whenever I'd cum, there'd be a drop. Not as bad as cumming every day, but still, noticable.
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