"Hello world" thread

[BrianKC73]

Hi everyone. My name is Brian. I'm a 38 y/o white male. I work in Home Health as an RN, so i do as lot of driving around during the day. I have a girlfriend, Shannon, been dating for just over 2 months.
I have been locked in 'The Curve' male chastity device for approx 5 days now. Getting used to it. It's more like a piece of jewlery at this point.
I will admit, my original want to try chastity was probably for a fantasy/sexual type thing. But, since no sex is possible, let alone sexual satisfaction, that has changed.
I wouldn't say we are in a dominant/submissive relationship at all. in fact, if anything, Shannon likes me to be 'The Man', and be in control. Seeing as how our relationship has not been a long one, I was somewhat nervous (very, actually), at presenting her the idea. I thought she'd think it wierd (let's face it, it is), or that I was somehow emasculated. I bought the Curve (thinking abt switching to the CB6000, looks more comfortable) last week, and when it came in the mail, I spent one last night 'unlocked', just in case she did take this seriously, and masturbatrd as much as possible.
The next day, I stopped by her work to give her a surprise (the key). I was texting her about it on the way, and much to my surprise, she said it sounded 'fun'. She took the key. Later on she sent me a pic on my phone with the key in her mouth. Turns out.......she loves this control. She feels likevshe owns my penis. It' ws hers. She's in total control. I'm reallt shocked at how she's taking this seriously (be careful what u wish for). Even gone so far as to me orally pleasuring her, but she would not let me out. I asked if she was going to let me out for my birthday this friday......she said we shall see;). She seems to relish at it. For her it's not sexual, per se, but seems to be abt the power. She's not abusive, per se, and I am not a whimp or a pussy. She said she wants
to see what sex is like after I've been locked up for a week, or two. She said last night 'i guess you'll be locked up for another 10 days'. I havebno idea why, or if she's serious. for her part, she's been dresding way sexier, not wearing panties (at all), dresding in skirts, teasing me, and looking at my crotch snd smiling. I honestly think I've created a monster. Shannon tends to be the more submissive one.
For my part, I will admit to being a little frustrated. Especislly when making out and when i performed oral sex on her. I've noticed I have been smoking alot more, which, i know isn't healtny. This is honestly the longest I've ever gone without masturbating (usually do a few times a day) let alone touching my penis. I also wonder if people notice the bulge in my pants. But it's a wonderful 'mind-fuck', and I'm actually happy she's taking this control. Wondering where this will go. She hss said things like 'i might let u out for 5-10 mins to masturbate, but so far has not. I think she just wants to see how long i can go.
Anyhow, I'd interested to hear from anyone else.

Brian

[Sir Chaste]

Hello slavetojill and BrianKC73, and welcome to the Forums. We are always happy to give "advice and ideas to help make this as fun as possible," to couples who are "just learning the ropes." I can guarantee that you will both get "quite worked up, and it's only going to get worse." We have all learned that our KH's love to be "in total control," and make us "a little frustrated." However, you will find yourselves "actually happy she's taking this control," and she will always leave you "wondering where this will go." You are both "in" for quite an adventure. Read as much as possible of the previous threads and posts, and feel free to ask us questions. We will all look forward to hearing about your progress.

[RexRacer]

Hello Everyone,

My wife and I are on a path of dominance and submission. She being dominant and I being the submissive. It hasn't always been this way, when we first married we both wanted a D/S relationship and I was the dominant husband and she was my submissive wife. As time progress things changed and true natures reviled themselves it became apparent to me that I was suppressing my submissive side due to social pressures and my upbringing. Its a big long story how I've transformed into wanting to be a submissive and maybe one day I will go into detail about it if anyone wanted to know more. To be honest I'm still not sure about the decision.

I am 44 years old and my wife is 38 she has told me she wants me in chastity and to exclusively own my sexuality and she is currently searching for a device that will kept me locked up and prevent any unauthorized masturbation. I'm pretty sure that a Prince Albert piercing is in my future because she has heard it is the most reliable of devices to prevent unauthorized orgasms.

Who knows what will happen from here on out. Things could go great or it could become an utter failure.
Either way, I'm happy to have found a resource like this forum to ask questions and get some opinions.

Hello everyone.

[Sir Chaste]

Hello again RexRacer! As I already wrote a welcome to you on the "Prostatic Orgasm" thread, I won't repeat it all here. We are all pleased that you "have found a resource like this forum to ask questions and get some opinions." Become a regular contributor to these threads, as I know that all of the members will follow your progress with great interest.

[notcb3000]

Hi there

Not sure if my last post got deleted

We are a couple in the UK. I always wanted to explore my subby fantasies with my wife and sometimes she was OK with it but didn't exactly get hugely excited about the idea. Eventually we hit on chastity as something we could both enjoy.

Im now kept in full time chastity with regular teasing and denial which is awesome

We are up for meeting other UK couples, if like us you are fit, healthy, drug free and cool!

Best

Notcb3000

[celticqueens_sub]

Welcome, sorry if your last post got deleted. We get so much spam, sometimes we miss the genuine ones. Have fun exploring the boards.

[Sir Chaste]

notcb3000: No, your post of July 2nd was not deleted, and it can be read on page 59. I wrote a "Welcome" to you on that same day, and it can also be found on page 59. Again, welcome to our little corner of the internet!

[A-F]

Hey all! New KH here. I've been lurking the board for a few days, and reading Dev's and Tom's blogs for about a week. I kind of stumbled on MC a couple of weeks ago and jokingly mentioned it to my husband... Who told me the he had been wanting it for a couple of years but didn't know how to bring it up to me! So, he got locked up Wednesday as soon as it came in the mail, lol! Then off to work he goes, comes home Friday afternoon....and I get my 'visitor'. Great timing, huh? But, wow, love it so far otherwise, I find I'm always playing with the key.

[Sir Chaste]

Hello A-F, and welcome to the Forums. Many of our members "kind of stumbled on MC," and then "jokingly mentioned it to" their partner. Often, the other party "had been wanting it for" some time, "but didn't know how to bring it up." However, now that your husband "got locked up" "as soon as it came in the mail," you will discover that MC will become an important part of your relationship. I hope that you will learn as much as you can from the previous threads and posts, and always feel free to ask questions. The other members are all available to give you advice and support, and we will look forward to hearing about your progress. And continue "playing with the key" in front of your husband. It will drive him crazy! Good luck to both of you!

[Tom Allen]

Hey all! New KH here. I've been lurking the board for a few days, and reading Dev's and Tom's blogs for about a week. I kind of stumbled on MC a couple of weeks ago and jokingly mentioned it to my husband...

Just out of curiosity, can you tell us how you stumbled across it and what went through your mind? I'm asking because 90% of the time it seems that it's men who introduce it to their partners, not the other was 'round.