"Hello world" thread

[Tongue+groove]

Welcome

[SelfLock101]

Hi everyone, I am not a spammer... but I am a self locking man looking to hopefully find a community with you all here and hopefully find some encouragement in this lifestyle of wearing a chastity device. I stumbled upon chastity cages in 2020, tried one on and it felt indescribable... like it was how I was meant to and should have been living my life. Only problem is that I am a self locking guy and I get anxious wearing it, I feel like maybe I'm less manly at times and then I also feel like EVERYONE can see me wearing it via the bulge of the cage (it's not really visible), but i just get nervous cause it's all new to me being public spaces wearing something that is giving me slight arousing sensations in public spaces. Well, hope to strike up a chat with some of you and to be encouraged to confidently self lock more regularly.

P.S. hope this isn't TMI but I'm about 6in' and bit girthy, use to be close to 7in' but after 3 years of off and on again chastity use I lost about an inch. It may be a fantasy but I always wanted to lock my thing up for a full year and shrink it to the point that I no longer have much or any erections anymore, and then "permanently" lock it away in the micro/nub sized metal ball looking cage with the small urethral tube.

[Curiousrk]

Welcome all. This is a great place to explore. Safe to do without judgement.

[gotwang]

Hello world X2

Wow, it's been a long time since I've been here. Over the years, there's been a lot of learning. First off, the CB-6000 was terrible! I also learned that I'm just not that big. I didn't fill the cage at all. I spent a lot of time looking at other cages and have found a metal one from Amazon that fits nicely. I've tried flat cages too. While they are comfortable, they just aren't the best for long time lockups because of cleaning. I've made it through locktober a few times now and I'm currently 29 days locked. During the covid summer, my longest lock up was 77 days. I'm glad to be a part of this community and look forward to what the future holds.

Hello World!!

Where to begin? Browsing through Tumblr I always saw some pictures of guys locked up. It sparked my curiosity which then turned into me driving by a sex shop several times working up enough guts to go in. I ended up buying a CB-6000. I tried it on a few times, wore it around then put it away. It wasn't until just recently when I saw a bunch of guys doing Locktober that I got back into it. Over the last few weeks I've been wearing the cage off and on. The last few days however, I've been locked unless I was in the shower. So now, here I am. Looking for other like minded people to chat with.

[Tongue+groove]

Welcome, welcome to each of you..

[cagedanalslave]

Hello world, I am a long term caged anal boi slave to my Mistress Ava Von Medisin, living and serving in UK

[SelfLock101]

Thanks for the welcome.

@gotwang, finally someone that understands me lol. I've been off and on again sparingly using chastity devices for a couple gours here and there but never actually go all out and wear it, but every time October "locktober" comes around I star looking at photos too and I start thinking to myself how the heck do these guys do it? How are they able to be locked for so long? Needless to say self locking is HARD! Hope, its been going well for this locktober. Wish me luck lol.

[JustChattin]

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[Poena]

52 from South Africa. Newly locked. Still searching for the perfect cage, and have purchased a few. I tend to swop them around. Currently at work with steel one (seems to work the best for general wear during the day). At night have a larger plastic base ring, but shorter cage that keeps all together. Long time lurker. But such a great community.

[Poena]

Hello world,

I'm 50, been married for almost 25. I'm incredibly curious about chastity, but I have no experience with it. My wife is great, but she is very conservative, so I don't know how to approach it.

Looking forward to hearing from the experts.

Good day. I find myself in the same position that you are in. Whilst my wife is quite aware that I am adventurous, she is quite conservative, and I am not sure how to broach the subject with her. She is currently overseas for 6 months till December, and I have used this time to experiment with cock cages. And I am hooked. It feels natural, and whilst I am my own keyholder, I am relying on my own stubbornness to soldier through.

I wish to make this a permanent feature in our relationship, but however will have to broach the subject and get agreement from wife. For now, I am utilizing this time to first of all remain chaste (I wear my cage near 24.7 except some nights), and working through the emotional changes that I am noticing.

I don't think there is a magic way of how to spring this on your significant other, but would suggest probably buying a cage and start of wearing it when you are not with her. This will give you a chance to decide whether it is just a flying fancy, or whether you want to include your wife and introduce it as a fixture in your relationship.

I am not into sissification, feminization, or using it as a humiliation. I am quite dominant and do not foresee that we will proceed to a FLR. However, I can see the benefits of denying my own needs to focus more on my wife in the bedroom.

The best of luck to you.