[Carolina Cyclist] Our new lifestyle...

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I took the plunge! I started a blog today. If you enjoyed reading here I hope you will enjoy my blog: http://www.thechastecyclist.com

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Last night was wonderfully frustrating. MrsL is determined to keep me on edge. While we were kissing and cuddling...she started stroking me through the Bon4. I quickly approached the edge and was able to control it for a few minutes. I think she sensed that I was on edge and got more agressive with her kisses and stroking. Finally, I had to let her know I was dangerously close and she stopped. Wow. It is going to be a great birthday...if it ever gets here!

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Had a great night with MrsL. Numerous times taken to the edge of orgasms and a couple of stifled orgasms, that are keeping precum dripping all day today, were in store for me when MrsL came to bed. I had a doctor's appointment today so she unlocked me and played with me for quite a while last night. Happily locked again. Horny as hell. Madly in LOVE with my wonderful Wife/KH...MrsL!

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I haven't updated my blog on here for a few days. I guess I am more focused on my new blog...but I want to keep this one somewhat current. I had some unlocked time over the weekend due to some minor irritation from a little cut while shaving. I ignored it and the base ring rested right on top of the cut. I guess I am lucky there was not serious issues. When I tried to hint to MrsL that I may need to travel this week without my cage she was very quick in her reply...in short she said hell no.

What I hate about travel is I don't get that one on one intimacy from my wonderful Wife/KH. She does send me provocative teasing text messages but it just isn't the same. I also hate that I am not able to "adjut" when needed and that created a flare up of the irritation. MrsL and I have talked already tonight and I a going to try to make it through the night...stay tuned....

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The modified Steelheart arrived while I was out of town....! MrsL kept it as a surprise for when I got home last night. Great night, even though I was completely drained from a 19 hour day!

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We had a great vacation and I enjoyed being unlocked for an entire week. MrsL found new and exciting ways to tease and deny me forcing me to be quiet in the hotel room. After a great night and morning back at home, MrsL ventured in to a new level of keyholding. Up until this morning she has always asked me when I was going back in my chastity device. This morning, after edging me numerous times in just under 12 hours, while holding my twitching cock in her hand after one of those near orgasms she looked me in the eyes and informed me that my orgasms were all hers to give/take when/where/how she wanted and IT IS TIME TO LOCK UP.

That is a monumental first for us. It took me a full minute to process what had happened and what she said but it is new territory.

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I lost my cool yesterday and it cost me dearly when we got home. I lost my temper and snapped while rearranging my son's dorm room yesterday. I made some choice comments: how we had touched moved/rearranged the bed's 5 or 6 damn times and something about a monkey and a football. Not good. MrsL looked at me while my son tried to lighten the mood laughing about the monkey comment. She never said anything and just let me vent and walk off my frustration by pacing in the hallway.

On the way home, I apologized numerous times and she simply said it was okay. I knew I had screwed up and wanted desparately to fix it somehow. After lounging on the couch for a few minutes, I got up to go to bed and MrsL asked me for my phone. I immediately knew what was going to happen. When I need to "thinking time" she puts me in our closet in a modified time out consisting of me naked, a hanger with clamps on my nipples, and the hanger placed on the closet shelf high enough that I have to stand on my toes to keep from pulling the clamps off of my nipples. Oh, and the closet door is shut and the light has to be off so it is dark and quiet. It is a nasty little punishment.

When she handed the phone back the timer was set for 15 minutes. This is one of those punishments that she makes me do to myself to add a little more impact. I dutifully went up to our closet stripped, shut the door, applied the hanger clamps, turned out the light, and hung myself up. I never cheat on the time! MrsL has never come up to check on me...until last night. About halfway through, I guess as I turn off the phone display so I don't have to watch the seconds tick by, I heard her coming up the stairs. She walked in the bedroom and in to our closet. I heard her get my fraternity pledge paddle off of the wall and within seconds felt it on my exposed ass cheeks. I am not sure why she broke her own rule of no corporal punishment in our bedroom but it is her rule to break. I lost count at three. She has spanked me before but not with this intensity. When you add in the fact that I am attached to the shelf by my now aching nipples and standing on my toes it made the spanking that much worse. After who knows how many swats, she stopped and hung the paddle back up and came over and started rubbing my sore cheeks while she spoke softly in my ear "it is okay to lose your temper every now and then...you are a man....but I would suggest simply walking it off next time without the coloful language".

