"Hello world" thread

[Sir Chaste]

Hello MissTreated and jrwams, and welcome to the Forums. We also know that our KH's have "found the whole chastity experience a huge turn-on," and they love to see us "encased in steel." You will soon discover that "venturing into MC has a profound effect," and you will "become more attentive to her and want her more than ever before." You have both already been reading through the previous threads and posts, and I encourage you to ask questions, as we always enjoy "having in-depth conversations" whenever you may "need a bit of advice." The members here will give you all of their support, and they want to make your "first experiences of enforced chastity far more enjoyable." We wish you both luck, and we shall look forward to hearing about your progress.

[Thypuc]

Hi all.

New to the site, we are preparing for my initial lockup. I gave her a chastity contract last week and the CB6000 arrived today. The nerves are building or maybe not orgasming since Wed. Night is the issue. We are both looking forward to tommorow night. she has given me a list of things to bring to pamper her. I have noticed a change in myself, and I like how things are developing. Even my wife has started to speak to me with more authority, and it really turns me on(kind of different) Prior to this I could be a jerk and more often my wife would take the brunt of it. We are kind of changing places, though her pleasure had always been priority#1(besides sneaking away to masterbate). I won't ramble but anyone intersted in more details let me know, cause I sure have questions that I could ask ?

[Sir Chaste]

Hello Thypuc, and welcome to the Forums. Your "nerves are building" and you "have noticed a change" already. You "like how things are developing" as your wife speaks "with more authority," and gives you "a list of things to bring to pamper her." You will find that you "are kind of changing places" as she becomes more familiar with her new role as your KH. Even "though her pleasure had always been priority #1," your marriage will take on a new dynamic as you both adapt to an MC lifestyle. I know that you "sure have questions" and the members here are always available to answer them. Read through the previous posts and threads, to learn as much as you can, and continue to let us know how you are both doing. Good luck!

[Thypuc]

Mike,

Thanks for the encouraging words. I have started a thread under journals to tell the story of this new beginning. We work opposite work schedule to accommodate kids, well she told me to carry out her bags. After I opened her door and leaned in, we had one of the most passionate kisses long time. I get the feeling this will bring the passion back into our lives. She told me the other day she didn't want me being some kind of whimp. I reassured her just because Im now here to serve her every needs, she is the only one I will allow.

Thanks

[wifewatcher33]

Wow - where to begin? How about: today marks 14 days without orgasm in my CB6000s - my longest stretch.

I got interested into chastity from delving into the cuckolding porn on the internet. I've always liked porn and especially guys locked up while the wife is having fun with another more well endowed man. I never thought too much about denying my orgasms because I was jerking off way too much to consider anything like that to be feasible. I love the cuck thing and we have tried it back in 2008 (really a threesome I guess) - I loved it and she was glad we did it but we both determined that is not what we want our lives to be. I'd even offered her my orgasms back then and was told by her not to buy a cock cage. That lasted a few days until I jerked off again.

Needless to say - I've masturbated frequently - or all the damn time is probably more correct. Well, back in early June, my wife and three kids were to go stay for a week with her mother for a summer get away which they do every year. I had to stay and work all week. Prior to chastity - this was my one week of the year to be alone and I would sometimes make my dick hurt I jerked so much.

However, the night before my wife left - I had set up our massage table (awesome investement for $150 at Sam's club five years ago) and proceeded to give my wife a full body massage. That almost always leads to sex but this time I could not get hard. I had pleased myself so much previous to that night including the night before, that I could not maintain my erection. We had a bit of discussion and she shed tears thinking it was her fault or something. This had happened several times before too. My cuck fantasy was so much that I could only get hard sometimes if she is telling me a story of her and another guy's big cock in her. She didn't want to have to do that every time we had sex and it seemed as if I was asking for it too much.