She then grabbed my phone and thankfully started counting 10, 9, 8...and the alarm finally sounded on the timer. She gave me a kiss and left the room. I crawled in to bed and drifted off to sleep with sore nipples, throbbing ass cheeks, and a clear head. I LOVE HER!!!

Oh, the best part, today is our regular discipline day and I have racked up an impressive amount of penalties. I guess being unlocked for a week of vacation made my brain go limp and I forgot several rules on Friday: leaving the used Keurig cup in the machine, using the wrong colored hangers for the clothes, leaving clean/folded laundry laying downstairs even though I went upstairs numerous times. I am not sure how many swats all of this will add up to but I do know my rear is not ready for them....!

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Well, as mentioned in yesterday's update last night was regular discipline night. When my oldest son and his girlfriend du'jour left on a dinner date I could tell MrsL had forgotten and I was very conflicted. My backside was still a bit sore from the Saturday night session but I didn't want to make it worse. After I cleaned the kitchen from our dinner I walked up behind MrsL, who had insisted on helping with laundry, wrapped my arms around her and asked her if she was ready to discipline me.

"Oh, I almost forgot. It is a good thing you reminded me. Go to the garage and get ready."

The Steelheart was rapidly becoming very uncomfortable as the excitement grew but I knew it would not last long. I went to the garage, stripped from the waist down, and laid across the hood of her car. She took her time coming out but when she did she had my pledge paddle again.

"Do you want to know how many or should I just start?" Wow, what a question!!!

"Just start, please."

"First, you tell me what all you have done wrong this week and then I'll start."

"I have left my Keurig cup in the machine 3 times since we got home, I used the wrong colored hangers 4 times, I went upstairs empty handed too many times to count, and I left clothes in the washer and dryer when we left Sunday (which we knew as soon as we walked in Thursday afternoon from the moldy smell)."

"Okay." is all she said just as the first swat connected.

I didn't count...I didn't want to count....I just told myself to accept it and be a better husband. Needless to say the Steelheart was no longer uncomfortable as any excitement was long gone. It was all over with in just about a minute. MrsL announced "30" as she made the last lick count.

Afterwards, I asked her if I could please massage, scrub, and lotion her feet and she agreed. So I sat on the floor with a sore ass relishing in the fact I was allowed to buff and massage her feet...making them oh so soft. When I was finished, she then teased me through my shorts with her feet until my we heard the front door lock being turned....our son and his date coming home.

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I could not be more frustrated...and it is not because of MrsL's constant teasing and the fact that I have now gone longer without an orgasm than I ever have....!

Last night I had to call for a "health" check (our safe word for needing unlocked without question) due to an extremely sore spot where the PA loop intersected with the captive bead ring. What we found was an abrasion with some light bleeding where the CBR had been pressed in to the soft tissue around the urethra. I had a couple of seriously hard nocturnal erections Sunday night and I guess I have in too big of a captive bead ring.

MrsL was a bit concerned but I reassured her it would heal without issue. I am now unlocked letting things heal. I am going to have to find a smaller circumference captive bead ring or order a larger tube from Steelworxx! The other option is to find a completely different chastity device altogether and put the Steelheart up for sale??? Stay tuned!

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Things are healing up quite nicely and we are going to tinker with different CBR sizes tonight. I may have to go without the PA loop for a few days but we both want me locked up again ASAP.

MrsL enjoyed having access to her cock last night and was very gentle with her teasing. I am amazed at how just a simple light touch of her hand anywhere on my body instantly creates a full on erection, if not in her Steelheart, and she has become masterful at knowing just when to remove her hand(s) to keep me from having an orgasm.