Every year when the wife and kids go to her mom's I would immediately go to a porn store that week to buy some stupid toy that I think will be fun and turn her on (glass dildo, masturbator sleeve, cock ring, prostate massager this time, etc...) finally see a CB6000 in New Fine Arts - bought it right away and put it on that night. Jerked off the next morning and that was it until she got home the following Saturday.

During the middle of week I let her know I had found and bought a chasity device via text. She thought I was a freak. I bought the CD for kink. However, Sarah Jameson and Kept for Her and a few other sites on the net had me rethink everything that week - I've got to stop masturbating and fantasizing about cuck stuff. After reading everything regarding denial of orgasms and denial of masturbation - I wanted this life for us.

I freaking love and adore my wife - worship her even. When I texted my wife about the CD, she responded with "your a perv" and that was going to be it. Then, I decided to let her know my frequency of masturbation is part of my problem. She freaked when she found out how often(about daily I guess - but with porn everytime). We texted back and forth several times that night - it was rough the last few days of the week until she returned - then it got even more rough (showed her the prostate massager I bought).

She actually dropped off our kids at my mother's so that we could have a few days alone together (my idea and I asked my mom and set it all up). That weekend we had lots and lots and lots of discussion, fighting, crying. I had cut and paste some female freindly CD stuff by Sarah and Keptforher in an email to my wife. She liked the idea of me being a better man and also not being allowed to masturbate or orgasm anymore while not in her presence.

I know I am so verbose and I apologize. Lots to say and can't get it all down fast enough.

Needless to say - its been up and down the last month and a half or so. She even agreed that a 6000s should be purchased for me as the 6000 is too long. As it stands right now - I am locked and haven't been allowed an orgasm since June 30, 2012. That is easiest the longest I have gone without touching and pleasing myself or having sex.

I've got lots more to say and hopefully will be able to post on The Journey blog. I now think I need stainless and to remain orgasmless for another 2 1/2 months thanks to everything I've read.

I like everything about what I've seen on this forum. My wife and I are both college educated people with normal lives and that seems to fit in here.

Now, all I can think about is her, and pleasing her, and making her happy, and doing things for her. I love it!

So, hello world of KHs and Chaste men - glad I could be a part of this.


Wifewatcher33

[Tom Allen]

I like everything about what I've seen on this forum. My wife and I are both college educated people with normal lives and that seems to fit in here.

Did I miss some of those threads?

[wifewatcher33]

Most of yall all seem normal to me anyway tom. I probably need to rethink how I word stuff. What is normal ya know?

Glad to be a part of what yall have going on here.

[Sir Chaste]

Hello wifewatcher33, and welcome to the Forums. "Wow, where to begin?" As you have been reading "Sarah Jameson and 'Kept for Her' and a few other sites on the net," you are already familiar with our philosophy here that living an MC lifestyle can lead to "being a better man." Your wife will notice your new interest in "pleasing her, and making her happy, and doing things for her." She will begin to assert herself more in her new role as your KH, because she knows that you are no longer "touching and pleasing" yourself "anymore while not in her presence." I encourage you to continue your reading and to learn as much as you can about this new dynamic in your marriage, and always feel free to ask questions. Continue to inform us of your feelings and experiences by writing in "The Journey" forum. The members here will give you all of their advice and support, and we are glad that you "could be a part of this."

[YoungCoconut]

Hello World/Forum

Spent some time perusing the forums and decided to make an account and hopefully get involved with this a bit more. I am pretty much new to the world of chastity, but it's been on my mind for quite some time, just within the past month did I actually obtain a CB6Ks.

I'm young, gay, and adventurous. Constantly exploring different ares of life and their exploits.

I'm also really bad at "About Me" type things, so if you have any questions or anything just ask, I am an open book. Hopefully you will begin to understand me as a person through various posts I may make

YC

[cjack]

Hello world, I'm real so thanks for letting me in. Been a member of other chastity sites and find the whole idea of chastity quite appealing..........not taken the next step yet in getting a device but who knows!